Do you have to be a perfect guy to get a girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

Seems like it sometimes. Like you need to be a certain height and have a great muscular or lean physique with a good jawline. There are many more like financially stable and a great job. Feels like you have to be more than average to get a girl interested

[MCheetah]

No. Only to get a loving, quality girlfriend who'll respect you and treat you nicely.

If you're below six feet tall and willing to simp, beg, and emasculate yourself for a female, then you ABSOLUTELY can get one!

Also, if you're rich/wealthy. You can get a girlfriend that way, as well. And by "rich," I mean nothing less than half a million per year salary, plus portfolio options.

It's also annoying when some women will do this disingenuous BS by pretending "all it takes to get a woman is a good personality," as if women are dating the "great personalities" of men like Bill Gates, Jeff Bezos, or Lebron James. Or as if these same women aren't saying the "short men are gross and a turn off" crap, but then want to blame it on a man "not having a nice personality" as if him being the f*cking humanitarian of the year, but only 5'7" is suddenly going to get him marriage proposals from any woman, let alone Victoria's Secret models.

Here's my personal advice: Stop listening to what women tell you, unless they're a friend you've had private conversations with. I've spoken to MANY women about what you're talking about, and most of their word are contradictory horsesh*t. Like I said, the same women telling you "personality is all that matters" and to "stop putting so much weight into height, like a toxic incel" are LITERALLY the same women who'll say "men 5'11 and under are just friends." That's what it took me years to figure out.

Most women's advice are absolute hypocritical, contradictory, useless horsesh*t. IF a woman gives you advice that's worth anything, it'll only be because she's actually dating a man who is under six feet and doesn't look like a 10/10 Chad. Women often want to say one thing, and do another. Say "stop treating us like we're shallow," while they literally have never dated a man same height or shorter than them, nor would ever.

That's why this sh*t is SO HARD for men less than a 10/10 like us to figure out. The more you listen to women, the more f*cked over you'll get because many, MANY women simply do not tell the truth, or they're just deluded. Don' listen to what women SAY. Look at what they DO and who they end up with! The women who end up with "less than perfect men" are the ones who won't bullsh*t you.

Good luck finding that on GAG, though. I only know like, four women who walk the walk, and don't just do the "I'm not into short, ugly guys, but I'm sure there's a girl out there for you" BS they say just to look good in public.

[MCheetah]

Personality matters though, right?
Does just being a nice, decent, average-looking man assure you a realistic chance to get a good, caring female partner? ↗

[LZPanzer]

When women say all it takes to get a girlfriend you should remind them Hitler's girlfriend was Soo devoted to him she killed herself with him.
Personally means nothing to women.

[shades777]

Id say if you fit some type of archtype she can talk to about her friends then your golden.


jock
hipster
thug
bay watch
a guy from that show
kinda looks like "whoever is hot" to them
pretty boy
rough neck
biker
ceo exe
the artist
blue collar
gym dude


see my point, women like stuff like that, men with a identity they can put in a box, have a sense of humor and make sure she sees other women look at you because she wants what other women want.

[Agape93]

Not at all, just be a good guy that has passion in something interesting. I don't care if he has a massive bug collection. If he's passionate about that, great. I find that more attractive than some jock itch dude bro with the personality and intelligence of a hammer.

[Asker]

Why do girls talk about personality and confidence yet the man they date that displays these qualities is always what a lot of dudes would call a chad

[Agape93]

Usually sex appeal, a surface attraction. But thats based out of evolutionary biology rather than genuine attraction in a decent partner

[Asker]

But still thats what starts everything so how could the other qualities shine? A girl won't talk to you if you don't look like chad. Not even average looking guys are what girls want to talk to

[Agape93]

Oh bull crap dude. One of my exes was 5'10 and 260 some pounds. That Chad bullcrap is a notion you all have, not us.

[Asker]

Exceptions don't disprove the rule ma'am. Dating is hard even for average looking men because women don't want to date them.

[SnakeBoop]

ahhh. your first fuck up is putting so much weight into height.
You're using the toxic incel brain, which is a turnoff for any self respecting woman.

[Asker]

Experiences ma'am. Experiences

[SnakeBoop]

And my mother was an abusive asshole. But that doesn't mean every mother is?
Experience is fine, I'm not bashing thats whats happened to you. And that sucks. But like thats again, another toxic mindset to use.

[Asker]

Here's my thing girls can have high standards and obviously they can date those kind of men. But for a lot of other dudes we have to focus on other things in life because we don't or can't meet those standards. Tough reality

[SnakeBoop]

yet dudes do the same thing? its a reality sure, but just not meeting some women's standards means you should write all women off? Erm, no. Thats just moronic.

[Asker]

Men don't have high standards though. Not to the extent women do which is fine. They can have those high standards. They're not bad people

[Asker]

I dont have to be an incel to have this viewpoint. But anyway

[Twalli]

I have no job, I am short, I have a narrow chin, my physique has gone downhill since the pandemic started. I have virtually nothing you mentioned. I still have a girlfriend. You don't need to be a textbook definition of perfect. You need to be right for her at that time.
My sister dated some pretty bad people. They weren't abusive. They had bad lives and couldn't make them better. She was put on a pedestal and treated like the best thing that ever happened to them (because she was). She needed that, now she doesn't. So you don't even have to be perfect for a girl fir her to pick you. You need to be what she needs.

[t-8900]

ummmmm I mean I'm talking to someone now and she's very interested and I'm in my 370's sooooo no. Maybe you are aiming too far above your pay grade as it were. Maybe an average or less than average guy wants more than an average girl? Isn't it funny when we look at it from the other perspective?

[boggboss]

Lol I'm 5"8 and fat mate u don't need to be anything close to perfect to get a girlfriend

[Asker]

Congrats

[boggboss]

This is my point aslong as u know what your doing half even half some level of social skills it can be done

[boggboss]

Nit really sure what u was looking for tho mate as it seems more so u asked thi to complain that other guys u don't like get women whilst u can't

[MrHopper]

If you just want a "girlfriend" thats not too difficult if you go for any one, i suspect you have too high standards for what you can provide some one

[Asker]

Not a hypocrite here man. She can average looking with a great personality. That's all i ask for. Simplistic

[MrHopper]

When i was 20 stone, had no self respect and no money i had girlfriends so to me i very believe there is always someone

[Asker]

Ever heard of the Matrix?

[MrHopper]

Yes... i saw the film in the cinema when it came out

[HighValue]

I am as close to perfect as I have seen IRL for a good girl that wants an exclusive LTR, but then they don't come nearly close enough to qualify for me.

[bones_20]

Well you need to start being more realistic. No one is perfect.

[Asker]

But there are people close to perfect

[Wasson5103]

Stop thinking like an incel. Just go out and talk to real women. The chances of you actually finding someone online is low.

[Asker]

Not an incel. Just see things different because of experiences

[Cubus]

Nobody is perfect. And almost everyone finds a boyfriend/girlfriend eventually. So no.

[TheAfrikan]

Be you and yourself then you will pull the one who loves you for you.

[tasleen]

You just need to be approachable

[Asker]

Whatever that means

[shades777]

she means ugly but friendly

[FunkyMonkee]

No, you just have to have lots of money.

[jahaims]

Since perfection is impossible obviously not

[noohair]

No person is perfect.

[Zygum]

What qualities you want in perfect boyfriend?

[exitseven]

Have you seen me?