Am I attractive to guys?

[Anonymous]

Dating for me is so hard. I'm not sure if I'm not attractive enough to date, or if I'm just a pretty face and that's all guys want. The guys who usually show interest in me text me, they take me out (if I ask), and they stare at me. However, they never give me compliments. I always put effort into my makeup and hair, and random strangers compliment me more than they do. Furthermore, they always seem to only want to sleep with me. Then, they start obsessing over me in a weird way. If I can't hang out on a specific day they want me to, they get mad at me and stop talking to me completely. I'm not sure if my looks are all I have to offer them, or if they were never genuinely attracted to me and I just happened to be there.

[RedInnocent68]

Be grateful if you are a pretty face. Attraction and relationships have to start somewhere. It’s okay to be physically attracted/attractive to someone. Sure, plenty of guys may just want to jump you and not be interested in a relationships, but it’s okay to take things slow and figure out if you want what they want, and vice versa. The fact that you’re asking makes me expect that you’re very attractive, but like a lot of girls, have self esteem issues that are holding you back from understanding your true potential and power. Feel free to message.

[Asker]

So if I do get attention I’m attractive? I just don’t know if they genuinely want me tbh

[RedInnocent68]

Yeah, pretty much…

[Anonymous]

You have guys taking you out and paying for date? How is dating hard for a woman? When is the last time you paid to take a guy out for a date and he flaked on you?

Stfu you have it so easy. I don't want to hear this nonsense.

[Asker]

They don’t flake on me afterwards. They’re always down to hangout with me again. It’s just I don’t know it they really like me or not.

[Daffotul]

men are afraid to compliment now a days it's quite sad maybe ask them how you look

[bededazzle]

set your own standards and stick to them.