Speaking from the girl dating another girl side, I can tell you that people are always gonna find something to complain about. If it wasn't that and you were dating a cis woman then maybe it is about her cooking or something she says or does.
In the end, your girlfriend is making you happy and she is possibly the one you will spend your life with, not your dad or friends. If you ever feel self conscious about it, just use it to find even more reasons to get closer to her. Let her love for you block out those doubts.17 Reply- Asker+1 y
That's so true like people will always dislike something but it just makes me feel less accepted I guess and that sucks because I like my family and friends I just dont like getting made fun of for something I love, I'm happy they at least dont say things around her. I don't know forsure if she is my lifelong partner but it feels like it currently, I've never loved someone else more and she does make me feel really happy and special. I really like the way you worded that, you're right I should let her love block out those comments, I shouldn't let it make me insecure but I guess it just does
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I have been seeking approval from my parents for years and I have been with my wife for a total of 20 years. The way our relationship is set up is just never gonna be accepted. At some point I just stopped caring and focused on how much we love one another.
Insecurity makes sense, but just remember, that's THEIR insecurity you are bearing on your shoulders right now, not yours. - Asker+1 y
Yeah that's so ridiculous like I dont think my parents or friends would truly accept it either and it makes me sad when I think about it. I'll do the same, focus on the relationship that is more important to me. I'll have to try to block out the weird comments and condescending nature of my relationship. You're right it's not really my insecurity but it is now because so many people have made me feel bad or ashamed because of a person I love. The world really sucks sometimes
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Exactly, she is way more level headed than I am and helps me a lot with this kind of stuff
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Thank you ❤ I have been much happier since I met her. I'm glad relationship has been good for you too!
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- Xper 6 Age: 23 , mho 44%+1 y
Just because people don’t understand it or don’t agree with it, they shouldn’t be making fun of you for it. You’re right, people should be happy for you because your happy and that’s all that matters. Tell them to stfu
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That's literally how I feel like I dont serve to be made fun of for it they should just keep it to themselves at least it just makes me feel like shit. I'm not very confrontational so I don't know of I'd tell them to stfu 😅 but I totally agree with you
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Haha that’s ok, just try to ignore them 🙂
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Will do, thanks for your response!
- Xper 6 Age: 34+1 y
I wouldn't date trans, and i don't see the appeal of dating one.
However it's not business to tell you how to enjoy yours if it isn't causing any harm to the people around you.
Just another form of riches of life in my view.11 Reply- Asker+1 y
Fair enough, I respect your answer
361 opinions shared on Dating topic. In other words your boyfriend likes to dress like a girl... personally I don't really care. But it seems like a lot of effort just to avoid both coming out of the closet to me.
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@Juxtapose Of course. Lots of gay dudes are into femboys; how is this any different?
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Well yeah she was born male but honestly when I first met her I thought it was a girl the entire time until we got close. In my opinion it was well worth the effort we have a solid relationship, sure I get a lot of shit for it but to me that shows me who the real people in my life are. That's fine by me, also I'm not a hardcore gay guy just to throw it out there, I was never with a dude before I got with her.
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@Juxtapose Thank you so much, our relationship has been amazing so far l, I've never loved someone more and I hope it lasts for us too! Appreciate your kindness
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- Master Age: 33+1 y
I’ve never dated a trans person but I agree with you
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at least you can respect it, thanks for that
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- Anonymous(25-29)+1 y
It’s basically a gay relationship, so you might as well come out. People probably imagine you taking up the butt from a dude dressed as a girl or vice versa and because you can’t have kids.
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Well yeah I guess its gay or whatever but I haven't been with a dude before so I consider myself bi. So what if that happens though like she has a dick too do people not expect her to use it like at least with girls I dont feel insecure about my size or anything like that. Kids aren't a huge deal to me, I've always said that I don't really want any but if things come to it I'm open to adoption with her!
2.7K opinions shared on Dating topic. Because they're imagining you sucking dick or bending over and taking dick.
In terms of guy humor that is pretty high up there and a nice, juicy target.13 Reply- Asker+1 y
Yeah that's some of the things I get shit for but I try to not let it get to me
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LOL that is pretty funny, I would do that if I was more of a bold person but I'm not very confrontational. It sounds like something my girlfriend would do though 😂
Love the fact you approached a trans Woman, wish I could date one too I have sworn to never look at another girl again because I am done with their bs attitude.
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Well to be honest she was the one that approached me when we first started talking, I had no idea she was trans until she told me. Yeah if you like them a lot why not try to find a date with one
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I consider myself lucky too because I'm not really the type to approach people, I'm just wondering what makes you love them so much if you haven't been with one before? I wouldn't say girls are overrated but I wouldn't trade the girl i have now for any other girl. I think you just need to find a good person with a good heart that you can connect with, I dont think gender plays a part in that
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I tried I also dated 2 girls and both were the usual shallow girls who didn't date me for my smaller than average dick size and were just insufferable to be with, I am completely don't on trying to satisfy females desires and not focusing on myself.
I got some trans girls as friends and we really hit off from the get go, I never got that negative energy from them that I always do from females, for me gender plays a huge role in this. - Asker+1 y
Fair enough, I can relate to you in some ways too I'm pretty small down there too and i feel like my past girlfriends saw it as an issue even if they didn't say anything about it but with my current girlfriend it has not been an issue at all and she makes me feel good about it. if you hit it off with your trans friends why not try to date them? Not saying I would approach them myself but maybe you are more bold than I am. Honestly after being with my current girlfriend I can't imagine being with an actual woman after it's a nice change for me
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I think I would be way more insecure around a girl that's the reason for me since past relationships didn't really work out. I wish you the best of luck and I hope you find someone that makes you happy ❤ it's the best when you have good people around you
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I can feel your passion so I know you'll find someone!
- Guru Age: 33+1 yhttps://www.youtube.com/embed/4HjqzIRFIB0
also, inform them that some trans girls can tuck by sticking it into their ass.
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Believe me, I know all about this, I always wondered how she'd hide that thing so well lmao. she's not exclusively top like shown in the video but she is most of the time we're still switches.
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big girl, then, huh? then, she's hit a milestone far better than SRS could ever give her. besides, the point to me posting that vid was for her point that men secure in their sexuality won't make a fuss. as for tucking the dick in the ass--that was a wise ass way of saying ''fuck off!''. besides, verse is better.
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She is a big girl 😅 and you aren't far off, she said that she probably wouldn't ever do the SRS she likes what she has. I really dont make a fuss about things, i love her a lot and I'm very open about my relationship with her, I told my family I was dating a transwoman after about 3 months of dating her. I'm comfortable about saying I'm dating her and all that it just feels very unwarranted to be getting made fun of for something that makes a couple happy. That's an interesting way of saying fuck off
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She has absolutely nothing to gain but plenty to lose. I'm referring to those who make fun of you. That's literally telling them to go fuck themselves.
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I feel the same way, if you can't have kids after SRS then what's the point in my opinion especially if you're still fully functioning like why would she give that up. And Oh! I didn't catch that lol but agreed, fuck those people I feel like most of them could never find someone they truly love anyways, I pity them sometimes.
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I'm the guy you come to for smart ass remarks. let's look at the score. what she has against her: most cis girls can have kids and she never will cis girls self-lube... she won't. now, let's see what she has going for her: not all men want kids, cis women can't experience blow jobs , she can, girls can't provide prostate pleasure without toys.. she doesn't need it. plus, she found someone who loves her and appreciates what she does have. besides, the stories aren't very positive... it often looks horrible and not very functional with serious issues. this is an extreme example... but very common: www.reddit.com/.../
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You are right on the money! No matter how hard they try, with our current technology you can't just replicate a vagina, all it does is make more problems, she always told me even if she was strictly bottom and never liked topping she still wouldn't get that surgery. She thinks having a dick is better in general plus is gives her more options to have fun with. I'm not going to lie, when we first started dating her having a dick did weird me out because I never considered myself gay or any of that before so it was completely brand new to me but the more I spent time with her and experienced stuff I learned to appreciate it and she was a big help in that too, being very patient and sort of guiding me. Yeah man after reading a couple of those stories, I'm happy that she thinks the way she does I'd hate to see her miserable like some of those people.. They will probably have regret for the rest of their life and its irreversible. If she was already dysfunctional then I guess it would make sense but I dont see any reason someone would go through with that surgery if they are functioning well.
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makes her exotic. I used to be transphobic most do and many commit suicide. I changed because of sex games and grew from there. oh, and tell her NOT to follow Blaire White... horrible representative... were I still transphobic... she would only validate my feelings. she was in a debate... and... well... see for yourself: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n9zICf5UH-E it'll go about as well as you'd expect.
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Yep I know about the crazy suicide rates and all, very sad. I'll have to give that video a watch later, I'm at work right now lol. A lot of people are super transphobic I feel like I get way more shit for dating her than I would if I was just straight up dating a guy.
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agreed. you're still straight unless you desire men. and hey... kinda curious... send me a few pictures llater?
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Well I've come to the conclusion that I'm not straight, I think sucking dick and doing anal does not qualify me as straight, just saying. But yeah I have no desire to be with a man. If you're talking about pictures of my girlfriend, that's a no from me but it's an understandable request. I just dont think she'd be cool with that
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think you need to work on that. ask yourself this: would you have vaginal sex with a trans man? would you eat him out? wasn't asking for any nudes--wouldn't do that. just curious about how she looks.
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I honestly dont even know the answer to that question myself, maybe I would if I was in love with them like how I am currently but i dont think I'd go out of my way to do that, I'd rather just get with a woman at that point. I'm not really attracted to masculine features (I guess not including the private parts lol) So it definitely is a weird in between, I dont think I'd be able to call myself fully straight or fully bisexual and I'm definitely not gay. That's what I was referring to, I dont think she'd be cool with me just sharing her pictures with strangers.
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unless you're attracted to masculinity, you're straight https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DaqXJH5VmTE . well, ask her. never speak for her--you're not her owner. a mindset men need to avoid.
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It sounds weird for me to be arguing for the other side right now because I dont believe I'm that bisexual either but the fact that she has a dick can't make me fully straight, that just sounds like a heap of cope to me. Especially if were switching and she's usually topping, to me that's why not everything needs to be labeled because I have no clue what this would be considered, I suppose its undefined. The reason I dont believe she would be cool with it is because she's a private person l, and I'd like to respect her privacy, if she was famous on social media or something I'd just send you that lol. I'm not a controlling person at all, if anything she's more controlling than I am.
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your sexual orientation isn't determined determined by genitals or sex acts but what you're attracted to. you need to really think about this. this will negatively affect her. just ask her. if it's ''no'' it's no. you did kinda come off that way.
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Hmm I'll have to think about it more then maybe because it's always something I've debated with myself as I'm never set on one answer. But I do agree with you that I'm not attracted to masculinity it's just a strange subject to me, there really is no defined answer I feel. To me it's like Would I have sex with a woman? Yes. A man? No. Another Transwoman? Yes. If that makes me straight then I'll take it. Why do you think my sexual orientation will negatively affect her? She tells me that I'm straight as well but I have a dirty side to me 😂 You know what I'll try to remember to ask her then, I believe itll be a no but you have me curious now lol. I didn't mean to come off as controlling, sorry about that, I don't ever want to be that kind of person plus I'm not very confrontational to have a controlling nature.
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then there's your answer. because that will tell her that you don't see her as a woman. nothing wrong with being assertive. know when to stand your ground and know when to back. I think that you have a lot to work on.
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You have a good point, I do see her as a woman. I know there's nothing wrong with being assertive I'm just not that kind of person really. That is something I have been working on, like being more bold in general because sometimes I let people boss me around too much, I'm not very good at standing my ground either. I agree I have a lot to work on but I'm still young so I think things will come with time.
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heh. guess you got your own transitioning to do, huh?
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That's one way to put it 🤣
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heh! I may not be transphobic... still gonna make transgender jokes. one trans girl I spoke to joked that she was jerking off to porn. she replied: ''yeah, to men with big cocks''. I said 'hey... now, I'm feeling dysphoric!''.
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Jokes like that make me think of when my girlfriend asks me "When are you going to finally grow a pair of tits?" lol
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ha! I like her!
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you really bout to sit here and tell this dude that him taking a dick in his mouth and ass from a biological man is not gay? I've seen it all
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@Indoctrinator I used to think the same way. I've grown.
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You've grown up to forget how science works? This guy is sleeping with a man that claims he's a girl. "She" never even got the surgery to remove "her" manhood. Its gay as fuck 😂 I'm a straight man and I will never sleep with a transwoman, penis or not.
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@Indoctrinator that's your insecurities.
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It's not insecurity... I can assure you sleeping with a biological man as a biological man does not make you straight in any way. You guys are some interesting creatures
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@Indoctrinator you wouldn't rage against transwomen if you weren't feeling that your sexuality was threatened... but, here you are.
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I dont hate trans people lol I just call them for what they are. You guys for whatever reason think its straight to suck dick and get fucked in the ass. Where is the logic?
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@Indoctrinator https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DaqXJH5VmTE&t=3s
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@Indoctrinator Ik what you mean but my girlfriend considers herself a woman and not a man, she is not masculine or any of that. So I think Sabretooth is right, it doesn't make you not straight. Not every gay guy would sleep with a transwoman just like not every straight person would.
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hell, gay men don't want em... for obvious reasons.
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Both of you guys are on some type of drugs here... Or maybe I am? I never knew sucking dick and taking it up the ass was straight behavior. Think about it, you're letting a guy dressed as a woman, acting like a woman fuck you in the ass. Since when did that scream that you are a straight guy? What in the world am I listening to
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@Indoctrinator so, having vaginal sex with a trans man is something you'd consider straight?
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Nope that's some weird shit too
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at least they'd have a functioning vagina
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@Indoctrinator but look and act like men.
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Exactly why I would never sleep with them.. I like a feminine woman with a real vagina, not a penis, not a fake vagina. The other 2 things are not women.
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@Indoctrinator again, a secure man would have no need to get defensive.
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I dont understand what you mean about me being defensive, straight men like vaginas, not penises. What is so hard to understand about that lol. Please explain how its straight to get fucked by a penis
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@indoctrinatorator you're the one who contacted me and calling us both gay while ignoring simple concepts. straight men like femininity not masculinity. now, this has a few exceptions--like drag queens.
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So why is a drag queen any different than a transwoman that didn't get SRS? All the transwoman has is I guess implants or grown small boobs and maybe took some hormone pills? Of course straight men like femininity not masculinity right. But straight men also like vaginas and not penises. So I'm not sure where you're going with this one
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@Indoctrinator Miss London: a random drag queen:
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Anyone can cherry pick for their argument, there are some absolutely hideous transwomen out there 😂
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@Indoctrinator just like any group of people.
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Agreed, so why did you even bring up the comparison pictures?
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@Indoctrinator to prove attention. A straight man would be attracted to London... No straight man would EVER be attracted to the drag queen.
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Possibly, but the second I knew she had a penis I would lose 100% interest. Also once again it's a cherry picked thing.
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@Indoctrinator because you see it as a threat to your sexuality.
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here's a couple reasons I dont want a "woman" with a penis...
1. She cannot reproduce
2. I'm into vaginas, not penises
3. I'm not threatened by her penis, it is simply a turn off
My sexuality isn't in question... I like vaginas, I'm a straight man. I do not like penises, im not gay. What's difficult for you to process here? - +1 y
@Indoctrinator you sure seem pretty defensive. a secure man wouldn't need to validate himself. you don't see me doing it, now do you?
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Stop avoiding the main topic lol I'm not insecure about none of that. It's simple to me straight men like femininity and vaginas not masculinity and penises.
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@Indoctrinator I'm not. but, this is pointless. all you're doing is trying to validate yourself. so, I'm done wasting my time here.
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I truly dont understand how sleeping with a transwoman that still has her dick can make someone straight. I know we have two different viewpoints or whatever but it baffles me that its thought of in any other way
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@Indoctrinator again, I used to feel the same way. but I've heard their arguments and couldn't refute them. sexual orientation isn't depending on genitals... we won't see that until later. to be gay-you have to be attracted to a man's voice, a man's mannerisms, a man's body and it's established that neither me nor the Asker do. as for as the sex aspect... it's different and that causes curiosities that you wouldn't normally have--same kinda curiosities we have with cis women... what? you think we were born to like anal, oral or, titjobs?
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This is why I say it dont always got to be labeled. I dont care what people think I am, i know what I like and what I dont like. If there was a masculine man in front me, 0 attraction. A feminine female/transwoman, I will be attracted. I dont care if she has a vagina or penis. I'm almost starting to prefer her having a dick, it makes things really fun for us both. Call me what you want, I know what I am and what I like I'm done letting stuff like this bother me.
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'' If there was a masculine man in front me, 0 attraction. A feminine female/transwoman, I will be attracted. I dont care if she has a vagina or penis.''. that's enough.
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Yep, but I understand everyone has their own preferences I dont expect even 5% of straight guys to be into a transwoman honestly
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a preference is fine. that's not the issue here.
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Oh okay, maybe I misunderstood something lol
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it's the reaction. that's the reason for the violence.
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Yeah but tbh I can understand where he's coming from like looking at it from a different perspective it makes sense. It's probably how like most people would think about the situation anyways
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I used to feel the same.
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did you ask?
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hey.
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Look man all I know is that I'm in the majority here
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@Indoctrinator doesn't automatically make you right.
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I ain't living in no fantasy world y'all are tripping
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@Indoctrinator this was never about you. All you're doing is putting yourself on the spot. I'm confident in my sexuality. Honestly, it sounds like you're jealous because we actually have the guts to admit that we like trans girls. No one is so adamant about something unless it's to cover up what it isn't. You put your own sexually into question. In either case, this conversation is tiresome and pointless.
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I'm not gay lol I'd never let a guy dressed as a woman put a dick up my ass. Itd be cool if you guys at least admitted you were gay
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@Indoctrinator we have nothing to admit nor validate... unlike you.
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So you really think I want to get with a transwoman?
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@sabretooth Okay I'm sorry but I forgot also I might pussy out of asking her because I know she's going to ask why and who and like I dont know how to answer that lol she's going to be so curious and i feel like she's going to say no anyways
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@Indoctrinator well, you seem to be pretty damn defensive. a man secure man wouldn't make a big deal about it.. wouldn't feel the need to. now, if I said something like ''not dating trans makes you transphobic'' then, that's fair gain. you started this mainly about how gay we are despite the fact that neither of us aren't attracted to masculinity and insisting how straight you are. I don't know if you're attracted to them or not. your comment about there being ugly trans girls out there indicates that you' found London attractive and you've looked at others. you've acted in a way that an insecure person would do out of envy. while I won't presume and frankly, I don't really care but how you've gone about this in a way that puts you as deeply insecure.
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do so honestly. consider this as a part of your growth. again, I'm asking not for anything lewd.
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@sabretooth I know you're not asking for anything lewd you have been really nice to me but I just dont really know how to respond when she asks why and stuff like that 🙃
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ok you know what I'll admit some thing if I didn't know that London was a trans lady I would have never guessed so I do find it attractive I guess but I'm telling you like having a dick just kills the attraction for me. You right I'm not the most secure person but I'm not sure what to say man
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@Indoctrinator finally, you're being honest. then, I guess you both have things to work on. as far as the sex goes... humans are by nature curious. they have something most women don't which give us unique interests we normally wouldn't.
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just be straight up and honest. hell, might lead to an important conversation.
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Like what kind of important conversation?
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I'm scared she'll be mad at me lol
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She likely won't be happy with the question you've asked. But, you seem more secure in yourself and your relationship. This will make her feel good.
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@Sabretooth I am a bit curious but I dont think I'd ever take it that far. I'm not sure what you mean by I have things to work on w sex
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are you the same guy who asked how to ride?
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I dont think so? Unless you're saying it ina different context
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@Indoctrinator things to work on yourself, not sex--security and such. I'm in the same boat, as was the Asker.
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@Indoctrinator talking to the Asker.
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Yea I shouldn't be acting like this, good on you for keeping me in check 👍
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You know what fuck it I'll try it out. I've never done something like it before so why not just to see if I'm into it at all
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@Indoctrinator cool. It helps put you in the same mindset as the Asker and how he got to this point.
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I'm still scared to ask her I don't know why.. Also like I have a feeling he's going to like the porn games, I've played stuff like this before too 😅 That and porn in general was kind of how I got into trans girls and was willing to do so much with her.
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That's how it started for me. A girl like Shauna? I want it all. One male NPC called her a freak... Y'know... While I can't turn you into a trans girl... I CAN turn you into a trans man... You wanna see that trick.
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What's the trick lol
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''gonna yank down your pants and underwear, grab you by your balls, rip them off one by one, rip your dock off, roll it all into a ball... then... SHOVE IT DOWN YOUR THROUGHT!!! now, insult her again.
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That's rough lol I like that
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hmph!
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@Sabretooth Man it's crazy that I'm even saying this but I liked that a lot more then I thought I would.. I was playing the game for hours last night and even some hours today. The game has a little too much talking for me but I still played it so I guess I liked it. This is wild to me
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@Indoctrinator heh. I figured you would. as for the talking--most agree. but you know understand how it works? how being with a trans girl can give you a unique mindset? honestly, I would enjoy the game far more if Shauna was the main girl.
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@Sabretooth I can see what you guys mean now, honestly Shauna was turning me on more than even the main girl was. I agree it does give you a different mindset, weirdly it made me not care that she had a dick the whole time. I was really turned on. This is so weird to me that I'm saying this shit...
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@Indoctrinator same thing with us. while I considered them them physically attractive... I still would consider it a homosexual relationship in real life... but after this game... I couldn't deny that I was fully attracted to her and wished she was real and would gladly take her as my girl--same for London--plus, the arguments from them like in that vid I showed you. I'm a very stubborn person... I don't often change my mind... but, I couldn't refute them.
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@Sabretooth Exactly man I can't deny that I was really turned on by her the whole time I never imagined myself being turned on even when seeing her have a dick. As you can see from before I'm a stubborn ass person too hahaha but man this is crazy to me like damn I really jerked off to that.
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@Indoctrinator I was very much the same way. plus, her personality and likes are in line with my own--both gamers and pranksters.
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@Sabretooth That was actually the first time I've played a porn game too that was pretty cool, I was skeptical at first but i like it
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Now I'm curious about the asker, is your girlfriend bigger then you are?
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@Indoctrinator I'm single with a whole lot of stress, anger and, grief... so, they help me out.
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@Sabretooth Do you have any other games like that? I would be down to try em out and I feel you on that I got a lot of stress n shit too so masturbate pretty often and it was nice to let my mind get lost in a game like that for hours
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@Indoctrinator a few. you want them all to have trans girls?
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@Sabretooth Surprise me haha
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@Indoctrinator alright. I'll start collecting. 2 will have femboys but they are pretty feminine. one is far more gay than I'd like--mostly gages and the jokes from one is cringy as hell... luckily, you can skip and avoid.
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@Sabretooth I appreciate it lol you guys are putting me on to something new and it's something I'd never see myself doing but I can't help but be curious like why am I so into it especially after all that shit i talked about it.
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@Indoctrinator I know the feeling.
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Oh man thank you, I didn't expect so many. You got me some jerkoff material for a while here lol I'll have to let you know what I think of them
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@Indoctrinator all gay stuff is optional--like most of the time.
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Are these all mainly trans girls or just a mix?
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@Indoctrinator no problem. not much of a life... that's a painful and enraging story. have fun.
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@Indoctrinator a few have quite a few--The Shrink has the most. some aren't trans but altered with magic or temporary by science like Lunar's Chosen and World After War. but mixed for the most part.
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@Indoctrinator some don't have any. still hot and fun.
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https://youtu.be/Y6sJOZkMLhg a story I made.
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@Sabretooth I downloaded like 6 of them so I'll have to let you know what I think of them. Sorry to hear that man, hope things get better for you. Seem like a cool ass dude hella genuine and all that looking out for people you deserve more. Even just having the patience to talk to me for that long when I was being disrespectful.
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I skimmed through a bit of the video and I fuck with that kind of music
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@Indoctrinator heh. thanks. you understand me better than most.. a lot of bastardization. I worked hard on that. the right songs, the right spots, the numerous patches to the art, finding the stock images and expanding them and, finding solid versions of the songs. a lotta late nights and all nights... and all days. spend of last year on it... mentally, emotionally and physically painful having to redo do things and repatch and taking it down multiple times. kinda used my own life as a template
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when I'm at work I'll just listen to some more of it, I be bored as fuck there anyway and I usually just watch youtube or be trying to pass time. And of course people like you are cool I dont have that kind of patience if I was you I probably would have cussed me out but you're calm and collected that's hard to develop
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@Indoctrinator oh, I was ready to block you... happy I didn't. we got somewhere.
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@sabretooth I wouldn't blame you one bit if you blocked me lol
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lol. so, Indoctrinator wanted to know her size. I wanna know if she's cut and still has her balls.
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I HAD A FEELING HE WOULD LIKE IT LOL welcome to the club my friend but just know I started out like you too disgusted by the thought of a dick but now I really love it so you might end up like me. Blocked him I meant* Oh and she's 5'8 or if you're talking about her "size" she's 6.5 (yes that's bigger than mine @indoctrinator I'm on the smaller side tbh) She still has her balls but they did shrink a bit from when she did hormone therapy
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nice. foreskin or no?
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I forgot to mention that sorry, she is cut.
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nice. I'd prefer that.
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she still cum?
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@sabretooth She can still get an erection without meds, she was on and off with the hormonal therapy because she didn't want to lose having an erection or the ability to cum but she is sterile now.
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So long as she still can cum. You're a cis man... So, I doubt that'll matter much.
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Exactly I wouldn't want her to lose the ability to do either of those things because I heard people that go through the full treatment can fully lose erections and their orgasms are never the same. Yeah it doesn't matter to either of us that she's sterile (she has no interests in women anyways lol)
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I enjoyed it a lot more then I thought and I apologize for disrespecting both of you. That is crazy dude you got me fantasizing over here hahaha
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all the better.
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@Indoctrinator no problem... you vile, bigoted, idiotic, closed-minded, transphobic piece of shit! lol.
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@Sabretooth I know you're joking but that is how I was coming off as lol you did kind of read me like a book I don't know why I was being so insecure about that stuff I just never knew I would like it on this level
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@Indoctrinator You seem like you have a good heart deep down ❤ Dont worry about the things you said it's okay
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@Indoctrinator you did deserve that. we recognize our own. it was very much the same for us, as well. it took me a lot longer! ''perception is not always truth. everything you think you know about this world, about yourselves--even, about reality, itself... all this and more will be challenged''. that means that we should always keep an open-mind and accept challenges to our beliefs... if we don't, we could doubt what we belief and never have the strength to look to either validate it or accept it. sometimes, book smarts are insignificant to worldly wisdom. I belief that in most area in life, street smarts are far more valuable that book smarts... here's a vid that really highlights that point: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y4vqKrVFiP0
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@Indoctrinator '' believe that'
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@Sabretooth I agree I was being an asshole especially looking at it now knowing that I like it man I feel like such a dumbass lol. You are right tho I was being super close minded and thinking i was in the right bc most poeple would say that but in reality i know i am wrong now. If i never tried playing the game u sent me i probably would have still be insecure about stuff like that and honestly i probably still would be, if one of my friends asked if i was into transgirls i would probably say no still, i guess i do got insecurity issues but i should have at least been open minded before about it. also i seen this before on twitter
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@Indoctrinator we all face these challenges. I faced it when I was challenged about my Christian beliefs. one person told me the bible says to stone a woman who was raped... that caused doubt. eventually, I summed up the will to look... and whatta ya know! he not only got it wrong, he combined them and twisted the meaning to suit his narrative. I think a lot of growing up was done here..
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@Sabretooth That is true I really thought you guys were saying this because you wanted to believe that u are straight but in reality i was just wrong and i had not looked for myself so it made me ignorant and yep I agree, thanks to you I got a new perspective on things.
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@Indoctrinator no problem. we were all in the same boat. as frustrated as I was--I'm glad we did.
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@Indoctrinator oh! I should warn you that on ''Drawing My Life''... Alpha Plus ''was'' broken. so, in order to fully enjoy the trans content... you gotta go Bi Plus... it's incredibly annoying! luckily, you can avoid sex with other men. I said ''was'' because I don't if it was fixed... but it wasn't for as long as It was being updated that I've tried.
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I am glad you did too and thank you for the heads up, might check it out anyways
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Also asker I know I this is a weird question but when you said your girlfriend was "big" did you mean in girth? Because 6.5 is a good size but I dont think its that big lol
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@Indoctrinator you could split the game. go through the alpha plus for the story and bi plus for the sex. now, I wouldn't be able to hold my interest to split like that. you might.
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@Sabretooth I guess it is worth a shot i mean im new to all this so fuck it
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@Indoctrinator mostly so you you don't lose emersion by skipping the dialogue. as far as femboys go... my views are more complicated. I think a straight man can admire them and enjoy sex games with em... I don't believe you could be in a relationship with em in real life and really be straight... you lean bi by at least an inch. in the game exiles, you'll see what I mean if you play it.
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Isn't a femboy pretty much a transwoman? Or am I missing something here
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@Indoctrinator a femboy is what the name implies. they are cis males but with feminine appearances but no hormones. examples such as How many guys have experimented with a trap or crossdresser? ↗ I would be hard-pressed to turn them away, though.
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@Sabretooth That makes sense.. I mean they still look good but without the hormones they probably still sound like guys and without makeup I bet they look way more masculine then the girls that take hormones
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Would just be a huge turn off
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@Indoctrinator some do sound very feminine https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_jFuuU-j9mA&t=6s
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That does sound really feminine actually, but at least pictures of girls that have taken hormones, they have the feminine features, softer looking skin, or even grown "natural" boobs. But seeing some of these femboys does make me question myself not gonna lie
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@Indoctrinator they look good. the issue being beyond that ''my boyfriend'', ''he'', ''him'', 'his''.
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@indoctrinator Well I meant it as both because to me 6.5 is kind of big to me but yeah she is girthy (I don't know the numbers but its thick) Also I agree with you guys like I could not get with femboys, it's not the same but I won't sit here and act like I haven't watched them on porn and stuff either 😅 Transwomen are better though. Also just saying like the more you get into this kind of stuff you'll get less insecure, you're just entering the tip of the iceberg lol
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same.
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That adds up to me. It makes sense now that you guys explained it, some could be attractive but the hormones are what really change them and yea they dont identify as full girls until doing something like that i guess. I wonder if imma end up like you guys but you right i just got into it so it makes sense im insecure about it, its just weird to me man I don't know how else to explain it. I like it but i hate that i like it in a way
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@Indoctrinator sound like guilt.
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maybe it is a bit of guilt, i got to work on that i shouldn't be feeling that way about something i enjoy
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@Indoctrinator you've grown a lot in a short time.
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@Sabretooth I think the reason im like that is because im used to getting checked on shit i do so when people call me out for doing something wrong im stubborn about it but once i clear my head for a bit i try to self reflect, i had a lot of issues with that before so its something i really try to work at i dont want to be that kind of person no more
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@Indoctrinator dude... trust me... my life has been shit and almost constantly dragged through the mud.
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i believe you bro i was just saying so you could understand where im coming from
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@Indoctrinator I do. hell, I had my grandmother going around calling me gay even before my attraction to trans girls... a far less accusation and offence that others she's levied against me.
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''than''.
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thats fucked why was she even calling u gay?
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@Indoctrinator she enjoys watching others suffer. she also enjoys control and pity.
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That sounds awful, sucks you have to deal with that
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@Indoctrinator yeah. all I want to to finally make things right with a girl I hurt and finally tell the world to go fuck itself for a while.
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If you can make it up go for it but if it's too far gone you just gotta move on
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by the way I played some of those games and the shrink one was my favorite so far
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@Indoctrinator love her more than anything. Yeah? Which?
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I played a clever name, lunars chosen and the shrink but the shrink was by far my favorite
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if you love her man then dont give up until you feel it's the right time to
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@Indoctrinator don't think my heart ever will. she's cis but I wouldn't care if she was trans.
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doesn't matter cis or whatever you're in love but there's always a point in time where if the feelings aren't mutual then how are you going to change her mind
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@Indoctrinator wait for the opportunity. I don't feel like i could ever do anything else.
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@Sabretooth I wish I could give you some advice but I truly dont know what to say, I can only wish you the best
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@Indoctrinator my life has never been easy... but still, she's everything I could ever want or need. the cis equivalent of Shauna.
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Shauna was so hot
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@Indoctrinator agreed. if you don't find her attractive... well, that puts your sexuality right back into question.
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I agree lol i couldn't get enough of her
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@Indoctrinator agreed. She's easily the best trans girl in any game. With Ginny from "Life Of Desmond" coming next.
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@Indoctrinator and Nea for 69.
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@Sabretooth Did you like "the shrink" game? Maybe I'll have to try the Desmond one next
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@Indoctrinator yeah. although, I was more happy about how Trump was presented than the sex. with all Trump worship... nice to be reminded of reality... pompous, overweighed, deranged, idiotic, grandstanding buffoon!
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I'm confused haha
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@Indoctrinator Trump's often treated like God... like in my father's side... who largely lives in the state as I do.
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@Indoctrinator chew on this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_7JvFMpw_ro&t=1s
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I'm not into politics like that but yea trump is weird it feels like that guy is still president with how much of a following he's got. The reason I was confused was because it came out of nowhere haha
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@Indoctrinator Trump is feature in The Shrink... represented very well. I wasn't either but I wanted to maintain my sanity.
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Wait what maybe I missed it? Unless I'm just tripping
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@Indoctrinator much later into the story.
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Makes sense
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@Indoctrinator want a chance a a trillion dollars?
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sounds good to me
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@Indoctrinator 1 TRILLION DOLLARS TO ANYONE WHO CAN TRANSLATE THIS GIBBERISH!!! ONE MILLION DOLLARS!!! ''Well he said, you’ll be the greatest president in the history of, but you know what, I’ll take that also, but that you could be. But he said, will be the greatest president but I would also accept the other. In other words, if you do your job, but I accept that. Then I watched him interviewed and it was like he never even was here. It’s incredible. I watched him interviewed a week later and it’s like he was never in my office. And you can even say that.”
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oh! and that site? mind. your. tongues! you wanna talk about cancel culture and censorship... the staff there sucks! penalties for everything but the staff.
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Lmao I'll make sure to watch out people are weird as fuck with that cancelling shit
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@Indoctrinator like the site. hate the staff.
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The site is cool I honestly never knew that there were so many porn games
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@Indoctrinator the layout is very useful. ignore ''My Sister, My Roommate''. a better one that Initiated is coming... I think. artist had the power to kick me me from my own project. we had disagreements and he was only interested in his views and levied disrespect at me. I know where's he's talking about the game and advertising for it. I wanna comment on the tread... but, for some reason, my instincts is telling me that doing so would be a bad idea. as angry as I am--my instincts don't fail.
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I can barely imagine you getting mad, you seem like a patient guy
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@Indoctrinator anger is like a fuel for me... it's kept me strong and sane. course I have control... but if you come at me with shit... well...
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@Indoctrinator the disrespect and stubbornness you showed... while incredibly infuriating was impersonal. this was a project I suffered to get off the ground for a year and a half--riddled with people ghosting me or just baling on me.
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That's fair, I'm an angry person so I can feel you on what you're saying and when I'm pissed off I just can't think straight
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@Indoctrinator usually can still think straight.
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yea I got some anger issues
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@Indoctrinator I got REALLY pissed about an episode on Dateline.
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Why haha
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@Indoctrinator this piece of shit who strangled women for a sexual thrill and the first and last one he killed... He bragged about it in court... Actually demonstrated how he did it and for how long... All while proclaiming Christianity and innocence!
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wtf lol
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@Indoctrinator yeah... kinda felt a bit personal.
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Came back just to say y'all got me super into transgirls lol
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@Indoctrinator heh!
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@Indoctrinator f95zone.to/.../ f95zone.to/.../ f95zone.to/.../
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appreciate the recommendations bro I've been a horny guy lately 😂
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@Indoctrinator no problem. Shauna stays queen.
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@Indoctrinator though, bad guy is... about a guy who's uses manipulation to get what he wants. don't know if that evolves... my senses say ''no''. I'll still play but won't get excited by such scenes.
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when I'm horny I dont give a fuck I guess 😂
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@Indoctrinator I can only go so far.
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shit! well, that's gonna get reported. that was not intended.
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oh... who cares? many of the questions here are sexual, anyway.
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@Sabretooth I wouldn't report it and man that turns me on so much just seeing that picture.. not gonna lie she looks pretty big too
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she is so hot dude
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@indoctrinator was only trying to send the link. she sure is... looks a bit like Carmon Electra.
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haha I dont mind the picture straight up I wasn't expecting it but I'm happy i saw it
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@Indoctrinator figured you might. you never really know how links work here.
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@Indoctrinator though, after a few double takes, she looks like Carrie Underwood.
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Carrie Underwood is actually pretty damn accurate lol where did you find her from?
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@Indoctrinator some subreddit... I know quite a few of them.
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ah, I figured maybe she was on porn or something
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@Indoctrinator I was right. www.reddit.com/.../ . I couldn't be sure until I remembered the title ''some delicious cocks''.
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those are some hot pics... damn!!
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@Indoctrinator quite a few that are hot as hell.
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i think all of them are hot! they got some big members too
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@Indoctrinator well, the sit is called ''only if she's packin''
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That makes sense haha I was like damn how are all of them big
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@Indoctrinator seen some pretty big.
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yea same i been getting into trans porn and some of them are unreal
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im checking out that reddit and its a gold mine
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@Indoctrinator I'm trying to cut back on em. but, yeah.
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yea i stopped watching porn for a long time but now i got new interests lol its hard to not watch it for me right now
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@Indoctrinator honestly, I think the fetishizing of trans girls is normal. they open our eyes to something new and we turn into little kids.
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its the same as watching any other porn, i still watch other women too i dont see why it would be a bad thing
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porn was just boring at some point but now it feels new again haha
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@Indoctrinator they don't like it and honestly, porn is harmful to their image. they don't like being seen as merely sex objects.
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well porn in general is bad, I dont think its strictly a trans thing or am I wrong here? i agree its bad for you, im sure ill lessen how much i watch it soon, but i am a bit into it lately
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@Indoctrinator there's a lot of focus on what makes them different and are often kept as sex dolls on the down low. they are new to you. things that are new turn us into children in that respect.
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ah i wasn't too sure but that makes sense. i wouldn't treat them as sex dolls, i could never do that to a person. but yea man i do feel like a kid the way you put it lol
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@Indoctrinator same here... on both counts.
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either of you know how to reset my password on my google account without my old phone?
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I got no clue, did you set up a backup email?
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@Indoctrinator nope.
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@Indoctrinator have you started 69?
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Not yet
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@Indoctrinator it's not nearly as far along. it was dropped for a few years to work on another. what about Exiles?
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hey, Asker. did you ask her?
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I never did honestly..
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try. and also, tell her that I advise that she works on no longer tucking outside of certain cases. that'll go a long way to help her and normalize chicks with dicks. it'll also project confidence and strength.
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I don't know why it's just a hard thing to bring up lol but she actually hasn't tucked in a while, she only really tucked when we used to be friends and for like the first few months we dated. But she doesn't care to do it anymore she says that I give her the confidence to walk around freely lol. Do you think transwomen would actually be normalized bc of that? I feel like it's just their decision. she's already a confident/strong person I'd say more so even than me lol
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that should make you feel really good. I do--it says ''yeah, I'm a chick with a dick and I'm not ashamed and I won't apologize for it.'' sure, it'll be awkward and nerve-wracking but the more they do the less awkward it'll be. being able to war tight jeans or a bikini without tucking are bold moves will give them a much better view of themselves. I mean... re-read what you told me... am I wrong?
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though, I somehow suspected,
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I totally get what you mean and I agree it should be normalized for the ones that want to do it. She isn't ashame about it anymore and she still does wear tight clothes so you can see it there sometimes I love that she does what makes her happy it makes me a little more confident in myself too. We dont ever go to the beach really but if we did I doubt she would tuck. I dont think you're wrong and what did you suspect?
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it would certainly help them with their image. your girl is happier place than the vast majority of trans girls who get the surgery. sounds like you 2 really compliment each other. I suspected she likely no longer does. have you thought of marrying her yet?
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I say that a lot too like our personalities go really well together. Marrying is a big thing to think of we haven't been dating for that long but this is the girl I've loved the most out of anyone so if that counts for something, I'd probably say yes!
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this year.
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You're saying I should marry her this year?
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can you think of one single reason not too? cause I sure can't.
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''not to''.
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and don't get anything traditional... fuck it! go beyond that, get what belongs on her finger--what compliments her.
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convo that opened Indoctrinator's mind: ''@Indoctrinator no problem. glad to see this wasn't a waste after all. I think you should play this game: f95zone. to/.../page-701#post-3496487 . have Shauna be trans and show interest in her dick. you'll that it's honestly natural. it puts you where the Asker was.''. please don't remove this.
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The only thing I can think of not doing it is bc we've been dating for only around half a month but besides that like I really love her and I do believe this is the girl I would love to marry, I've never gotten so close with someone in a short amount of time like this. Yeah I would have to think about what to get her for a ring lol I would want to get something that fits her but I've never looked into jewelry that much. Also yeah I'm happy to see you opened up his mind! I think that's really cool and I wonder what the game is like to put him in my perspective lol.
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don't use the time as an excuse. look at her features-especially her eyes and get a matching stone. I think she'd be more than willing to let you show me a picture--maybe I could help ya. the trans is extremely attractive. the MC starts off the same as we did.
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Yeah I would love to get her something to match her blue eyes I think that could be really pretty. Also maybe you're right maybe she wouldn't mind but like I feel like she might be weirded out by it ngl. Ig I haven't asked her though so I don't know. Oh I see so that character starts out like questionable about transwomen then starts to get into them?
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there's a flashback to the past where he struggled with his attraction. but at the start of the game--it's her penis. you can choose to want nothing to do with it but choosing to want to engage with it flows in a naturally way.
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www.zales.com/search 2 I think look nice: www.zales.com/.../V-20300079 www.zales.com/.../V-20359776
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Ah I see, that's an interesting way for indoctrinator to get into transwomen lol no judgement of course but I wouldn't have expected a game to do it for him. If I played I would show interest in it too! Wow that London Blue Topaz one is really pretty, I feel like she would love something like that
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I couldn't deny my attraction afterwards. agreed. keep her dressing style in mind.
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I dont blame you, transwomen can be really beautiful. Also yeah I think it would fit her for the most part but maybe a silver ring would be better since it goes with more things if that makes sense
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I like the gold. but...
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But what? lol
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you know her. I just think gold looks better. though, unless she wears silver, usually...
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I agree the ring is very beautiful, ig I would just have to give it some more thought lol. This is a lot of future talk for me but ik she would love something like that
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I see no reason to put things off. way I see it... why bother? you both really love each other. you've already gotten pretty close close. don't let this slip by. in live... nothing is a guarantee... time certainly isn't.
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and as far as those stories... well... let's just say that many don't end up having to regret it their entire life. one story made look like a damn cult... brushing off one who needed support.
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I think maybe in another full year I could say we would be engaged I definitely know what you mean but I feel like just like you say there's no reason to wait there's also no rush, getting married or not isn't going to change much in my eyes we will still love each other the same
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make sure that this isn't out of cowardice. I'm not insinuating I think so. but, if it is... that time might not come. this isn't to push you... but, take it from someone who knows how time is not guaranteed.
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Well I'm not a very upfront kind of guy but I dont think it's me being a coward I feel like it's best to just let it flow naturally but you're right maybe there isn't anything wrong with speeding things up. I feel like you must have a bad experience with it so I'm sorry to hear that
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I have. thanks. you got what I found.
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You got me like a little bit anxious about it though 😅 But I try to be optimistic like I don't think not rushing things would be bad but I really dont know
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you got something solid here... you know how many trans-attracted men would kill to be where you are? man up!
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That's one thing that I think makes our relationship special is bc like I was not attracted (or at least didn't know I was) to transwomen before i met her so it was all genuine connection. She thinks it would be terrible to ever get with a guy that fetishizes them and I agree. But you're right I'm in a good spot so I should take advantage I'll try manning up a little more lol I'm just not used to that I guess
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I think it's normal and necessary to fetishize them to grow. we were all at that point.
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I know what you're trying to say but most people that have a fetish of them are still against them, for example they wouldn't date them and stuff like that, they wouldn't even openly admit that they're into them
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it ain't the fetish. it's simply shitty ass cowardly men being shitty ass cowardly men.
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if they shitty to them--you can bet that they're the same to cis.
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Possibly but my girlfriend says otherwise lol I kind of trust her bc I dont know much about it and she has friends with experiences like that
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all three of us have the fetish. could you see yourself acting in such a way? men treat girls like shit all the time.
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Absolutely not! I could never treat any person like that. Maybe you're right yeah but I think transwomen must get extra shit for it.
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not really. I mean cis girls get abused a lot, degraded a lot, killed a lot. look at this: now.org/.../
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Sorry I didn't mean to make it seem like women dont have it bad to, I just meant transwomen are usually discriminated by default so they run into these kind of issues often. It is similar with women too though.
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not offended. but the truth is that discrimination is largely the same for cis women but in different ways. are you familiar with the banning of trans girls from participating in girl's sports?
- Asker+1 y
I'm not super familiar but I know about it yeah
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well, that has no bearing on trans men.
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course that doesn't mean that you should seek em out just for that reason. that is a problem... but still--only a pig would do so.
- Asker+1 y
I do think you're right, they just all have problems in their own ways
- +1 y
agreed. though, they should take some small degree of comfort in that injustice. it's rooted in sexism. these freaks wanna ''inspect'' trans girls... my advice? ... drink plenty of sodas... jerks!
- Asker+1 y
I'd hope they do worse then drink a lot of soda, there's no room for people like that in my opinion
- +1 y
the goal is to have em piss on em. though... not like any of us were better in the past. kinda makes it hard to get angry about it without feelin like shit.
- Asker+1 y
You're right I haven't always been good either so it's not fair to judge but people like that get me kinda angry sometimes
- +1 y
for me, it never exceeded past verbal hate and disdain. I could never do something like that.
- +1 y
couldn't have done it to their face, however.
- Asker+1 y
I've had to a few times for my girlfriend already
- Asker+1 y
Usually she's the one that says something though
- +1 y
hmm? though, while I was wasn't very accepting of trans people--it was gay men that I had the most disdain for. I can at least say that I never bullied them.
- Asker+1 y
That's just how some people are ig but I was in the same boat as you
- +1 y
though, I guess if it's any consolation... none of us run on hate-- Republicans in South Dakota want Kristi Noem primaried for not enacting a trans athlete ban... don't ask me why she didn't.
- +1 y
Apartment 69 also changed me.
- Asker+1 y
interesting lol
- +1 y
forces you to see how it is for them and how they're affected. the fetish forced me to become for empathetic.
- Asker+1 y
What is apartment 69? And I feel that before finding out she was trans I never really cared for them but now I have a whole new perspective
- +1 y
a sex game that most revolves and trans girl and her life. that's not something easy to face.
- Asker+1 y
interesting I wonder how it is lol
- +1 y
why wonder? give it a shot.
- +1 y
live every day like it's last.
- Asker+1 y
I try to stay away from stuff like porn, porn games and all that tbh I used to be pretty addicted to porn related stuff
- +1 y
understood.
- +1 y
not exactly ideal for a man in a relationship, anyway.
- Asker+1 y
Yeah exactly my girlfriend and I save our energy for eachother lol I feel like that's the most healthy thing to do in a relationship unless one side is too busy for the other ofc, everyone has their needs
- +1 y
'' unless one side is too busy for the other ofc, everyone has their needs'' be carful. that can lead you astray.
- Asker+1 y
What do you mean by that?
- +1 y
just that porn in relationships is known to strain em. it takes the attention we should be given to our partner.
- Asker+1 y
Oh she's the same as me, we both stay away from porn when I masurbate without her it's just me fantasizing about things we do and stuff like that
- +1 y
@Indoctrinator shit: www.reddit.com/.../
- +1 y
not that I was downplaying issues they face. but, it's not much different the issues of cis women.
- +1 y
you find the right ring, yet?
- +1 y
@Indoctrinator yo.
- +1 y
@Indoctrinator yo, man.
- 1 y
@Indoctrinator look up Zoey Taylor.
- 1 y
@Indoctrinator download Niko Paradise. shit just got good with Ash.
- 1 y
yo...
Anyone that would make fun of you for having a girl with a job is a fucking idiot or you're trolling
17 Reply- Asker+1 y
They make fun of me because my girlfriend is a transwoman not because she has a job
- Asker+1 y
That's fair I guess, I just wish people were less judgmental and more focused on themselves
- Asker+1 y
You're right I shouldn't care but it gets to me sometimes 😕
- Asker+1 y
You're right, thanks for the advice
- Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 y
Gender roles. You break them you WILL pay the price. That's just part of society. It's not going to change. At least not anytime soon.
11 Reply- Asker+1 y
I guess that's true but I wish some people would mind their own business, we're a happy couple so I sont see why jokes are warranted
- Anonymous(25-29)+1 y
Is your girlfriend pre op? I feel like that might be the reason you get a lot of shit for it. How long have you guys been dating?
12 Reply- Asker+1 y
Yes she is and we've been dating for 7 months now!
- Opinion Owner+1 y
Ngl I'd give my friend some shit for that too especially if he said he wasn't gay but that's cool man just do what makes you happy and dont listen to people
3.8K opinions shared on Dating topic. Well you dating someone who was born as a male.
36 Reply- Asker+1 y
Okay so what? Like if someone in your family was dating a transwoman you'd make fun of them?
- Asker+1 y
Why though? Can't you be happy that they are happy lol
- Asker+1 y
Also why make fun of them? I don't see what's so funny about that my girlfriend is an amazing person
- Asker+1 y
I just dont see it as a funny thing just because someone is born male
3.7K opinions shared on Dating topic. I would make fun on you
15 Reply- Asker+1 y
Why?
- Asker+1 y
I know what you mean but if you saw her you wouldn't be able to tell she is trans. Regardless I dont think it makes it funny, what's funny about 2 people that are happy with eachother?
- Asker+1 y
Well she doesn't know if she wants to get the surgery yet but it is something she thinks about a lot, sure she's not biologically a woman but she is much more womanly than manly so I believe that "she" fits her.
- Anonymous(25-29)+1 y
They don't determine your happiness. You do you.
23 Reply- Asker+1 y
They dont but they do affect me:/
- Opinion Owner+1 y
You can pm me and talk about it if you feel that might help?
- Asker+1 y
well uhh were both anonymous
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