Would a man travel 3.5 hours to see you if he’s not serious?

[Anonymous]

[t-8900]

You're overthinking it. He travels to see you From that far. Its been 6 months and not sex Everytime. Yes he's totally into you. Some men aren't as emotionally intelligent and can't convey feelings well so you might see "mixed signals" but it's not the case. Calm down a bit, relax, don't stress out so much. Zen girl, zen

[Asker]

Thank you. That’s the most helpful answer so far.

[t-8900]

No worries. Chin up, have faith,. 😊👍

[ohshee]

Has he ever met you before if he hasn't then he's curious yes he's interested but he's also curious he needs to confirm what he feels and that's by standing next to you so yes he's interested

[Asker]

Yeah been seeing each other a while now

[ohshee]

Well then that means that you've been talking for a while and you can feel your energy Wendy's miles and miles and miles away so he's going to want to get right up next to that energy just to fill it to see how intense you are he wants to know if what he is really feeling is true and I'm going to say he's going to find out it is very true

[jennifer_bloom]

I know a guy who travelled 4 hours to see a girl cause she slept with him in the past and he was hoping it would happen again, they were at a party together and he waited until all the guests left to proposition her.

[tatianamay]

Why would he travel 3.5 hours if he didn't like you? I can't say if he is serious or not, but im pretty sure he likes you. For how long have you guys been talking?

[Asker]

6 months. You’d be surprised, as others have said some guys can be a little desperate in that sense.

[tatianamay]

Well, yeah, but its usually the players who do that. Are you sure he is a gwnuine guy who is not a player? He must really like you a lot

[jasco]

No he would not unless he was really horny. Honestly i know I wouldn't

[Jay3344]

Sometimes I wouldn’t even leave town to see a girl. So if he is traveling that far he likes you.

[innerman]

You might be on the same way to his dentist... so yeah, he checks on you

[shades777]

depends, am i staying for a few days or just for a day, if its for a day, no, i got stuff to do

[Cowboy6666]

Well some guys would even go further for sex only

[Asker]

Guys that aren’t as attractive you mean?

[Cowboy6666]

I mean any player guy.

[Asker]

This guy isn’t a player type with lots of women on the go

[Cowboy6666]

I know but he wants sex for sure.

[Asker]

I know that much, just trying to figure out whether it’s anything more than that or not. He says it is which of course he will but I’m still not sure yet as little things here and there make me question it.

[Cowboy6666]

He wants relationship? Something serious?

[Asker]

He wants exclusivity and to see where things go, it’s still early days for us at 6 months (I’m also unsure at times too).

[Asker]

I feel like testing him by letting him think I’m falling for him to see whether he tries to ruin it or not by doing something I’d dislike

[Cowboy6666]

I see. You can talk about that in DM in detail, if you want , drop DM or follow my profile☺

[Asker]

I’ll just see how he is in person next (after sex) and see what vibes I get

[Cowboy6666]

How old is he?

[Asker]

Early 40s

[Cowboy6666]

I know some guys or ladies will visit their partners even in their countries 1000s miles away

[Avicenna]

Maybe for sex he would

[Anonymous]

Not really , must really like you

[Asker]

Why?

[Asker]

Some guys will travel far just for sex

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah exactly, definitely has his reasons

[Asker]

So, really likes the sex you mean

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah or he really likes you

[Asker]

Well I need to figure out a way to test which it is before I invest any further.

[Opinion Owner]

Well if you don’t give him sex each time and he still comes back then I guess you’ll have your answer

[Asker]

We do meet up on days without sex. We’ve also spent days together and not had sex daily..

[Opinion Owner]

Then that’s a good sign of him being serious

[Asker]

I do get mixed signals though too at times

[Aurora1010]

I think no. It's a long distance

[Asker]

It’s not always like that.

[kyleelyn199723]

How often is he traveling to see you?

[Asker]

We see each other every week when local but every 2-3 weeks when long distance for work.

[kyleelyn199723]

@asker could be up in the air.

[Asker]

That won’t be long term, it’s only temporary.

[In_Trance]

if he knew he was gonna get laid, yes

[Wise4myage]

That seems like a complete waste of time.

[Asker]

Why?

[Wise4myage]

Because he's not serious?

[Asker]

I gathered you thought that…the question was why. The justification will tell whether it seems likely or not.

[Wise4myage]

Distance and cost of gas.

[lxndrthgrsn]

I wouldn’t, he must like you :)

[FTnWo]

I wouldn't

[noohair]

Desperate maybe.

[Fuentes]

Thats far