I'm a boring person, how can I get a girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

I'm not one of those people who can remember the tiniest difference in my day and turn it into a novel to tell others about my day. If it's a major difference, it'll be like a paragraph.

I have a sense of humor but telling jokes to people I am just meeting terrifies me because I grew up in a family where you will be yelled at if you dared to respond something like "about room temperature" to the question "how was school?"

I'm absolutely not a party-goer. I like them but that tires me out within ten minutes and I find myself leaning in a corner watching all the shenanigans unfold.

I have nothing of worth to say all the time and I hate it.

[bunnibugz]

i'll tell you a secret, majority of people you see on instagram or tell you how "their the main character" are really just isolated most of the time, people like to romanticize their life to try and avoid the fact that our existence is essentially meaningless. Just because your not trying to run from reality or find the beauty in life doesn't mean your boring. Personally I don't find people boring in the slightest, i really like learning about people, their hobbies, and just the way their mind works, regardless of how exciting their life is. You've had unique experiences, relationships and have a different perspective of the world from me, that is enough to make me want to get to know you. You can get a girlfriend by taking small steps like, asking to sit next to someone on the bus and striking up conversation, complementing someone, asking someone for help with something, taking a art class, any small thing that doesn't make you feel nauseous with anxiety but extends your circle. Eventually someone will click with you. you can do it, :)

[Asker]

Thank you!

[Anonymous]

Yes and those party people will age like milk. Find better people to hang out with

[Gwenhwyfar]

Learn to look cute and brooding

[Asker]

I don't think I have any issues on that end, it's that I cannot keep any conversations going. I suck at coming up with conversation topics.

[Gwenhwyfar]

If you look cute and brooding enough they’ll come up with the convo topics

[Asker]

Fair enough

[jahaims]

Do things that aren't boring