Why the hell would a 38 year old man date a 19 year old? Is the man a loser? And why do women date low status men all the time? Including my sister?

Alright so my cousin is dating a 38 year old man.

Apparently he’s a dog walker, and he has this weird long ass beard and is all hippie looking.

She met him at a bar in Boston.

And at some point she even went to the dude’s apartment!

While their relationship is still legal, it seems totally f*cked up to me!

I can’t understand why she’s dating him!

The guy sounds like a complete loser in my opinion.

He’s 38 years old and doesn’t even have his life together.

Can’t even settle on women his own age so he starts pulling girls fresh out of College. Girls who are just starting their own lives while he’s already f*cked up his life knee deep.

The man is a pervert. You could make the case even that my cousin looks like she could be below age!

And mind you, I am a 20 year old man and I feel very little attraction to girls under 18 unless they look older than 16.

Yet here this much older guy is dating a girl who looks like she could be 16.

I just want to go over there and beat the guy up myself. Because he obviously has bad intentions.

My personal preference is for women in their 20’s and there are even plenty (but a lesser amount) of attractive women in their 30’s as well.

Not saying I’d date older women though, who are farther ahead in life than me.

And of course I wouldn’t be dating someone who was behind their peers and not where they should be in life.

You see that’s my problem. She is clearly dating a low status man and as family I want her to choose something that is good for herself.

And similarly my sister is dating a black guy who is also a low status man.

I am 5’8”. I am short for a man. Yet here I was looking down on the guy.

When I first met my sister’s boyfriend, I actually mistaked him for a woman because of how feminine looking he was. And the dude is also insecure.

He talks with my sister on the phone hours every day. When most normal guys would have no interest in that.

So I guess my question is,

Why do women date low status men?
Why the hell would a 38 year old man date a 19 year old? Is the man a loser? And why do women date low status men all the time? Including my sister?
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