Getting to know someone you met online?

[daisySykoSykes]

I met a guy online and we have gotten to know each other a fair bit and I really like him. But I'd like to ask more things to get to know him better. What are some questions you would ask?

[FlutteringFeelings]

Questions you asks are based on the standards you have. If I’m getting to know a guy then I remove the word “like” off the table. You may ask why? You have to know a person beyond the surfaced level to decipher whether this person is like able or not. I’ll tell myself that this person is really attractive and I would like to get to know them a bit more to see if I like them as a person.


I don’t believe you should drop the questions like a bomb as if this is a first 48 interrogation room. The more genuine conversation you have then you will gradually find the answers to your questions. Save the surfaced level questions such as: “What’s your favorite food?” and questions that leads you to the road of nowhere. What are his goals, why is he single, is marriage on his list, what are his intentions, if he opened to dating, is he healed from his past, what are his fears.


Get comfortable because there is so much to learn. Fasten your seatbelt.

[iseekpinetrees]

What pisses you off
Have you ever been into a fight/last time you were in one
Are you mellow or do you get angry easily
Have you ever stolen anything
Who should pay for a meal
Do you believe in head of the household or is everyone equal

[HighValue]

Whatever things are important to you morally, ask him his views on those things.
Also, ask him what his long term life goals are. They need to be compatible with yours for it to work. For example, if one of you wants kids, it will only work if you both want kids. Or if one person wants a family life with lots of time spent together, but the other wants a job where they often travel and are away from home, that could be a problem. Things like that are important to discuss.

Or ask him who he voted for in the last presidential election and if he regrets his choice or not. That should get you two talking about plenty to find out how compatible you really are.

[MarkyyG123]

Ask questions of value to you, things that you want in someone your with and things that you see as issues or potential issues, don't be afraid to ask because right now, you have nothing to lose so ask away!

Ask about his life, his goals, his ambitions, children, family, past, worst memory, best memory, dream holiday, and when he answers ask questions based on his answers and listen to what he says, take it in and remember

[Seangreen]

I don't know what you mean by Madam online like did you meet him on a dating app or did you meet him like on some who knows what that wasn't for dating in the first place. Have you met this person yet because if you want to go on online dating you know I I just never mind

[ElvenMr]

You can talk and ask him about anything you like. If he likes you he'll take the time to reply in a meaningful way (like not with one word answers), and then you can continue the conversation from there. Say anything related that comes to your mind or ask about his answer.

[Dragonpurple]

Think of anything you would ask in person, then ask that online.

[LegendaryIcon]

How do you know you like him, if you don't know him

[daisySykoSykes]

I obviously know about him enough to like him. But I'd like ideas to ask things that aren't common. I hope that clarifies the question for you (:

[LegendaryIcon]

i don't get it. how can you like him, if you don't know him

[cryscrys1]

Op don’t complicate life so much how do you know etc. it’s not math and calculated. Sometimes you just feel like that , you like someone you just know it.

[LegendaryIcon]

I find that hard to believe... i think she's lusting

[DevinAM]

That's hard to say when I don't know what you already know.
You could ask about fetishes; If he hasn't already, it's less likely that he will ask you first.

[Chanta_Padega]

Go on a date. If he is decent guy, he will surely grab your ass

[exitseven]

Ask him his opinion on online relationships.

[Yourfriend2021]

Ask what ever you want to know.

[Wise4myage]

Ask about his hobbies and interests.

[emperor90]

What are his intrests his beliefs

[blueazure]

You can ask him about type of women he liked.