Honestly man at this point just go out and fuck something. Itâs not gunna be perfect the first time but at least it will give you some confidence and who knows, you might really like her. Truth is that for men, and particularly men, if you have no experience, you arenât attractive to women. So go out and get some
women will lie about this by the way so listen to your boys on this one
Life is like a marathon. You are only competing with yourself. Just try to be the best version of yourself and try to meet as many people as you can.
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Different women have different preferences. Some want experienced men. There are plenty who are more than glad to find someone who does not have so many women in his past.
Now, try to put yourself in the shoes of a woman who would be happy to have a man who is inexperienced. What kind of man is she apt to be looking for? One who doesnât have a plan to find steady work, is unsure of himself, is so worried about whether he will ever have sex that he wonders if he should get a prostitute? That sort of undermines all of the good qualities the man has because it seems rather desperate, and most women hate desperation.
Itâs not the fact that you are a virgin that is off-putting to women. Itâs all the worrying about it and the worrying about what women think that is a red flag to women. You seem like a nice guy with a good sense of humor. A lot of women appreciate that if it is combined with confidence, because a man like that is likely to be a good partner and lover. You really need to get to the point to where you believe you would date a man like you if you were a woman. So do all you can to get there. Go pick up marketable skills, keep working out (good job for doing that, by the way), make sure youâre dressing well when you socialize, enjoy your friends. Stop worrying about what women think and just be yourself, but make the most you can out of your potential. You donât have to have everything completely sorted out, you just need to find your path and to follow it. Once you are more satisfied with your life you will find women who are drawn to you.
Sigh.
Dude, youâve been OVERLY influenced by society. Society (which happens to be made up of selfish, irresponsible idiots) says to sleep around and have fun doing so. Why are you so concerned about your âcountâ. Live your freaking life and stop comparing yourself with everyone else.
Honestly 90% of girls will not care. As long as you are genuinely a good guy, that tries, she will not care how many people youâve slept with. If anything itâs 100x worse to be with a guy thatâs been with a bunch of girls, I never trust them.
u you are too old to be depending on others... that is the root of the issue in here
solve that
also... erase the concept of "body count" from your mind, entirely... that is the turn off
Well, I'm female and has fucked 3 people in my life, all of which were in a relationship.
If you're embarrassed about it, you can always say 'I'm saving myself for my wife because I want her to be a virgin and it wouldn't be fair if she was one and I've fucked someone else.' I've heard that excuse/reason irl
Youâre senselessly worrying. Focus on becoming the person you want to be.
Havenât you figured out that this type of thinking is a turn off to girls? You are not projecting confidence therefore your body count will stay low because you havenât learned to love yourself
I would feel tempted to go to an escort or sex worker before 30 but to each their own, that's always going to be a controversial topic of discussion
I am 25 and in a relationship but body count is less than 200. I donât know the number but I can tell you itâs less than two hundred at least.
There is no one right number. If you believe him, Wilt Chamberlain was well into 4 digits by then. Others are at 0, willingly or otherwise.
At your age, I had been with 1 woman, keep trying.
Not that high but more than zero
It depends on where you live
wasn't until like close to 28 for me
Its over
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