When you’re looking for a relationship, what’s the average number of dates you’ve gone on before having sex?

[Anonymous]

For me it’s been 4 on average. With the women I’ve been with, that’s how long I feel it takes for them to get comfortable.

[sexy_julia]

I had sex with my husband on our second date. We had only known each other for six days. It was the night we became lovers. I was 19, and he was 54. Few weeks later, I was pregnant. We got married two months later. It’s been 14 years, and we’re still married. We have six kids, and I’m pregnant with our seventh child.

[Asker]

How did you guys meet?

[TheSpaceGnome]

Thats a really big age gap... even if he lived to be 100, you would be a widow by age 65. If He passed away at 80, you would be a widow at 45. Doesn't that bother you? The idea that for almost (or more than) half of your life, you won't have anyone.. Also how did you figure out he wasa mental match in 6 days? That normally takes years... Did you just guess and hoped it would work out?

[HappyWoman34]

I gave it up way too fast. Two months from now on, with some hand jobs in between, to keep him satisfied.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Having sex with strangers is dumb, as is going on dates with them.
If hanging out with a best friend counted as a date, I'd say a few years worth of "dates" before knowing if they are a match and being ok with sex at that point.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Probably after about 8-10 hours of actual date time. That could be the third date, that could be the first one. I've had dates enter into their third straight day. That's a little different than "we went to the movies once."

[Lowiu]

With my boyfriend it was sex on the 4th date or like more or less as the 4th date

[Ms_Facesitter]

That depends on how great the dates goes.

[In_Trance]

two or three