Why is dating so hard?

[phill5158]

I have used multiple dating apps and yeah i know they are really hit and miss but i have also heard that people have met their partners from some of them like Eharmony and Bumble. I get matches but they end up being dead ends all the time, they will send a few messages but ultimately sound so disinterested and then ghost you or unmatch you for no reason at all. It is just really hard, i have anxiety and i know people will say go out and try meeting someone but as someone with anxiety and introverted it is not that easy. I know people will say at least try to but times feel different, i just feel so many people are judgmental nowadays and that is what worries me. It doesn't feel like, just go out with friends and boom you will meet someone. It is pretty much just swipe left or right but in person, no different to the apps.

[MCheetah]

Simple: Modern women are shallow, entitled, and annoying, and modern men are spineless, have no self-respect, and simp harder than any men before them.

Modern Women are awful and modern men are weak. It's that simple.

Also, dating apps are useless for men who aren't at least an 8 out of 10/over six feet tall.

[phill5158]

yeah you make a good point, I just want to meet someone who is not any of the above you mentioned. I know there are good people out there but where are they? i doubt i'd find them at a club haha. Yeah dating apps truly are useless, i am thinking of deleting them all, i just keep them in the hope maybe i might find someone genuine.

[SolitarySolace]

Wouldn’t know. I quit dating and having relationships almost 8 years ago. Women aren’t worth any of the struggle. Being single is where the freedom and peace is

[phill5158]

I am not sure i want to be single for the rest of my life though

[SolitarySolace]

Alright. Than be miserable 🤷🏻‍♂️ because that’s all a women will do for you is make you miserable

[TheLastRhodesian]

Women are more racist in online dating, and 92-95% with a "preference" exclude any ethnic men

[phill5158]

You think so, why do you single out women as being racist though? i haven't really encountered any racism on those apps. I am not sure that is true, there is a lot of ethnic women on those apps.

[Anonymous]

It is not hard at all. You are doing it all wrong. Avoid dating apps, they are a waste of time.

[phill5158]

maybe not hard to an extravert and outgoing person. What do you recommend i do?

[SolitarySolace]

Hearing a woman say dating isn't hard is hilarious. Try dating as a man in today's world. You'd understand why a vast majority of us men have given up. which would explain why the marriage rate has decreases exponentially.