Why Do Asian Women (Pakistani, Afghan etc) Rarely Date Black Men?

Question

The rarest interracial parings tend to be South Asian women with Black men.

What is it about black men that you Pakistani/Afghan/Iranians find so difficult to be attracted to. In fact, you guys seem to date inter-racially the least. WHY?

Is there an added stigma to being with black men that we don't know about?

Boldandcool · Accepted Answer

Trust me brother, this has NOTHING go to do with racism. Its just a matter of preferences. Some date Asian because they want their offspring to look more oriented. Other date white because they want blue eyes and blonde hair. Same with woman who date their own because they have more in common with their own people. Same culture, ethnicity, hobbies and similar people who share their interest. As for black? Penis size doesn't matter and you are free to love who ever you want. Do bare in mind that Sometimes Cultures clash tend to happen and some parents want their offspring to walk to the straight path. Also bare in mind that Some parents also have to make their children understand that you also have to give other men a chance as well, from their own race. Because not many afghan men are lucky to be born attractive and sometimes left alone with no one to mate with. Especially how pornography portray black men these days as more masculine compare to white and Afghan Asian men as more men who are inferior. So PLEASE try to understand that you also have to give each gender a chance to experience love. There has to be a balance between each race and gender.

SinghSong · Accepted Answer

Well, I'm mixed race, with my parents forming the reverse of that rarest of inter-racial pairings- South Asian (Punjabi) father, Black (Caribbean) mother. And in spite of how pale-skinned I am, I've experienced the same prejudice whenever I've tried to attract and approach South Asian girls. I've had girls tell me to my face that I'm "too black for them" (even when my skin's been lighter than theirs, even with their skin-bleaching creams), and that I'm the "son of a slave". It is blatant racism. But it's more to do with endemic class and caste discrimination- the darker skinned you are, in South Asia, the lower your social status will be, no matter how good a person you are or how much you earn. And with women especially, they'll never 'date down' and date a man who has a lower (perceived) status in their society than they themselves do- they only 'date up' (which is why white men are the most popular of all with them).

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

For Tyt_2011

I have nothing against Muslims, but their beliefs are bullsh*t, and no less, in encouragement of racism and prejudice than Christianity.

In Hadith no.436, vol 6, It says: when Umar came to visit Muhammad, he saw a "BLACK SLAVE OF ALLAH'S APOSTLE sitting on the first step"

"That if you dreamed of a "black" woman, this was an evil omen (Hadith no 9, vol,162,163)

He also referred to black people as "raisin heads" (Hadith no.662, vol 1).

In Arabic the common word for black is "Abd" which also means "slave".

Ishaq 243 "I have heard the Apostle say: 'Whoever wants to see Satan should look at Nabtal.' He was a sturdy black man with long flowing hair, inflamed eyes, and dark ruddy cheeks.

[Qur'an 9:61] "Gabriel came to Muhammad and said, 'If a black man comes to you, his heart is more gross than a donkey's.'"

charizzle · Accepted Answer

firstly, matchmaking is pretty common among the south Asian or middle eastern people. which is probably why they rarely date interracially.

also, it seems like they tend to marry/date within their own race when they're in the US/europe. but here in singapore, a lot of them do marry/date outside their race with the malays, chinese, africans, whites, peranakans, etc.

maybe the reason why they don't marry/date outside their race in the west because western people (whether you're white or black) have a different culture and different values. over here, we all have pretty much the same kinds of values & culture that it's probably easier for them to accept people of other races HERE than in a western society.

just taking a stab at your question, but I may be wrong.

anonima25 · Accepted Answer

i didn't know afghan and pakistani women do dating ! excuse my ignorance but as far as I'm concerned they're too fanatic and have a very rigid religious culture (iranian girls too) that allows only marriage ! Dating isn't into consideration ! Plus, it is better if from the same country, colour and SPECIALLY FROM THE SAME RELIGION ! Meaning you being black doesn't change the fact that they have a racist and fanatic religious culture (GENERALLY AND BASED TO MY INFO, I MIGHT BE MISTAKEN) ! if you were chinese, japonese, thai, American indian, or too white it wouldn't work either ! I repeat, I don't know them all, but this is what I know about them, I might be mistaken ! hope my words would help !

Delaisback · Answer

I think those cultures are especially clingy to their own, not only for the reason of culture but also religion. Family plays a big factor and chances are their parents pick out who they are going to be with (I'm talking first/ second generation) or at least need to approve of the guy first.

I think there are many negative perceptions on black guys and that actually makes most girls hesitant to date them, and in this case I can see these girls who are family oriented and more reserved, not wanting to go that road.

Anonymous · Answer

yes, their families are usually pretty traditional and it is preferred that they stay in their ethnic group/culture. if they DO date outside of their race, it is better to be with a white man than another Asian than it is for a black man. most Asian families will not accept you, and Asian girls who date black men are seen as sluts and trash.

tyt_2012 · Answer

Because of difference in cultures, religion, tradition, values. xD

Anonymous · Answer

I think Muhammad describes what a devil looks like, and I'm sure he s refering to the look of a black man. I can't be sure, but that might just be what causes the level of racism in the Islamic world.

zorasroses · Answer

That's not true I am  an afghan girl who loves black men and I have friends that agree with me but their a rare breed at where I live which is quite unfortunate. Don't feel discouraged. "The darker the berry, the sweeter the juice"

badbytch90 · Answer

I'm afghan and we should start dating who ever we want to I'm tired of the strict culture me myself I date I repeat I would date and marry a black man because I think they are more cool to be around fuck the haters!

Anonymous · Answer

I have a friend who is from afganistan, and she is hot. She finds black men hot.

jeremiah14 · Answer

good question, been wondering the same thing brother lol

Cailleach · Answer

Pakistani/Afghan/Iranians aren't Asian's...

Vanjasper · Answer

I'm adding this just to see the comments :-)

Anonymous · Answer

They mostly like white skinned

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