My crush said I'm his type and how to make him like me more and fall in love with me?

[WhatDoesHeMean]

The boy I crush on said I'm cute both person and voice, and I'm his type. But he doesn't seem to want to make move. What does he mean that I'm his type and what should I do to make him move and ask me out?
We haven't met outside because of corona and country situation is bad that we can't go outside. But we attend same class with Zoom and it's been about 3 months. I've only talked with him 3 times.

[boltfox20]

There are two possibilities when it comes to this situation with men.

Either
1. He is waiting
or
2. He is too shy

There is a third option, that he is not actually interested, but that is a VERY rare occasion for men.

Since he already told you that you are cute and his type, he might just be waiting. Either he is waiting for you to make a move on him or he is waiting for the right time to make his next move. However, he could also be a shy person and it took everything he had to tell you that he liked you. He might not have said it, outright, but the compliments he gave were a roundabout way of confessing his attraction. It is also possible that he wants to ask you out, but there is no "out" for him to ask about, so he might think it is awkward to ask you on a date that might not happen for a long time.

My advice would be to make the next move. Even something as small as telling him that you find him attractive would be a good next move. It would tell him, without a doubt, that you are interested in him and you accept his confession with a smile.

If you wanted to push this beyond just admitting interest, you could ask him out, instead. While there is nothing outside that you can do, there are other methods of dating that can be done online.

For example:

In a situation where you would ask him out to dinner, you would instead ask him to join you for dinner, over Zoom. Each of you would get your meal, sit in front of your computers, and have your date through video chat. To add a little more authenticity to it, you can both order from a specific local restaurant and have it delivered via Door Dash, Uber Eats, or some other service. Then you will have a restaurant meal, if not the full experience. Go ahead and get dressed up for it, too, if you think he would like that. Guys eat that stuff up, no pun intended.

In a situation where you want to watch a movie, there are several ways to watch a movie, together, online. You could share the movie over Zoom, with a little bit of delay, but you could also use a site like Watch2Gether to allow you to watch anyone online video. With a site like that, you each watch it at the same time, from your own computer, removing a lot of the delay between what you and him will be seeing. I believe some streaming services also allow two people with an account to watch things together. If all else fails, there is an extension for the Chrome web browser called Netflix Party that allows people to watch Netflix on their computers with other people.

Any kind of date beyond that I will leave to your imagination. ;)

The point is, there is always a way to further potential love. You just need to get creative with it, sometimes. And sometimes women have to be the initiators in order to get that ball rolling. Men no longer have to be the strong and confident one in the relationship, women can do it, too.

I wish you luck on your relationship. I hope you two have a long and happy life together. :)

[MotorcycleMan]

Kind of hard to ask someone out when you can't go out.
Maybe he is waiting. Tell him that he is your type too.
Tell him you'd be interested in getting together once you are able to.

[kenz000]

Don’t try to change yourself because there’s a reason he crushed on you in the first place. Send him a chat or something during your class (if you can do private ones). Let him know you are ready for more

[PrettyPriya]

You can't make someone fall in love. What you can do is continue to build the relationship. A serious relationship with love involved takes time and effort.

[WhatDoesHeMean]

So what should I do to build that?

[PrettyPriya]

@WhatDoesHeMean

Ok, so by the looks of it, a logical next step would be to meet for a casual get together. Perhaps some coffee or lunch.

Once you start getting familiar in person with him, then keep adding time. If you really click, perhaps you will fall in love with each other. It isn't something that can be forced though.

[PrettyPriya]

Thank you for MHG

[HughDogg]

I wise man once said: a relationship is like a fart. If you force it, it's usually shit

[dazzinu69]

This means you need to make the move

[WhatDoesHeMean]

How to make move?

[dazzinu69]

Pm me

[t-8900]

what he said, do it. Fingers crossed.

[In_Trance]

All you have to do is be yourself