The rarest interracial parings tend to be South Asian women with Black men.
What is it about black men that you Pakistani/Afghan/Iranians find so difficult to be attracted to. In fact, you guys seem to date inter-racially the least. WHY?
Is there an added stigma to being with black men that we don't know about?
What is it about black guys that is so unattractive or taboo in those cultures. Is it just blatant racism?
Most Helpful Girl
firstly, matchmaking is pretty common among the south Asian or middle eastern people. which is probably why they rarely date interracially.
also, it seems like they tend to marry/date within their own race when they're in the US/europe. but here in singapore, a lot of them do marry/date outside their race with the malays, chinese, africans, whites, peranakans, etc.
maybe the reason why they don't marry/date outside their race in the west because western people (whether you're white or black) have a different culture and different values. over here, we all have pretty much the same kinds of values & culture that it's probably easier for them to accept people of other races HERE than in a western society.
just taking a stab at your question, but I may be wrong.2
Most Helpful Guy
Well, I'm mixed race, with my parents forming the reverse of that rarest of inter-racial pairings- South Asian (Punjabi) father, Black (Caribbean) mother. And in spite of how pale-skinned I am, I've experienced the same prejudice whenever I've tried to attract and approach South Asian girls. I've had girls tell me to my face that I'm "too black for them" (even when my skin's been lighter than theirs, even with their skin-bleaching creams), and that I'm the "son of a slave". It is blatant racism. But it's more to do with endemic class and caste discrimination- the darker skinned you are, in South Asia, the lower your social status will be, no matter how good a person you are or how much you earn. And with women especially, they'll never 'date down' and date a man who has a lower (perceived) status in their society than they themselves do- they only 'date up' (which is why white men are the most popular of all with them).0