Do girl’s realize Guys’ need sex in a relationship? I am not trying to sound like a horn dog but I am telling the truth?

[Finchie40]

Girl’s we are made this way it’s in are genes , it’s a physical need that we need , If you are with a guy that doesn’t want sex with you then you are best to find out what the fuck is going wrong in your relationship and make sure his ass isn’t cheating on you , I hear so many stories of Girl’s saying their men don’t want sex with them and I sit here thinking there must be something wrong with him or they are up to no good, or he is going through some stress so do the right thing and get to the bottom of it don’t assume the worst , which most people tend to do. Guys go through the same shit with girls , as well , I sure as hell went through it , to find out I was being cheated on , I know not all girl’s cheat and not all guys cheat the grass is not greener on the other side , if you can’t water the grass that you are already standing on then you have no right being in a relationship, remove selfishness and fix the relationship you already have , if you can’t then dump them and move on , A guy needs to feel wanted and valued as well in a relationship we do have feelings and sex shows him that , Most guys won’t admit to it cuz we don’t want to come off as horn dogs and get you girl’s pissed off at us cuz your emotional needs aren’t being met and you automatically assume he doesn’t care , but if you want your relationship to survive, have sex with your man make him feel wanted , when a guy loves his girl and she has sex with him , all those chores you want done around the house will be done , if you deny him sex he is going to take it to heart that you don’t admire him and find him attractive and will think you might be up to no good , and hold it against you , if a girl cheats on her man she is cheating cuz her emotional needs aren’t met but for a guy is his physical needs aren’t met. I been in relationships with girls that gave me amazing sex in the beginning and then all of a sudden it dies down , I need to find a girl that likes to fuck like I do lol

[RearEntryGuy]

I this age where information is readily available on one's hand, I dare say everyone knows the basics about dating, relationships, sex and what keeps a relationship alive.

Hence when someone withhold sex, it's almost always means the relationship is nearing its end, or something happens between the couple (like quarrel, etc).

Articles similar to your details are all over the Internet.

I'm sure most girls in a sexual relationship know, so do their boyfriends.

Hence it all voice down to will power, humility and the desire to forgive. As long as one of them use sex as a weapon to get even or revenge, the relationship will break. And I'm quite sure most know this fact as well.

Hence, I have to agree with you.

[slatyb]

Do you imagine women don’t also want sex? There are more women complaining about uninterested partners then men.

[DizzyDesii]

I prefer to hear the guy say he needs an emotional connection first or that he's waiting to make sure she's the right one or that he's waiting til marriage. If its anything outside of that, then yes its hard to understand why he doesn't want it and makes me think he could be closeted, asexual, or getting it elsewhere

[FictionalCharacter]

As a girl, I was actually upset with a guy. Cause all he could think about was my body and the “sweet caring” attention I was giving him.

BUT….

He could not describe me as a person. Not my personality. Not my worth or emotions.

Just how he feels and the attention he got.

[Finchie40]

Then that sounds like he just like the convenience of you , nobody is perfect but if someone is standing by your side and making you a priority it’s best to make them a priority as well, You both are t always going to be on the same page with things but with communication and compromising and making it work shows you both care for each other

[FictionalCharacter]

I don’t know. I always the bad guy from other guys perspective.

[Finchie40]

You are only the bad guy if you don’t express your feelings to them , We all aren’t mind readers and don’t know what everyone is thinking , if your emotional needs aren’t being met then you are best to talk to your partner and express your feelings of concern , make them aware of how you are feeling in a way that you aren’t pointing fingers at them blaming them for how you are feeling , If they don’t care and make you feel like you are silly to feel that way then you have every right to walk away from that relationship

[FictionalCharacter]

I apologized to him 😞

[Agape93]

They don't need it, they want it and helps them feel satisfied emotionally. But it is not ever a need. Now mind you, I'm far from a prude but semantics is a fun thing for me lol

[Finchie40]

It becomes a need when a girl he loves and cares about denies him all the time , it doesn’t take much to please a man it takes a whole list of shit to please a girl lol

[Tomsta]

Some guys just don't need sex and i'm not referring to asexuality here. Some guys are fine just masturbating

Because i can't cum from sex all i have is masturbation so

[Anonymous]

Of course they realize this. They just don't care lol.

[Maroo9]

I don’t believe it’s a need but more of a want.

[Finchie40]

From a girl’s perspective yes that’s what she thinks because a girl needs her emotional needs to be met for her to want sex but for a guy that’s not completely true , it’s a need for us considering we were born this way, this is how we were made , A guys brain is wired completely different then a girls , Girls have a 100 things racing through their heads at one time when a Guy can’t really do that , when we fall in love with a girl or we really like a girl the only way we can really express our love to her is to protect her and make her feel we have her back no matter what is racing through her head Our intentions are to make her feel safe and secure and let her know we are there for her all we want is for her to look up to us and stay loyal to us. She can put us through a world of drama with her stresses and depression and her to do list lol and make us feel she doesn’t really value us , Sex gives us closure , it makes us feel safe and secure in the relationship , when she is submissive to us, it makes us feel she still values and loves us and looks up to us , when she doesn’t give us sex and affection it makes us feel she doesn’t really value us and that she is just with us for a convenience, When a guy starts feeling like she doesn’t value him anymore he will hold in his pain and hurt cuz he is scared to lose her and become her punching bag , Guys are very protective of their girls when he values and loves her , but Girl’s tend to be turned on by his confidence if he shows any signs of insecurity she gets turned off unless he is a fuck boy and doesn’t give 2 shits

[SnakeBoop]

XD XD imagine..

[Finchie40]

LOL I have been

[princeofromance]

That is 100% the truth.