I promised her I was gonna marry her but now changed my mind?

[Anonymous]

i don't feel an emotional connection with her she is acting very distant she tells me it's because of her studies (were in a long-distance relationship)

now can i break up with her or not?

[Danielle93]

Break-up and next time do not promise anything. If there is no future in a relationship, there is nothing.

When you break-up, don't even ask for a friendship. That will be insulting. When it's over it's over.

[Anonymous]

You don’t stay in a relationship just because you promised your partner you would. Life happens and things change — that’s okay.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

SMART MAN! Marriage is like a hurricane there is a lot of blowing in the beginning & when it’s all said & done your house is gone.

[slatyb]

So? Don't marry her. People break off engagements all the time.

[Summeroflove]

Well. If you ain’t gonna marry her. Don’t. Or get couples counseling

[CateM]

Break up. Find somebody new. You're not doing yourself any favors staying with her

[sheenagwapa]

yeah break up with her... if there's no love what's the use of relationship?

[KrakenAttackin]

She's banging another guy, dump her.