Friends with benefits or is there anything more?

[Anonymous]

I have been seeing this guy for a month and a half. He is in my circle and we hug out (just the two of us since I met him) at least 4 times a week. We go for dinner, have deep conversations, have great sex and we lose track of time, end up going home around 4~8am in the morning.

1. We hang out in circle at least once every week

2. We hang out just the two of us at least 3~4 times a week

3. He says that im pretty and attractive

4. He loves having sex with me and so do I

5. It wasn't sex from the start. At first, we just hung out and had cute little touches which became sex after a month

6. We text everyday and know what we are doing during the day

7. We hug and kiss and cuddle even if we dnt have sex

8. We say that we are too tired today so before we meet, we say lets not have sex tonight but instead watch a movie or just chill (as we both live with our parernts, we are always in the car) but end up having sex 9/10 of the times

9. He takes care of me and asks if im comfortable in all situation even when we are having sex.

10. He holds my hand or puts his arm around me when we are outside hanging out

11. We text each other that we miss each other if we dnt get to meet

12. We agreed on not to have sex with other people when we are seeing each other

13. He is not seeing other people and is open with his phone

14. He does not go on his phone when he is with me

15. He gives me a kiss when I go home and takes me home all the time

16. He gets little jelous when I go on date with other guys

17. He says that he never had this great sex with other people before

He was planning to go to australia since last year. But is postphoning it

Last night, I asked him "what is our relationship is it just friends" . He said " we are not friends but you know that I have to go to Australia and you broke up with your ex recently. It might be a rebound? But I love your company and want to see you everyday"

Does he like me or is it friends with benefits? Should I walk away? I like him..

[Kazekiba]

Would you be able to go to Aus with him? Sounds like you two have a strong connection and if he commits to another woman, you'll both be missing what you have now.
But then maybe it's not meant to be a relationship either.

Don't give him any ultimatum but establish exactly what he has in mind. What do you want out of it?

[Asker]

He said "lets have fun" and asked isn't it fun to be with him. I asked to define "fun" but he sajd fun is fun very jokfully. He sneeked into my room tonight (no sex), watched movie fall asleep with me and went home at 5am. He was meant to go earlier but he didn't want to go. He said that he doesn't want to go many times and kissed and huged me. Im so confused... ㅜㅠ

[Kazekiba]

Make him yours, I say

[spartan55]

If everything is so great why didn't he want a committed relationship up front? Hmmm... it won't change

[Guy13]

Yes, there is more

[Asker]

But he didn't ask to have a relationship with me. How should I play on? Im confused