Me and my ex broke up about 4 months ago during that time however we have been messaging etc all the time about 7/8 weeks ago we slept together a few weeks before that we did and we done it last night she hasn't went with anyone else and neither have I , the major problem was me not letting go of the past two years ago a went to australia and left and broke up she was willing to wait but I wasn't she moved on to another guy she slept with once and stayed with twice he's in the same social circle as her now and it irritates me as he is a decent looking guy however she swares it was just a rebound it meant nothing and was 2 years ago. we had a rocky relationship but I met her when I was 18 and now I am 26 she is the love of my life no other girl comes close to her she means the world to me she needed this sort of commitment months ago but really I was soul searching to see if I could let all this go and I have I think I cried more the last 2 weeks than I have the last 26 years ! She only ever saw me cry once she never really saw me cry I have let it all go and the soul searching has worked but is it to late? a just want to marry her a always have a just never new it she's my rock and a think she's my soul mate I was with her last night and she is still in love with me but can't jump straight back in she needs time without contact what so ever to decide if a can change or she will move on , I was liking other girls photos and stuff and she had no confidence what so ever was another major reason for break up , I want ask her to marry me a think this is the commitment she needs words are cheap it's been 8 years it really do or die am thinkin 5 weeks with no contact and on Christmas Eve arrange with her work to be in her restraunt and I go in spill my heart out and offer the ring if no then I know it's over for good and walk away and move on rest of my life. She wanted this 6 months ago for years she has wanted his and still loves me, what do u think guys?
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Due to the circumstances I would consider not asking her to marry you at her work place and in public. Perhaps something more suitable would be somewhere special to you both and not in front of lots of people. You don't want her to feel pressured into saying yes to you.
Marriage is a choice and not a last resort don't turn the floodworks on and then present her with a ultimatum. You guys have issues and you are no longer together so just remember that when you go to propose. Good luck.0