What are some ways to touch a girl you like without feeling like a creep?

[Anonymous]

So the other day, I meant to pat my crush’s back when she was talking to someone as My way of letting her know that I was leaving. But without thinking I was actually caressing her back with my hand. It just felt so natural and good. Maybe it’s from all that tension between us. As soon as I turn the corner, out of her view, I can hear her yell in excitement to her friend. I’m glad she liked it. Honestly, I just feel like touching her now because we’re so shy around each other that it’s insane. I just feel like if I get personal with her, we can finally be comfortable around each other.

[Jcrummy98]

Just hug her and hold her hand. That's the first step to get physical.

[Anonymous]

Ask her if she wants a massage

[Asker]

I don’t know if that’ll work because we work together (we can date coworkers at our job). So she’s always moving. I thought of moving her hair out of the way, because she does tend to move it out of her eyes when she talks to me.

[all_hayl]

You “don’t know if that will work?” You sound like you’re more concerned about getting your jollies off than you are about being respectful of her. In other words, yep, you definitely sound like a creep.
That’s my two cents. Moving on.

[Asker]

@all_hayl what? Lol. You make no sense. Asking a coworker for a massage is a bit more of a creep move. You don’t even know me anyways. Plus, she did like that I was playing with her….