How do you know if a guy finds you attractive or is just being friendly?

[Anonymous]

Should you go with your gut feeling?

[Honesttguy]

I wouldn't want to spend too much time with girl that im being polite to, i would just say im busy for other things.

[PrettyPriya]

Always my best advice is to ask him to lunch. The answer to that will tell you a lot about his feelings towards you. If he accepts, he has interest. Especially true if you follow up with another lunch date or similar.

[Honesttguy]

If you ask then you paying, if i ask then im paying thats the rules girl.

[PrettyPriya]

@Honesttguy

Thanks for clarification on the rules. I have zero issue paying my own way or treating someone that I want to have lunch with. Not an issue for me.

[devoygf]

he does anything you ask him