When shoold I marry my girlfriend?

[Citystar1984]

We been together almost 2 years she has a son from her previous marriage he's 10 his dad died a few years ago. When should we get married?

[Anonymous]

When you feel compelled. I would write out a long, detailed description of the person you want to marry, the kind of marriage you want (binding or non-gov or whatever other forms of marriage there might be to you), and the life you want to have with them; then write out a long, detailed, honest description of the girl you are with. After that I would compare the two and ask yourself is she close enough to what I want and is she gonna be in harmony with the life I want? If you think she is then great but it is her turn to do that same. If her list fits yours list well then you got something. You wanna know where you two are headed and where you are. Then you have to get moving in that direction in a state of harmony. Always in harmony. To get moving in that direction by building favorable action/emotion/thought habits. Courtesy might be one habit you need to develop for example. It is a great trait in an attractive personality. Courtesy - is the habit of respecting other people's feelings under all circumstances - The habit of going out of ones way to help any less fortunate person whenever and wherever possible - The habit of controlling selfishness in all its forms. A must is the development of the habit of a positive mental attitude and tolerance.

[Changiis07]

When you feel it's right. Does she make you happy? Can you spend the rest of your life with her and take on the role of being a good father to her son...

[Truthatanycost]

Any time after you've done a full cost-to-benefit analysis, and employed logic in addition to your feelings. Desire is a great salesman... but a poor advisor.

[GaGirls]

What is cost to benefit? Like pros vs cons?

[Truthatanycost]

@GaGirls Yes, but more in depth. I know a guy that lost his home from not doing that simple cost-to-benefit analysis.

[jasco]

when ever your ready

[emperor90]

When u are ready