Girls, Have you ever attended a sporting event where the guy you had a crush on was playing?

[Anonymous]

If you saw him get hit in the balls, would you expect him to take it “like a man”?

or how would you expect him to react?

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't say he was my crush, but he was a very dreamy boy, in high school. The boys were playing handball and he got hit with the ball hard between the legs and needed to be carried out.
I hardly think it made anyone think any less of him as a man. On the contrary, as 14 year old we were just starting to think of boys sexually, and this incident made us all very aware of his boy parts. If anything I was thinking more of his manliness, as it was very brave jumping that way (he was trying to defend the goal when it happened, and, well... He did). It was stupid, but very brave. We all knew he was a pretty dumb guy, so the only thing we learned was that he was also brave.

[Asker]

How did he react? I took a soccer ball to the nuts and dropped to my knees holding my nuts. Im worried they think I’m weak or small down there

[Opinion Owner]

He dropped and needed to be carried off the field. He just spent the rest of the game watching from the bench.

[Asker]

What do you think the girl I liked who was watching thought of me while she saw me hold my balls in pain? Don’t girls like guys to be tough with sports?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, but going down after you got hit there didn't mean you're not tough. I told you, we thought of him even more sexually after this incident.

[Asker]

Why did you think about him more sexually? So girls don’t think it’s a bad thing that guys balls are really fragile?

[Opinion Owner]

On the first thing I already answered in the original opinion. On the second thing... Well, I don't think it's a good thing... I just don't think about it very often.

[Asker]

I guess as a guy, we want girls to think our man parts and big and strong, and now just probably thinks I’m vulnerable down there

[DeeDeeDeVour]

When my husband & I were still just dating, we attended each other's athletic & academic competitions to show support.

[Asker]

If you saw him take a hit to the balls and go down to the ground, would you think less of his manliness?

[DeeDeeDeVour]

"If" I did, no.

[Asker]

The girl I like was at my soccer game saw me get hit in the balls and drop to the ground. Now I’m worried she thinks I’m not manly and am small down there

[DeeDeeDeVour]

That should not overshadow your other qualities.

[Asker]

Doesn’t it make a guy look weak if he goes down from a hit in the balls in sports?

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Also, people take hits they can recover from.

[Asker]

Have you seen a guy get hit in the balls?

[DeeDeeDeVour]

In competitions or just friendly games? Yes, I have. Accidents happen. It never dawned on me to look any less of him. I felt bad when I see some guys unable to recover and continue playing. Still, I didn't look less of them.

[Asker]

Does it look weird when we’re holding our balls on the ground in pain? do women understand how fragile a guys balls are?

[DeeDeeDeVour]

When I see a guy squirm in anguish, I can imagine how painful it must be for him. I don't find it weird. I find it painful for him. Yes, I understand how fragile that part of man is.

[Asker]

It’s embarrassing to admit to girls how fragile our balls are because it’s our manliest area you know?

[A_girl_with_no_name]

It happened to my crush in high school. Guys were playing soccer and girls were watching. A guy kicked the ball which hit my crush in his balls. He immediately held his private parts and fell to the ground. The girls were shocked at first, then they were laughing. I was a little worried and felt bad for him. Fortunately he was ok after a few minutes. Every guy I've seen getting hit hard enough in the testicles had the same reaction, so I guess that's how men take a kick to their privates. It's also how I would expect them to take it.

[Anonymous]

Yes I did actually all of us since its our school event everyone can join, but if he got hit in the balls I think My expectations is he will not take it as a man since it will hurt he will not help it and he will not care if it will be embarrassing since I know all man will feel that too if that happens and even if he take it as a man he can't stop the pain and besides his not popular and in our school there is no popularity all of us are just average normal teenagers Habe fun in our lives.😅

[Asker]

But don’t you expect guys to be tough with injuries?

[Opinion Owner]

I do expect them to be tough but I dont care if there tough or not because when it come to injuries I'm worried about that because he can do toughness all the time but if he's injured This is a serious topic even if it's just a small injury, and Im glad that even if he will be injured he act so tough and not weak because as long as he's ok i dont care what kind of attitudes he do as long as his ok its fine for me and as long as the injured part is already treated.

[Asker]

Have you seen a guy in sports take a hit in the balls? How did he react?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, he was in extreme pain and it came to the point that he falls to the ground and can't stand up because of how painful it is. and I think it leads to the point where his world got destroyed because of the pain. my cousin got it too but the first time I saw someone get it in the balls is when My cousins and I were playing in the backyard. the second time is when I'm watching sports the funny moments but that's the second time I saw someone get hit in the balls😅Im, not into sports but I watched funny moments when I get bored.

[Renee_IsCool1]

No, I wouldn't expect him to take it. I've seen a lot of guys get hit there and I can't imagine how painful it feels.

[Asker]

But don’t girls expect athletes to be somewhat tough during sports?

[Renee_IsCool1]

Depends on the sport. Some more physical sports like football require guys to be tougher but from my experience, when a guy gets hit in the balls, it’s over for him pretty quickly.

[Asker]

Have you seen that happen to a guy in sports?

[Renee_IsCool1]

Yeah I do kickboxing so I've seen a few guys take kicks and knees to that area, occasionally from me (whoops).

[Asker]

I take Krav Maga and that happens a lot. Even with a cup, it really hurts. Have you heard of krav?

[Renee_IsCool1]

Yeah, it's Israeli right?

[Asker]

Yeah! I just sent you a follow so I can DM you. There’s a girl in my class I’m trying to impress, would love your advice on talking to her!

[Renee_IsCool1]

Ok, I don't know how to DM, I'm pretty new to this site. You DM me

[Asker]

You have to follow me back so I can send a DM

[Renee_IsCool1]

Ok I followed you back :)

[quaxiki]

It happened to my boyfriend once. He was playing soccer and he got hit by the ball. It really weakened him and he ended up falling to the floor.
Trainers had to help him to go out of the field because for some reason he couldn't walk.

[Asker]

We’re you surprised he couldn’t handle a hit in the balls?

[quaxiki]

I was rather feeling bad for him

[Anonymous]

Not a crush but it happened to my son. I didn't know what to expect before and I don't what take it like a man means but I can tell he took it pretty badly

[Asker]

What Sport was it? What happened?

[Opinion Owner]

He was basically kicked by another guy while playing soccer

[Asker]

Does it surprise women when a guy drops to his knees holding his balls after a hit? It happened to me in front of my crush and now I’m worried she thinks I’m not tough or manly

[Opinion Owner]

Of course, that must require a very hard hit to drop a guy to his knees.
I'm sorry for what happened to you but I don't think she'll think that way. Talk to her

[Asker]

How did your son react? I thought women expected guys to be somewhat tough and manly with sports

[Opinion Owner]

Yes I think so, he spent some time on the floor

[Asker]

We’re you surprised he was so fragile down there?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, in fact I saw the kick but I didn't realize what happened at first

[Asker]

How do you know for sure what happened? Maybe he got kicked in the leg

[Opinion Owner]

Because I heard some girl talk about it

[Asker]

What do you mean? What was she talking about?

[Opinion Owner]

She was coming here to watch her younger brother playing and she was explaining what happened

[Asker]

Did she actually describe it in detail or just say it looked like he was injured? I’m curious how a girl would describe that delicate injury?

[Opinion Owner]

I don't remember but she said something that make me understand what happened, so enough details

[Asker]

I just don’t understand why some girls giggle when they see a guy hit in the balls.

Did you talk to him about his delicate injury? That must’ve been awkward for both of you since it’s private parts

[Opinion Owner]

No because he looked fine since he ran till the end of the game. I just asked if he was ok at the end but not specifically

[Asker]

As a guy, it’s embarrassing to let women know that our balls are fragile you know? We want you to think they are big and tough

[Opinion Owner]

I don't get it. Because you drop to your knees?

[Asker]

Yeah dropping to my knees and holding my balls in front of her, it must’ve not looked very manly

[Opinion Owner]

Probably not, but if someone kicked you it may be understandable

[Asker]

The soccer ball hit me square in the balls. Why do you think that’s understandable

[Opinion Owner]

Because a kick anywhere always hurts.
With a ball I'd be surprised because people can usually be hit by a ball without dropping

[Asker]

You’ve seen someone get hit with a ball in the nuts and not drop?

[Opinion Owner]

I don't remember but I wouldn't expect people to drop

[Asker]

Why is that? Don’t you know how sensitive a guys balls are?

[Opinion Owner]

Of course I know but I don't have them so I can't tell

[FictionalCharacter]

I hate sports