How do I aproache to a girl I don't know without making it uncomfortable?

[pibe10]

I'm always afraid that I'm going to make her uncomfortable or she's going to feel threatened and it's something I hate because I know I'm not like that but I never know how to make the first step

[noamazia]

there are 2 ways:
if you know the girl, just talk to her, become close to her so she will be comfortable around you.
if you don't know her but know of her. then just ask her out straight away: "hey, i know we havn't met yet and you seem like interesting person, i would like to ask you to have coffee with me" (or something similar - compliment and ask for a connection). doing it fast and straight away will be the same as giving her a compliment. however try to make it non aggressive.
it really depends on the type of girl she is. if she is shy then there is almost nothing you can do to make her comfortable.
if she used to people hitting on her then you have much less to worry about.
maybe you can tell us about her so we can give a more specific advice

[noamazia]

also, here is an idea. if she is in your uni course or something similar, you can walk up, invite her (and may be a friend if she wants) to a group study session, and hand her a piece of paper with your number. that way she is in control and the interaction was minimal so she should be as comfortable as possible.

[connemara_crocodile]

More than once I played with my nervs making fun of them and ir worked. I actually asked a girl to bear with me while I was growing the balls to speak to her... She laughed and that relaxed me quite a bit. Specially cause I didn't have to worry about hiding my nervs.

I did similar things a few times. If they don't like you back at least you both get a laugh of it.

Also I think girls appreciate being told someone likes them so much.

[Seinna]

One one way to not make it uncomfortable - lower your expectations. In fact, expect nothing, don't build in your head the entire scenario of what's going to happen. Most of the times it will be nothing. Be relaxed and if it's not going well, be ready to leave without letting it traumatize you. After a couple of times you'll build up confidence.

[noamazia]

he was talking about not making HER uncomfortable. seems like he is fine with hitting on someone

[Alyssa_11]

Say something normal you’d approach a guy with. For example if at the gym, ask her if she’s done using a machine. If you’re at the mall, ask her if she knows where a shop is.

[loveslongnails]

You go up to her when she's alone and say " Hi, I was hoping you could help me for a minute? There's this pretty girl I'd like to talk to but we don't know each other, so I don't know how to approach her. Since you're a pretty girl, I thought maybe you give me a suggestion or two?" She won't be able to resist.

[TheMajesticKing777]

Walk around reading a book and "accidently" walk into her, now you don't wanna be rude right? 🤷🏽😏

Apologize to her and now you have an opportunity to keep a conversation going.

[brunomarslover]

Just be yourself and tell her you like her. Engage in conversations. Being confident is attractive asffff. Go for it!!

[TheBigGuy9]

Walk up. Hey, I’m (blank). Keep eye contact. Don’t talk about yourself much, ask questions, be humorous. If you know her interests, talk about that. Be nice even if she rejects you.

[dragoblack]

Even as an adult this is always a worry, because all it takes is 1 word or phrase to make a woman disinterest.

[cookiecrusher]

There is no right way.

Women are different.

Just be decent and kind when you talk to them anything else is their own fault

[Smegskull]

You don't. Talking to people you don't know is awkward and uncomfortable.

[In_Trance]

Approach and talk to her the way you would want her to approach you and talk to you

[whosnumber1]

be yourself and try and make her laugh

[IsoUser]

Just Introduce yourself and say hello.