How is dating hard for women?

I see a lot women complaining about dating being just as hard for them as it is for men but all most every women I've approached or even dealt with was already involved with a guy in some way. It seems like they say dating is hard when they can’t get the guy they want or something like that. Women even have more options to choose from compared to men and if you aren’t attractive just forget about it.
How is dating hard for women?
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