Approaching 30, and have no experience with women. Is it too late?

[Anonymous]

I keep hearing "it's a numbers game, it's a numbers game". Well, my number is 0. It seems that since anything happens so infrequently, that by the time I get a second date, I'll be 50.

It gives me anxiety to think I'll miss an entire experience in life. How can I turn things around?

For the love of God though, please don't say work on yourself or be more social. I've already got my schooling, career, fitness and hobbies in check. Despite moving across the country I have made a few social circles that do in fact include women. I'm just not the kind of guy that women would find attractive.

[Sleeper07]

It is not really a number's game, I hate people who endorse that. A guy decided to approach 1000 women, each time noting each rejection, and got rejected 1000 times.

And no it's not too late ever, as a man if you take care of your body, career, and etc you can get good looking girls even at 50 years old.

You need to study women and understand them. learn from literotica, and learn to take more risks. Confidence also isn't something you acquire, it is something you use or fail to use.

The biggest problem men have with women is they fail to turn them on, and waste too much time beating around the bush.

[magiusX26]

stop worrying over it. as you said "i am stressing over it". you are over focusing on trying to control/force something that is more random than anything. instead work on building yourself and your resources up.

[Quackthulu2]

Yes, yes it is. May as well just get like 50 cats.

[serious]

Okay, so there is nothing to worry here. You can just accept the fact how you are and enjoy your life alone.

[MementoMori777]

Personally idc about the number game or whatever, why does it matter, I don't see a brag in the lack of self control

[Anonymous]

The man that says 'I'm just not the kind of guy that women would find attractive' and the man that says 'I am the kind of guy that women would find attractive.'

Are both correct...

[Anonymous]

Kind of. After 25 all the good women are married off. So you're picking from the scraps now man.