I believe in marrige. Anyway you should put out anytime you want. If he is one of those alpha males, beef cakes douche bag players you are automatically a slut. If he is a reasonable man who likes you and has an iq over 30. Not a selfish prick than will see you as human and won't judge you even If you put out on day one. You are only a slut If you dont TaKe the chances of you being knocked up by a man and not knowing who the damn father is. You own it to the kid that you might have. Sex is NEVER with 0 risk ofnpregnancy.
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try till hold out till the morning after the first night together. you will feel better about it and he will respect you more without losing interest.
Whatever makes you feel comfortable. I think a person should be respected for being able to decide what they want and acting upon it, rather than refraining from sex because of the fear of judgement from society.
Go out with him for a month before you decide in my opinion
she should wait at least as many dates as the guy waits ;)
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I wouldn't worry about such social stigma. Do your own thing. Holding out on sex is no guarantee that you will achieve greater respect or that the guy you are seeing is more decent. He might just play the long game whilst having sex with other girls anyway.
it depends on how much you like each other and chemistry/attraction.
first date is way too soon unless you both agreed on a physical only relationship.
but if after the second date, you really got to know each other well and talked on being officially together, then maybe.
BUT the normal standard would be third date.That's totally your choice, if you're feeling it on the first date and want to do it, by all means go for it. I'm not one of these guys that says you have to wait till the 5th date, I think it's stupid.
There is no amount of days or time that can determine that. You are looking for social acceptance which has no place in your relationship. Look within for your own answers. Respect for yourself is all that ever mattered.
Depends on how compatible you are and how comfortable you are with him. Don't set a time frame. When it feels right them it's time.
Hard to tell depends on who you talking to but first one or second sure feel easy
Really depends on the guy, especially on their maturity level.
Three or four depending on how attracted you are with that person
six is the answer to any question you could possible ask
At minimum 2 I find but I guess this is up to everyones own preference
3 out of 4 dates that failed for me were before one month, so I would wait at least a couple of months.
generally, the rule of thumb, is at least three. however, it's just a rule of thumb, of course different people do different things
Respectable number is whatever your comfortable with. Some it's same night. Some the second date.
Whenever she is comfortable. I wait until the 2 or 3 date.
between 1 and 100 doesn't matter as long as BOTH people are ready and willing..
WHENEVER YOU FUCKING WANT
Whenever she wants to
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