How do I tell my boyfriend I want him to spank me?

[Anonymous]

I joked about it, but he seems scared to hurt me even slightly.

[slatyb]

Hmmm... spanking is pretty mild. He must be very unsophisticated. Tell him directly — “I wish you would spank me. It’s very sexy.” Do you just want a spanking or are you wanting to have rules and punishments? If you are looking for that, maybe you could point him at some spanking romance that you like. There are hundreds on Kindle Unlimited. You could get a free trial month and find one you like.

[AviatorTom]

Show him... Spank yourself the way you want him to spank you. I'm guessing that's more than a love tap but not hard enough to really hurt.

[Anonymous]

Of course, talk to him! Communication is key but be understanding if he doesn't want to. Seems like he doesn't want to "hurt" you but let him know so he can understand how you feel about it. And after the talk you could always "practice" together. :)

Hope that helps!

[Daniela1982]

Bend over, pull your panties down, and hand him a paddle. Then you'll wish you had been happy without a spanking when you can't sit on your ass for a week.

[Surely]

I can understand your boyfriend’s feelings. Hard to inflict pain on someone you love.
Even when you are asked to do it.
Sometime when the time is right. Lay down across his legs and tell him that you were a bad girl and needs to be punished!
Give him time.

[Twalli]

Have sex in positions where your ass is easily spankable and then do it to yourself while you're having sex and then ask him to do it. He probably will start very gently, but if your reactions are good he'll do it harder.

[Aerissa_Jade]

Say "Hey spank me" and then point to where you want it.

[TheBootyChest]

Demonstrate on him (or his arm) how much force to use on you.

[Mangospacho]

Maybe do something that really gets on his nerves like accidentally scratching his car and then that way he’s already angry so it’ll be less awkward and more authentic

[rod23]

Just be open about it, can't believe young girls are into that though

[Asker]

Why?

[rod23]

Well she states that her age is 18-24, no exact age, if she's 18 that's young, your still learning, not really thinking kinky at that age, but I'm from a different generation, so I guess things have changed

[Neko_Nya]

Bend over his lap, pull your panties down and tell him to do it

[Nazgol]

🔥hot

[Nazgol]

🤤😎

[nawtee_me]

@Nazgol she may need to spank him to get him to act right...

[Nazgol]

@nawtee_me maybe

[noohair]

This stuff, for him is learned in childhood.
He learned to NOT hit girls.
It is very hard to unlearn that.

[harrison102]

Ask him to do it slowly, ask him to go a bit harder and harder until you get the required power and satisfaction.

[Anonymous]

Show him what you want him to do and how much force you'd like. Demonstrate on his butt if he'll let you.

[Morgador]

Just tell him and then tell him spank you harder. Tell him how much you like it and it turns you on

[Yourfriend2021]

Just lie on his knees and pull your pants down, lol

[Waldoe]

tell him that you have a "Fantasy"... he will want to know

[NYlatefun]

You should be open about it, just tell him while you’re on doggy to spank you, I’m sure he wants to.

[TaleTeller]

You ask him. Tell him you'd like to experiment. I would be hesitant to do it tough.

[Anonymous]

Dress like a schoolgirl, get on his lap and say daddy please spank me

[boggboss]

By having a mature talk about it

[Ironic_Method]

"I want you to spank me."

[LegendaryIcon]

It's not ok to do it. sorry

[Asker]

.. why?

[LegendaryIcon]

why do you think

[Anonymous]

With or without sex involved?