How to not be a boring girlfriend?

[Ilovesinging101]

So I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months.. He's my first real relationship and I'm his first girlfriend. So we both don't know what to do, like cute couple things. Like he's never put his arm around me, he's never held me , and etc. & I always see these other girls always like so touchy & really close to their boyfriends when they talk. & me and my boyfriend don't do that. I feel like he probably thinks I'm a boring girlfriend. Please ANY Advice? I'm tired of over thinking this all.

[Anonymous]

Not all people are touchy feely like that. Some express their feelings through romantic dinners and talking rather than physically through holding hands and cuddling. These people might feel claustrophobic and like they cannot move if they are held and so it is not comfortable for them. It has nothing to do with their feelings for you they are just not that kind of people.
Since you are very young, he might be inexperienced and nervous and not knowing what is ok to do and what is not.
If you want a more physical relationship I suggest you make the first move rather than waiting for him to do it.

[bombshell_t]

Well, you're going to over think things until you get to know each other more. The secret to not being a boring girlfriend is just do things that he normally doesn't do. I take my boyfriend out sometimes on trips, and hikes. You just have to keep it exciting.
As of the lack of affection, that is a comfortably factor and that will get better as the relationship gets deeper. You both are still trying to get to know yourself in a relationship so just go with the flow and enjoy.

[mario1321]

Your over thinking let it progress on its own, he's probably thinking that he is too boring for you

[bombshell_t]

I was thinking the same thing. It's their first relationship, so they have to get to know how they are in a relationship before they can start to define the other person.

[mario1321]

Everybodys young sometime

[sean1234]

You don't have to go to fast, take your time, you 2 are only teens.

[Anonymous]

dont be clingy!