How do you flirt with a girl without coming off as creepy?

[pethouse]

I’ll be honest when Im around pretty women I lose all confidence. I feel like If I were to try to flirt with a girl I’d be awkward and I’m afraid that it might come off as creepy. Can someone give me some tips?

[Finchie40]

Compliment something about her , Her hair her eyes her outfit , just don’t compliment her tits and ass lol it can work at times lol but slimmer chance of that working lol Put yourself in her shoes , picture how you would want a girl that noticed you to approach you , that you didn’t know , catching you off guard , just be yourself and polite , be confident , girls love confidence , Now we wouldn’t mind a beautiful girl coming up to us and saying she wants to rip our clothes off, but that’s what makes guys and girl’s different lol but if you look all nervous as fuck and scared , she will be freaked out, thinking what the fuck drugs is this dude on or thinking you are a sick pervert. It’s ok to be a little buzzed, but don’t be drunk unless she is fucked up as well lol Look her in the eyes with a little smirk on your face letting her know you are safe and not some creep that is going stalk her ass , always remember she has no clue who the fuck you are , so you don’t want to come off creepy as fuck , talk to her like you would talk to a co worker at your job , it’s ok to be a little shy cuz if she likes you back, she is going to be shy as well, once you both get into a comfort zone where the conversation is easier for the both of you , then you can start flirting with her and asking her for her number and ask if she likes to get together sometime , it isn’t always going to work, because we don’t walk around with signs flashing over our heads saying what are relationship status is but your chances are a lot better when you approach a girl that way , if she isn’t interested in you, and she says I’m sorry I am already seeing someone , be polite and say ok I understand, you were definitely worth a shot and just walk away , if she is rude to you right from the start , yes she is just a stuck up cunt that thinks her shit don’t stink , but don’t take it to heart and be rude back to her , just say sorry to bother you and walk away , You have to remember a girl’s brain is wired different from us guys , she has a 1000 things racing in her head at all times, as for us guys we don’t come close to as much as she does lol but being a gentlemen and polite and confident is going to turn her on , even after you walk away she is going to eventually process what just happened to her , and she might change her mind and come chasing you , if she does , just tease her and say oh did you have a change of heart all of a sudden you hated me like 2 minutes ago , she will smile and say she is sorry and apologize , if she does that , you are getting laid period lol Always remember girls like a guy that she can look up to , that has masculine energy and confidence and also has a heart , let her be a bitch, but don’t stoop down to her negative level make her realize you are ok with or without her and just walk away Not every girl on this planet is going to like you , or be attracted to you , you weren’t sent down from Heaven to be every females gift from God , also remember Looks don’t mean as much to a girl like Looks mean to a guy , us guys are very visual humans , Most girls aren’t that way so don’t be your own worst enemy , Most girl’s are drawn to a guys heart and masculine energy over anything , unless you are a complete slob and completely out of shape and have poo hygiene , but if you have a little chub on you , don’t lose confidence in yourself , Most Girls don’t look at guys like we look at girls , If she is only concerned with what a guy looks like then that’s not a girl you want to be with , she more than likely has insecurity issues and lacks confidence in herself , a girl that is only after looks is in for a rude awakening when she realizes the guys she chooses cheat on her left and right , Find a girl that likes you for you your heart and your confidence that masculine energy is going to turn her own and make her feel safe with you

[pethouse]

Quick question how do I know if I have masculine energy?

[Finchie40]

Be confident within yourself

[Effably]

I went by a few simple rules when learning to flirt. I don't remember those anymore.

However the gist was to not make it about an endpoint but about amusing us (primarily myself - at her expense) and also keep it at a level where it has plausible deniability. That is, it should be obvious but not an absolute. Think of it as alluding to an internal joke. You get it, even though you're not really saying it. They get it, or at least suspect they do. But that stranger nearby? Not a clue outside of the fact you both started giggling.

Also, practice! Seriously. Just find someone and practice. Could even tell them you are practicing. People are surprisingly tolerant and it makes for very fun conversation. Even if at times oh so awkward.

[Jaylenn]

Just talk to her like you would talk to a cousin you have not seen in a while, don't stare or let your eyes wonder.. if you can master a good conversation first.. and she's still interested.. drop a flirt... then back off. more chat.. then perhaps another light flirt.. I hate when a guy does 100% flirting.. that's creepy and a loser mentality

[Guy13]

Formal introduction. Speak about nice feature or clothes or necklace or whatever she is trying to show off. Genuineness and speaking like a normal person. They need TO KNOW that you like them and that you are not a wus.

[serious]

I don't think flirting is necessary in the first place. However, if you want to flirt then there are plenty of ways to go about that.

Maybe this link will help

everydayfeminism.com/.../

[inhua]

step 1) be physically attractive

if you fail step 1 nothing else matters

[TrillXHippy]

That’s something that I just don’t have an answer for

[Saamee]

Smell good and sence of humour