How I ask my friendif he spank me?

[Anonymous]

I really want my friend to spank me. i just to scared to ask him afraid he think I'm weird. He doesn't have girlfriend so I don't have worry bout that. I'm just not sure how to ask him. Any suggestions please and thank you

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+1 y

Thanks for the suggestions im keep then in mind see what happens in future

[DeltaRecon]

In my experience. Girls sometimes want to be treated like a bad girl. But sometimes they don’t. Be straight forward and let him know what you want, but also tell him something like you’ve been a bad girl so he has a clue you want rough sex at the time. When you want to be loved differently and more romantic then tell him you want to be loved.

use key words on what you want for the night and your sex life will blossom. But also sometimes you gotta let him do what he wants to do every so often.

so don’t be afraid to let him know what you want and explore what he may also want and you’ll see your sex life go to a whole new level hopefully. As far as being spanked, teach him. Sometimes it may take him time to adapt. I know I still feel I’m to rough with my wife sometimes and she still thinks I could be rougher. I just don’t want to hurt her so I slowly raised the level to make sure I didn’t hurt her

[bzcxx]

I’ve read the other comments given by the other guys on here, and quite frankly I don’t agree with most of them.
It would certainly come off weird if you’re asking your friend to spank you if your friendship doesn’t incorporate a sexual aspect.
If you guys have already been constantly sexting and flirting, then it would be all right to jokingly bring it up while sexting - eg. “oh yeah? Spank me then”. But if your friendship is totally platonic then it would certainly come off as inappropriate and weird. It might even be better for you to ask if he wants to hookup than to randomly ask him to spank you.
You might want to ask if he’s interested in being in a friends with benefits situation with you. I’m sure most single guys would be more than willing.
Once you’re in a friends with benefits situation with him, you can ask him openly to spank you.

[PrettyPriya]

Well, I am only going to assume you want this done in a sexual way, correct? If that is the case, you really shouldn't ask him. He is a friend. You risk ruining the friendship if he finds the request weird or off-putting. Is it worth possibly losing a friend over that?

Your best bet (other than not asking) is to be in a romantic relationship first. Then, at least it wouldn't be as weird of a request. You basically have a kink or fetish that you want to fulfill. Best try that with a romantic partner that is willing.

I don't think there is any easy way to ask him to do this, considering it is sexual in nature, and you likely do not have a sexual relationship with a friend.

Best case scenario is he accepts and doesn't mind. Worse case is you lose a friend forever. Best really sit and think about the risk/reward for a kink or fetish before asking your friend.

[Sour-rose]

"hey, will you spank me?"

And do it that way. when it's just you two of course

[AviatorTom]

Next time you're alone with him, drop your drawers, spank your ass, and then say "Your turn!"

[Avicenna]

Just ask him directly. It’s nothing to be ashamed about.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Just tell him, it is weird, but everyone is weird, if he's the same kind of weird, then you're good.

[BJP21]

If you're trying to be kinky... Tell your friend you've been a really naughty girl and need a spanking.

[Anonymous]

Pull panties down, bend over, and say "Spank my ass please."

[Stevefiveo]

Just say something like I've been a bad girl and I need a spanking. ;)

[jennyjenjen98]

You just ask him. Keep it simple.

[Anonymous]

wear a short skirt no panties and bend over for him so he can see your ass and pussy

[Opinion Owner]

tell him you been a very very bad girl a naughty girl who needs a spanking

[Opinion Owner]

whatever you do don't tell him to spank your hairy ass because then he'll instantly think of jim and the tube sock

[Snedger____]

Spank him and show your ass to him

[panamared1]

If you trust him, ask him