I'd suggest when you feel desire to have sex with him. At least you didn't have sex on the first date.
Of course men have a built in contradiction. Obviously we want to have sex on first dates but if we have an enduring relationship in mind we want a girl that sees sex as being within a relationship. In other words we want to be confident your children will be our children also.
Men have always tested women by pushing women to give them sex and women have always tested men by declining and seeing if they wanted them enough to stick around. Both men and women tended to get what they wanted with that dual strategy.
Forget whatever people think is a tradition or the "right" amount of time to wait. Wait for however long feels right to you. If you abstain out of a worry of what he might think of you, you're just betraying who you are, as well as hiding who you really are from him. You'd be doing both of you a disservice in the long run, in my opinion.
That said, take care not to move too fast either, because moving too fast will hurt a lot more if the relationship doesn't turn out how you'd hoped. Try to exercise patience, even though it might be difficult 😋
Until you are sure that he's the right one and that the feeling you have is mutual between you two.
u’ll now when you’ll be ready for having sex.
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People usually take a lack of sex as disinterest. One woman asked my on the fourth date if I was attracted to her because I hadn't tried to have sex with her yet.
Until you are married...
What you will find is that any time you have sex outside of marriage, it will not work. After having sex the guy will either grow distant or the entire relationship will morph into activities that lead to more sex and it will seem pointless. It's an unpopular opinion but put it to the test and you will see. The fact that your question exists shows that somewhere within, you know that sex is important and can make or break the relationship.
You should have sex when you want to. You Shouldn't be feeling ashamed of having sex. Men enjoy sex because it feels good, and a lot of women like how it feels, too. If you let other people tell you what you should feel, you will end up hating yourself.
Until you are pretty self aware on the fact that he is a valid person to have sex with, I would assume you are looking for the good quality for a healthy long lasting relationship so you should know him well.
3 more to go all the way
if you didn't kiss him already by all means do so now
made out after 1 more late.
You should wait until you know that He loves you and is committed to you. You should know that if you got pregnant, He will be the type that will take responsibility and be a dad to the kid.
Go with the flow. If you're feeling it, it can be the first date. If not, then wait until you do. Life is simple. Do what feels right to you.
He's already thinking about moving on if you don't put out soon.
I'd always suggest its 3rd time lucky -- Next time.
As many as it takes for you to be comfortable having sex.
That’s not the best question to ask, as you are asking about intercourse. The better one to ask is how long until you trust him to start sharing intimate moments?
Just get to know him well enough so you know that sex isn't the only thing he's interested in, and wait until you feel comfortable. Like it'll be better I think if you are
I think it's better to wait until he asks you to have sex with him. Your role during this period will be to get closer to him and make him feel love or feelings
There is no set number.
It's whenever the time is right, if it ever is right.
Wait until you're married to him before having sex. Ik it's tempting and hard to hold back but be patient and wait till marriage
Traditionally the third date is the sex date.
Anywhere between 0 to infinity. It doesn't matter. It's up to you.
Until you want to have sex with your date.
It’s time to have sex again
Probably in the triple digits.
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