Do single ranch owners exist?

[InquisitiveObserver]

Long story short, I just got played by one. I’m wondering if another guy with similar characteristics exists. Particularly one who owns a ranch since I got caught up in the fantasy of a country lifestyle.

[DaveJord]

I am sure they do, but like you... ladies like guys that own land and life that fantasy. They tend to get snatched up. Where I come from, it was dairy farmers.

[InquisitiveObserver]

So does that mean that I have no hope?

[DaveJord]

Ah... there's always hope. But guys that own ranches, tend to be more self indulgent and play the field. I hate to generalize but 2nd to 3rd generation dairy farmers I know here... are little better than trust fund babies.. Not to say they don't work hard, just that they didn't do it for themselves. They are used to things coming easy.

[InquisitiveObserver]

Are all ranch owners trust fund babies as in filthy rich? The guy in question is good looking and a ranch owner and he cheated on his girlfriend with me... I didn’t know he had a girlfriend. I told her everything, but she still took him back.

[DaveJord]

Rich is relative... but land is usually the defining requirement for a ranch... most ranchers inherent land. Doesn't mean they are rich. Depends how successful the ranch is.

[DaveJord]

If you were just the other girl, you're done. he's never going to leave his wife... she'll take him for 50% of everything he has if there was no prenuptial agreement. Guys who cheat on there wife's doesn't mean they don't think their wife's are sexy. Remember I said they seld indulgent.

I'd say the dream is dead with him, hope it was fun as it lasted.

[InquisitiveObserver]

He’s not married, he has a girlfriend. I don’t want to be with a cheater anyways. I want to find someone who is also a ranch owner.

[InquisitiveObserver]

I forgot that we were just talking on the other thread lol

[DaveJord]

Cool hope I didn't say things silly

[InquisitiveObserver]

No you’re good lol I just wanted the reassurance that I could find a better guy than the guy who just played me. The fantasy of living on a ranch is making it so hard to let go. What should I do to move forward?

[DaveJord]

Heck I don't really know... that depends on you. Sever contact... its not a healthy situation for you. I am I don't know, not making assumptions. But I wouldn't communicate with this guy in any way... its just becomes a trap that drags you down.

Try not to fall into the rebound trap... so be careful. Get back on that horse, forgive the pun. Invest in yourself and stay active in your hobbies and interests outside of dating.

[InquisitiveObserver]

How can I get my feelings unattached and forget about this guy? Also, where can I find a single guy who owns a ranch, like him?

[horatiohornblower]

Sure they do. But you're really narrowing the dating pool. Maybe start hitting up country fairs and hope to meet one.

[InquisitiveObserver]

Apparently they get snatched up quickly based on someone else’s response. Does that mean there is no hope left?

[WhiteBoyChill]

Why yes of course. In New Mexico I know white guys who own ranches

[InquisitiveObserver]

Are any of them single?

[WhiteBoyChill]

A few are. But I really don’t know much else about them

[InquisitiveObserver]

Is it true that they are all snatched up and that a lot of girls want the same?

[WhiteBoyChill]

Uhm yeah. There definitely are plenty of women that find country guys attractive

[InquisitiveObserver]

So they’re all snatched up? :(

[WhiteBoyChill]

Not necessarily. I’d go to some bars and see what happens

[WhiteBoyChill]

There are young ranch boys in their 20’s looking to marry so even if you a little bit older than them it should be fine because women still look great even into their 30’s

[InquisitiveObserver]

I’m 26 years old lol

[WhiteBoyChill]

You should be fine. Plenty of men remain single until they are 30.

[WhiteBoyChill]

And do you like country guys because they’re very masculine men or for other reasons?

[InquisitiveObserver]

I like the idea of owning a ranch and living the country life lol

[WhiteBoyChill]

That’s very cute ❤️. Unfortunately I didn’t grow up in the country and I didn’t inherit such a place.

[WhiteBoyChill]

But do a lot of latinas feel the same way would you say? I’m thinking I might want to marry one from the countryside in Mexico

[boggboss]

Pretty sure they would statistically

[InquisitiveObserver]

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Apparently they get snatched up quickly based on someone else’s response. Does that mean there is no hope left?

[boggboss]

Nope as there are billions of humans out there

[InquisitiveObserver]

Is it possible for me to find a ranch owner who is loyal, faithful, and who loves me? i can’t help but think that they don’t exist since so many women want them...

[JoyGirl]

There is a dating site for country guys. 🤪