Do I have a shot with attractive guys?

[Anonymous]

I have average looks.. Im easy going
I have a great job and I come from money

[uwotm8e]

It depends on what you mean by attractive. Things like height are unchangeable, and many put a hard limit on it. Look up how many people are 6' for example. If every woman goes for that, it's essentially a game of musical chairs unless they are willing to share. I doubt a lot want to do that.

If that's you, you need to take some action and maximize what you can.
If you have average looks, improve that. Improve your diet and go to the gym to start. Women don't need a lot of muscle to be attractive, just enough to give a sense of tone. Improving your body fat % helps with facial features too (don't go too low!).

Easy going is good, but find out more about what guys like. It's rarely talked about, but there are traits that guys like in the same way women like confidence. Kindness, thankfulness, and a small amount of innocence will go a long way. It's not hard to improve a guys mood.

It's good that you have a job and money, but most guys understand that it will actually be a liability. They know that women are typically unwilling to date someone that makes less money or of lower class. If you go out there making it seem like he's not needed because of X or Y, it's going to put him down. Instead of doing that, make it an addition to your character. If you can hold interesting conversations, it'll be more likely that he'll keep you around. DO NOT try to throw amazing accomplishments and experiences at his face though. That comes across standoffish and superior.

[NetSapien]

Easy going and Average looks, these things are really subjective though, isn't it?

I mean, I'm sure you and I will even have varying opinions on your definition of "attractive guys". I'm pretty sure not ALL women consider the same traits 'attractive' on guys, else no babies would get made.

Be mindful of the "I come from money" bit. Worthy guys don't want your money, but, how likely are they going to be judged by their wallet?

The way you look and carry yourself, your character, your attitude, is what will be your most attractive assets.

[JustAnj]

Are you interested in a guy you find to be attractive?

[DonkeyDan]

I love how you are describing yourself as average looking, yet you are seeking attractive guys. What's wrong with the average guys? I wouldn't necessarily be so keen to be jumping at attractive guys, just like attractive women they know they are attractive, and tend to have a narcissistic personality to match. People who are less preoccupied with their looks tend to be much better partners, and generally nicer more loyal people.

[Asker]

Dont take it personally the question was purely objective..

[HawkPerception]

Not saying I'm attractive, but my personal opinion is I don't care whether or not you come from money or if you have a good job or not. The only things I care about are:

1. Are you attractive enough to date? (7/10 or above)

2. Do we have good chemistry (Flowing communication/we just get each other, similar interests, views, sense of humor, etc)

[slatyb]

I think that depends on what is attractive to you. If your target is too small, then you probably won't hit it. For example, if you will only date a man who is at least 6'2" tall, fit, and earns $200K+, then you may have a hard time finding him.

[Asker]

No, all I look for is funny kind and attractive.. everything else otherwise is okay..

[slatyb]

"Funny, kind, and attractive..." There's that word again... "attractive". What percentage of the men you see are attractive enough for you to consider dating?

[hahahmm]

Yeah, but guys tend not to think like women so it's not your job or money that attracts a normal guy. If you want an abnormal dude then brag about your job and cash in online dating profiles.

[Cloud-9]

Most guys like to "get a catch" so be that catch. Embrace your personality and there are a million ways you can make yourself attractive to a man other than pretty face 😉

[Truthatanycost]

'I have a great job and I come from money '

You're projecting... most guys don't care about that.

[CapnHawk]

You have as good a shot as the next girl. Looks aren't everything.

[Luckycharms12]

Firstly coming from money and having good job good for you but that will not make someone like you. Being nice fun down to earth interesting

[Asker]

I know.. but I feel like that is what I got going for me

[Luckycharms12]

That's not true sure way more to you than that selling yourself short

[zagor]

Why don't you go for an average guy who is a good dependable interesting guy?

[Anonymous]

Why would an attractive guy go for you? 🤣 even average girls don’t want average guys. An attractive guy is just going to fantasise over a girl who truly wants to be with

[Wise4myage]

Yes you do, its all about self confidence.

[JinxyKat]

Average? or "average"?

[LegendaryIcon]

nope