Do guys know that their being obvious with the fact that they just want sex from a girl, and don't care about being so blatant about that?

[Anonymous]

So me and this guy from work have been flirting on a few shifts, I’ve started to devlop a crush but as he is a manager I am hesitant to start something just due to working together and want to make sure we are both on the same page.

However, I have noticed that whenever we stay behind at work, he always turns the convo to sex/drinking. This is giving a few red flags and makes me think that he just wants a shag. But he is being VERY obvious in my opinion that he just wants sex. For example

- He has asked me how ‘easy I am to get with when drunk’ and if i’m the type of girl who ‘leaves her friends to get with a guy’ on a night out. We were talking about nights out, what we like to drink etc so he may have thought this was a natural convo.

- We were also talking about Uni and he kept bringing up how many girls he slept with at uni, stuff he’d done during sex etc whats the weirdest thing i’ve done during sex

- He does always ask if i’m single/seeing anyone

- He also asked how long it had been since i’d had sex

These conversations have happened several months apart as we dont always stay behind for a drink but I just thought it odd that he continued bringing this up each time. We do talk about general stuff but he does keep talking about drinking and sex

i’m getting the vibe that he may seem to be relying on getting my drunk or being tipsy in order to start something. But I am geuniley interested him and so wouldn’t need to be drunk to get with him.

but these things are giving me weird vibes and i’m not sure how to approach the topic that I find it off putting that he keeps bringing this up.

Not sure if he is aware of how he sounds?

[Anonymous]

Ok so do women want men to be honest or not. This is the type of bs that men run into. Women who say they want men to be honest. But then when she ask does this dress make me look fat and he replies it’s not the dress, now he’s wrong lol that’s why men don’t really talk much cause he’s always wrong.

[spartan55]

And yet you are interested in this guy? He sounds gross, but whatever. I would never say or ask a woman things that to a woman I want to get with. It definitely indicates a fundamental lack of respect for you.

[Nikki1989]

Most men are usually unaware of the bleeding obvious. They need to be told all the time.