How many of you expect sex on a third date? Does that even happen anymore? What's the longest # of date you went on until you had sex?

[poneglyphs]

Haven't been on to many dates but don't really expext much

[RearEntryGuy]

In general, I think to have sex or not on a 3rd date depends on the couple.

If the guy is seeking out pleasure and found an ONS during a party, then they may just have sex even on the 1st meet.

But if the couple is dating for sex, like friends with benefits, then they may choose to wait for a few dates so that their sex is less awkward and more intimate.

Finally, I wonder if there are still couples who wait. If there are, like those in the 1980s, then there will be no sex until marriage.

For me, I'm the dating for friends with benefits type. Two or three dates are are my usual choice.

[poneglyphs]

Oh, that's cool for myself I have no idea

[RearEntryGuy]

Try it then.

My personal principle is: If we're still feeling awkward when clothed, then we're not ready to fuck.

[GingerGuy]

With me there's no expectation at all. I've had sex on the first date before. Other woman I haven't even had a kiss from after the third date so? This was one woman specifically I'm thinking about. I couldn't tell how she was feeling about our dates, yet she continued to have them with me. Until I mentioned a kiss (that was all I had to do lol) and that was that. Never heard from her again lol.

[poneglyphs]

That's pretty funny and strange

[GingerGuy]

It was strange. On one hand the dates were going well, but at the same time didn't really feel a connection either, but I didn't know if it was just me? But I'm not sure why she kept going on the dates if she felt the same thing? Maybe just waiting to see? Unless using me for the free dates? lol

[CindyRuns]

I waited until the feeling was right and we had a pretty strong relationship.

The earliest for me was around 4 months !!!

[MelonSoda]

You don't really owe someone sex. Do it when you're ready or feel comfortable doing it.

[poneglyphs]

Kk, I was just curious

[hafinjun]

So much to or you And I going to burger King

[MelonSoda]

@hafinjun What

[slatyb]

After I divorced and started dating I never expected sex and never asked for it. I kissed them when they made it clear they wanted to be kissed. After three dates most wanted sex and invited me home or I invited them to my place.

[poneglyphs]

Cool

[RealMarek]

I wouldn’t go in with any expectations. Sex is a gift, not something owed at any point. When it happens depends on many things specific to the couple involved.

[poneglyphs]

Oh, okay just wondering I don't expect anything much really when I go on dates.

[Avicenna]

It depends on your personal chemistry. Be careful not to force it.

[poneglyphs]

Alright, doubt ai will force it but who knows

[DelayedMist]

I had sex at 14 with a hot red head so I don't know.

[poneglyphs]

Damm for real I still haven't gotten laid 🙁

[DelayedMist]

Lol, it takes tall height, pretty face and good charisma to get laid xd.

[poneglyphs]

Lol, I'm 5'2, have a baby face, and strange charisma

[DelayedMist]

oof, well a girl who um thinks you are her type will like ya.

[poneglyphs]

Yeah, okay 😑😑😑

[DelayedMist]

You are 26 and still a virgin, waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

[poneglyphs]

Yeah dude gonna be 27 like in 2 months 🥺🥺🥺

[MelonSoda]

It's really not that big of a deal.

[poneglyphs]

@MelonSoda I feel a little bit lonely and unwanted. 27 years without anyone finding me date able or cute hits a toll on you 🥺

[DelayedMist]

Awww, I am sure their is some girl out there who will love you.

[poneglyphs]

Maybe wanna talk more in private?

[DelayedMist]

yeah, sure man

[poneglyphs]

Cool, can't talk to you cuz you're on private messages only

[OddBeMe]

Never tied to a schedule. never had a one night or first night sex date. But it happens when it happens.

[TrillXHippy]

I don’t expect it but I’d rather wait to be married to possibly have sex. I wasn’t taken advantage of half of my age and lost my virginity

[exitseven]

I dated somebody for over 4 years and did not have sex at all.

[MelonSoda]

Lmao sounds like me

[exitseven]

@MelonSoda looking back I really cannot explain why I put up with it for so long.

[CuriousMufuxka]

One per woman I slept with. Actually there was many that there were no dates.. Lots of drama that I would have greatly picked dating over!

[hafinjun]

The third date? He's supposed to wait till then I didn't know that would explain a lot of things

[NathanDavis]

I never ever in my life have dated for sex...

[Gwenhwyfar]

I don’t put out till well after the third date

[poneglyphs]

That's cool

[hafinjun]

Checks Gwen off the list...😁just kidding, in this day and age I think that's wise

[hafinjun]

Exactly right

[Gwenhwyfar]

@hafinjun thanks 😊

[hafinjun]

Your very welcome

[boredKen]

Usually happens on first or second date.

[poneglyphs]

Oh, really 🙁

Why is that?

[boredKen]

I go out with women who are attracted to me. If she doesn't want to jump my bones, i don't waste my time.

[poneglyphs]

Oh, cool, I don't go out with anyone really. Not like anyone likes me