Why is dating so hard?

phill5158
I have used multiple dating apps and yeah i know they are really hit and miss but i have also heard that people have met their partners from some of them like Eharmony and Bumble. I get matches but they end up being dead ends all the time, they will send a few messages but ultimately sound so disinterested and then ghost you or unmatch you for no reason at all. It is just really hard, i have anxiety and i know people will say go out and try meeting someone but as someone with anxiety and introverted it is not that easy. I know people will say at least try to but times feel different, i just feel so many people are judgmental nowadays and that is what worries me. It doesn't feel like, just go out with friends and boom you will meet someone. It is pretty much just swipe left or right but in person, no different to the apps.
Why is dating so hard?
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