Why do women complain they have it hard in dating?

[Coolguy33989]

Basically any woman can get like a couple hundred matches and somehow complain they have it hard when they're making it hard for themselves. I can barely get 4 matches a year. I don't understand how it's hard. I'd be thrilled to get even 50 matches in a month.

[Flower7]

Just because a dating site says two people are a match doesn’t mean they’re actually compatible in real life.

[Coolguy33989]

But women have way more men to choose from

[Anonymous]

You're right about how matches they get, guys get much less for some reason.

[Coolguy33989]

It's because every woman on apps is basically getting flooded with messages from guys. You need to be tall good looking jacked and have an amazing profile to stand out. There's ugly women I know that get 3 times as many matches I do and I'm way more attractive then them

[Opinion Owner]

Yes that's how life is, women have a bigger selection all the time and guys have less.

[Anonymous]

It is hard because the quality of men on dating sites is so low.

[Coolguy33989]

But would you rather have 0 matches or an extremely low amount of matches in which you get ghosted 100% of the time or plenty of matches in which someone actually takes the initiative and reaches out to you?