Gals: would you rather date a Beta male or Alpha male?

[OddBeMe]

Not exactly sure the difference. Seems like BS…

Alpha

Beta

[slatyb]

The notion of "Alpha" male doesn't apply to modern humans. Pack animals have "alpha" males who presumably get their pick of the females. Humans do not run in packs. Females do not mate with the man who defeats the others in physical combat.

The only thing certain is that any man who labels himself "alpha" is probably of relatively low status and is trying to compensate. Most of my friends and colleagues are (or were) in tech. Many are multi-millionaires. If they aren't retired, they who could retire whenever they please. They don't consider themselves "alpha", just lucky.

[OddBeMe]

Agreed.

[Avicenna]

The alpha/beta thing is really kinda BS, but for argument's sake, let's assume it is accurate. I think most women actually want the beta guy. Here are some reasons why:

1) She needs or wants a provider she thinks she can control and won't leave her for "someone better"
2) She's realistic and knows the alpha guy has so many options that she won't get what she wants if she wants more than mere sex

[Seinna]

To be honest, something in between.

There's nothing worse than a spoiled man who won't appreciate you, but I wouldn't waste my time on a passive one neither.

[WowwGirl]

Betas are pussies

[OddBeMe]

I would retort…. but I’m a beta.

[WowwGirl]

Lmao

[WowwGirl]

Pants on fire

[Xtcy2083]

Beta is better. Alphas are sick, egotistical psychos.

[OddBeMe]

As a probable beta, I appreciate that.

[Msputiton]

No such thing. Just guys insecure about there masculinity running around calling them alpha

[OddBeMe]

They don’t run, they’re too hefty.

[JC1981]

I would rather date a guy that is comfortable and secure in in own skin and sexualality that he doesn't feel the need to be an Alpha but not a Full Beta. I like a balanced guy who can be both at appropriate times, as I like to be.

[OddBeMe]

I agree with everything you say and would do anything you want. Need an iced tea?

[JC1981]

A long Island iced tea? 🍹

[OddBeMe]

Whatever you want master.

[Sevenpointfive]

@JC1981 i agree. i go teen wolf on people if i have to

[Anonymous]

This is like asking women "are you a gold digger or do you not care about a man's money?". They never give an honest answer, for obvious reasons.

[Vegasrunner]

Most woman would rather date a Beta but they would rather fuk an Alpha

[MelonSoda]

I agree with you. Seems like bs.

[hi_it_is_me123]

Delta male

[OddBeMe]

Had to look up that definition. Sounds exhausting….

[Anonymous]

Real men are Sigmas

[OddBeMe]

Had to look this up. I’m introverted and a loner who makes everyone come to me. That’s it, right?