Gals: Would you rather date an Alpha Male or Beta Male?

[OddBeMe]

Gotta choose one, even tho most people overlap. But which attributes do you find sexier?

Alpha

Beta

Updates

+1 y

I guess firstly…are the attributes pretty much correct?

[GOLDFISH_smile]

Even though I'm a house wife rn, I'd NEVER date someone with "traditional views." That's basically a dog whistle for "I want to force everything/everyone to stay traditional" at this point. And yeah I may technically be in a traditional relationship dynamic, but that doesn't mean I wanna force my lifestyle on everyone else or their morally inferior.

Same with "family values." Obviously I value family, but I'd never say I have family values, bc now that just means "I wanna force all family to be traditional." Which I don't. I'm fine with non traditional families, they're cool, and I technically am in one of those too.

[KrakenAttackin]

@GOLDFISH_smile. Last, you are nuts.

[OddBeMe]

Yeah it’s going an extra step to make everyone aware of your traditional values.

[GOLDFISH_smile]

@KrakenAttackin thank you. :)

[HitsyHonesty]

I read 'laid back' so beta, I love laid back people! There is too much stress in the world already! And that 'more style' doesn't make any sense to me.

[OddBeMe]

Go beta…babes. We’re non toxic like those baby crayons.

[HitsyHonesty]

Beta Babes. I like it!

[OddBeMe]

New phrase

[normalice]

If we're not going off the strict definitions laid out by wolves then we're admitting it needs adjustment for the way humans live. What you describe might have been accurate in the 80s but today too many "betas" have learned to fake the "alpha" attributes, thinking it will finally attract them a girl. I don't know what the real attributes are because the whole thing is too much like astrology to me. Just fuck the girls who want to get fucked and don't fuck the girls who don't want to get fucked. It barely requires thought.

[OddBeMe]

So you know betas are faking alpha behavior, but don’t know what that behavior actually is?

[normalice]

Betas are faking what they believe is alpha behavior, but their beliefs are based on outdated information.

[Billlewis]

Ideally, she should have one of each -- a sweet, generous celibate beta male to spoil her rotten, pay for her dates with other guys and basically just kiss her ass all the time, and a strong, handsome alpha male to provide the hard, pounding sex she so dearly needs.

[OddBeMe]

Riiight…. women hate guys who help with the laundry.

[HiveBee]

It's not hard pounding sex you beta. But you're beta so you wouldn't know.

Let an alpha tell you.

The purpose of the alpha male is to fulfill her desires to be submissive.

It's not the sex. It's the submission. Submission itself causes mental and body orgasms.

The ladies will reply and say I am a liar but I know very well how women work.

It is the fact that the man has power and she is CHOOSING to submit herself to his power.

And she only does so, so long as his power is congruent. Meaning basically "real."

It's all a kink. It's all fetish shit.

Nearly all women are submissive freaks.

[HiveBee]

Just kidding about the alpha thing. I ain't shit.

But I learned these things as a beta male. The girls thought I was gay.

I have seen the truth of women.

[Billlewis]

@HiveBee I think you nailed it there, Sir.

[HiveBee]

Thank you.

in my opinion there is no such thing as alpha or beta.

But there is a secret world of women that 99% of men are clueless about. That last 1% is the men who women want.

Men who have basically be TRAINED by women.

Women train men. They do this by reacting positively when a man performs the right actions.

Some men accidentally stumble upon dominant behavior. It makes a woman melt like butter.

But it's not dominant as men see it. Us men don't see it as deeply and complex as women do. We see it as physical dominance.

For women it permeates every single other aspect of life.

[HiveBee]

That's why women get mad and tell men we are wrong when we believe women want a dominant man.

Because our view of dominance is not the correct view.

[msmissydc]

So first everyone who actually believes in that crap is a no for me. Second from these descriptions I want a mix but if thats not possible the "alpha" is a red flag while the beta is just not perfect so beta by far.

[OddBeMe]

Interesting. Yea you are absolutely correct that men don’t fall this easily into ridic categories. But I guess I wanted to compare contrast “laid back” guys with “aggressive alpha males”

[KrakenAttackin]

@msmissydc. So why are you chasing Chad Thundercock? He's no beta soy boy.

[msmissydc]

What are you even trying to say?

[OddBeMe]

I guess Krak is asking if you chase star quarterbacks or are you open to president of the AV club….

[msmissydc]

I am married I dont chase anyone anymore.
He sounded like I DO chase someone while saying the one I chase is an 'alpha male'.

[Nikki1989]

I wouldn't date any man that believes in that nonsense.

[OddBeMe]

Amen, that’s the secret right answer

But you blew my whole thing here!

[mikaaa89]

Hahahaha.. this is like the basic of modern psychology patterns.. anyway.. myself i would love a men knowing about himself instead of your kind of men nikki.. "me men.. me strong.. me never cry.. women mine" you know that kind

[OddBeMe]

@mikaaa89 well toxic masculinity is fueling an entire war in Ukraine right now. And causing some mass shootings here, in my opinion. The whole idea of mansculinty needs a rewrite.

[mikaaa89]

Ok.. soo now and I don't know why.. you stwich the question "what's your opinion about alpha/beta poeple" for "do you think there will be more or less outrageous decisions with more women in charge"

[OddBeMe]

@mikaaa89 no…I’m saying Russia has severe issues with toxicity and masculinity. No females in high office, gay bashing. If you listen to Russian media translated they literally tell their people going to the EU you have to get gay married. Lol

[mikaaa89]

This is much more complex.. this is a really AT LARGE picture of beta vs alpha poeple..

Quick fact... for the same academic level and type of personality

A lawyer will lead towards alpha type vs an accountant towards and beta type

Or

A Sell' s man.. alpha.. a teacher.. beta

Alpha's predominantly focus over pass all the goals fixed.. instead the beta definitely focus on being the most helpfull they can be in all the scenarios (they hate quantity but love quality)

[ShellyB]

I don't think anybody is really one or the other, I think it is relative or depends on situations. These are more like stereotypes or cardboard cutouts than they are really how people are. I voted "alpha" since these are my only two options. I think the way it is worded, for example saying "beta" has more substance, is not something everybody would agree with. Some might say that a guy who lacks confidence also lacks substance and that is why he isn't confident. But you can view it different ways. Just in general I would not want to be with a guy who acted needy, always unsure of everything or scared a lot of the time, of course everybody is that way sometimes and that is OK, just not as a main personality trait. JMO!

[EmmaMary]

Gosh! Is this old nonsense still floating around? smh

[Nikki1989]

As you see if you scroll down, some men are still brainwashed enough to believe it means something. Sad!

[OddBeMe]

Are you gals seeing “High Value Man” labels?

[EmmaMary]

@Nikki1989

As you will hopefully have realised, I've just returned from a lovely three weeks holiday, totally GaG free, only to discover that the same old C*** & BS still exists here!

[Nikki1989]

Yep, nothing ever changes around here. If anything, it just gets worse. I am happy you had a lovely holiday, though.

[EmmaMary]

@Nikki1989

Thank you.

I'm truly trying to fathom out just why the hell I've returned, it's not like I missed being here in the slightest... Just how weird is this? smh

[whirled_up_girl]

Per your update I'm not sure the redpilled crowed would completely agree with those being the attributes of each but it's been a while since anyone has explained to me redpill ideology. Something tells me you made this post to stir the pot. And based on the comments, it worked😂

[OddBeMe]

Well it keeps morphing. Like it’s defintion of feminism.

[whirled_up_girl]

Yeah good point!

[BlackBeauty90]

Neither because men who use these terms literally contribute NO VALUE to a meaningful relationship with decent or respectable women.

If you pay attention the ONLY men who use these terms on social media, etc. and "alpha men" in particular are SURROUNDED by WHORES, SLUTS, etc who are ONLY with these douchebags with arrogant good for nothing personalities as they have money.

[zoe2187]

I find alpha males more attractive. In reality I want a little of both.

[OddBeMe]

I’m bipolar babes…(winks)

[inhua]

basically which group of guys is more attractive?

Henry Cavill, Chris Hemsworth, Jason Statham

or Michael Cera, Jesse Eisenberg, Jonah Hill

[OddBeMe]

I’m not as gay as you, so you tell me.

And how do you know which is alpha or beta? What the Hemsworths are mommas boys?

[inhua]

do you have a problem with gay people? I thought a liberal like you was suppose to be supportive of gay people?

[OddBeMe]

No. Obvi. But seriously you listed several actors like you know exactly how there personalizes are.

[OddBeMe]

*personalities

[inhua]

why does that matter to you why I listed them?

[OddBeMe]

You listed them in groups like you know which celeb is beta or alpha? Are you slow tonight?

[inhua]

what's your point here?

[OddBeMe]

Is it really better to be 100% alpha?
And why aren’t beta males valued?

[inhua]

history remembers and praises alphas whether it be political leaders, military leaders, GOAT athletes, warriors, inventors, explorers, heroes etc.

beta males historically didn't survive because they would die whether at the hands of a wild animal or another alpha male much less could they protect their women and families. this is why they're not valued

when was the last time a beta male was ever the protagonist of a story where he remained beta throughout? let me guess, Batman? Hercules? Goku? Luke Skywalker? never.

society will always praise strength over weakness. people can be denial of this all they want but that's never going to change

[OddBeMe]

(Checking…)
I’d call Hitler an Alpha Male and FDR as a beta. Who’s better remembered by history?

[inhua]

this isn't about who the better person is or their moral compass. If one of the two men was to be forgotten in history for better or worse, it won't be Hitler

[provokeesmokee]

Listening is supposed to be a negative trait?

No wonder self-proclaimed alpha males keep getting rejected.

[Sasha0426]

Here’s a better question: Why is an almost 40 year old man still using the terms alpha and beta? GROW UP!!

[OddBeMe]

What’s the terms? I’m only concerned about incels really…sexless boys scare the shit out of me. Easy access to guns and so full of rage.

[Anonymous]

I think a mix would be good

It's good to be dominant, but too aggressive is never that good plus I don't see any problem with being a good listener

[Apple1996]

I don't believe in alpha/beta men

[scooogy]

How about Hulk? He's had gamma vibes 🤷‍♂️
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Aj5V1-HQyLE

[Apple1996]

@scooogy lol nope

[mikaaa89]

Do you mean you mean that you dont believe in psychology's theories or just never wanted to use your brain and check what it is about

[Apple1996]

@mikaaa89 it's make believe shit that only men care about

[Bitterness]

Alpha male.

[you_asked]

Shut the F up