I wanna date but also don't?

[CrazyGirl666]

I just wanna fall in love and live my dreams with the person I love but every guy ends up shit (at least the ones I've spoke to). Just they always end up lying or pretending they like me so they can get something out of me, which fails every time. Like even when I explain myself and what I want and don't do at the beginning of the relationship (even when were just talking) they end up asking me for that and its like wtf did you not here me say I don't want that? Dating is hard out here when your goal is love and marriage.

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Not trynna get married right away or want the guy to wanna marry me after a couple months. I just mean that I want a relationship that is leading somewhere and for them to actually care about me and my backgriund rather than my body.

[Anonymous]

Lol boys don't think about marriage at 22
You got to take it slow
It takes years of knowing each other , relationship to be finally ready for marriage
Don't hurry everything , things will come to you soon

[CrazyGirl666]

I'm not trying to be like hey lets get married rn! But I'm saying I want a relationship with substance that will lead somewhere and not go to the garbage after a couple months cuz they just talk about wanting to fuck lmao.

[Opinion Owner]

There are two kinds of guys the good one and the bad one
The bad ones are ford dating and fun filled days
The goods ones are to marry and get settled
That's what I've heard from my female friends
May be you need to find a good gentleman to truly understand you

[CrazyGirl666]

I'm trying lmao but all the nice guys end up being secret assholes once you say you don't wanna fuck or do what they say.

[Opinion Owner]

Where do you find these guys
Where are you from that all guy's turn up to assholes

[CrazyGirl666]

I've spoke with a lot of guys lmao. None of them are worth the stress tbh

[Opinion Owner]

How about guys that you know for more 5 or more years

[CrazyGirl666]

LOL nah they're like buddies to me and some of them have girlfriends/girls they like so no.

[Opinion Owner]

Don't worry you'll find a good guy one day

[CrazyGirl666]

Trying to! Haha

[Opinion Owner]

If it's always leading to sex you should give it a try to see if that works

[CrazyGirl666]

Rather not lmao

[Opinion Owner]

You got to loose some to earn some

[CrazyGirl666]

I'm not dropping my morals cuz some loser wants to cum lmao. He has hands he can use them.

[Opinion Owner]

What's life without a bit of fun

[CrazyGirl666]

Its life haha. I wanna keep myself for someone who actually cares for me not someone who just wants me.

[Opinion Owner]

Lol.

[bean2k21]

You have the wrong goals
Your goal should be obedience

[Berethor]

Maybe you should look for a religious guy.

[CrazyGirl666]

Tried that. It's fucked lmao.

[IncognitoBandito]

Where are you trying to meet people?

[CrazyGirl666]

Haven't really tried at all tbh just guys come along and we either become friends or talk for more serious reasons and get together wtv so like school, bars, anywhere.

[Luckycharms12]

You nees to chill out. Dating is ment to be fun

[Luckycharms12]

Not even talk about sex talk about flirting chatting getting to know someone

[CrazyGirl666]

Yeah thats the point that they havw trouble with lmao. They don't wanna get to know me or listen to me, they just wanna fuck which I don't want.

[Luckycharms12]

Well new way dating people have sex on 3rd date then get to know each other

[CrazyGirl666]

Lmaoooooo yeah duh. But I don't wanna fuck a guy who's pretending to be someone he's not fuck that. I rather talk, get to know each other and see how it goes.

[Luckycharms12]

I agree I'm same way so sounds perfectly reasonable and understandable lol

[CrazyGirl666]

Lol exactly! Its hard out here in the streets haha

[Luckycharms12]

Lol I'm from country side so don't no much about the streets lol

[CrazyGirl666]

You're funny lmao. Country side would be awesome to live in though so at least you have that!

[Luckycharms12]

Lol have lived in city to but Ireland is pretty small guessing you are from the US

[CrazyGirl666]

True but thats dope though I rather live there.

[Luckycharms12]

Lol its beautiful in summer but that like 30 days sun if we are lucky

[CrazyGirl666]

Yeah its like pretty cloudy there right?

[Luckycharms12]

It rains quite a bit

[CrazyGirl666]

I love rain lmao I wanna visit Ireland though its so pretty.

[Luckycharms12]

Lived here wouldn't be saying that 😂😂. You definitely should it is stunning

[CrazyGirl666]

Lolllllll stop no seriously I loveeeeeee rain. I walk in it on purpose haha. I will eventually 😍

[Luckycharms12]

Lol I do like rain at night

[Luckycharms12]

Very relaxing.

[CrazyGirl666]

Absolutely! Just not when its super cold cuz then I freeze when I'm wet lmao

[Luckycharms12]

All need is right person to warm you up but ya it. Its cold and wet. Nice light shower no cold nice

[CrazyGirl666]

Trueeeeee I need to find that person to warm up with smh! But def walks in the rain for me are for thinking so if they can handle that I'm down 🤣

[Luckycharms12]

Lol down for what 😜

[CrazyGirl666]

Lmaooooooo down for walks in the rain get your head out the clouds 😝

[Luckycharms12]

😜😜😂😂 Couldn't help myself had to say it

[CrazyGirl666]

Ik you couldn't lmaooooo its probably like second nature to you! 😜

[Luckycharms12]

😂😂 I most say you cought me there yes very much so

[CrazyGirl666]

Ahhhhh see got him! Lmao I just know these things, I'm a smart girl 😉

[Luckycharms12]

Lol you wish you got me 😜😜 seem smart really easy to talk to also 😏

[CrazyGirl666]

Lmao I don't think so, I think it's the other way around 🤣. Yup smart, funny, easy to talk to you name it I'm it.

[Luckycharms12]

Lol forgot confident 😜😂

[CrazyGirl666]

Trueeeeeeee haha thats a good thing right?

[Luckycharms12]

Of course it is

[CrazyGirl666]

Lol well then ig I'm just perfect 🤣 kidding haha. You're confident too

[Luckycharms12]

Yes in average yes but human can struggle with it every so often to. Lol have prove how perfect lol

[CrazyGirl666]

Hahahahhaa ig I'm like a 2/3 confident could be better maybe? Lol hows yours

[Luckycharms12]

Pretty good mostly

[CrazyGirl666]

Lmao ah maybe we're equal on that part. Guess I gotta boost it a bit

[Luckycharms12]

I'm cool and comfortable way I am

[CrazyGirl666]

As you should be lmao. Gotta find a confident girl then

[Luckycharms12]

That would be nice. And lovely person too

[Luckycharms12]

Cute wouldn't hurt either lol

[CrazyGirl666]

Lmao I feel those things entirely! And I just got your username omf thats so funny 🤣

[Luckycharms12]

Why thank you. Up to much for evening

[CrazyGirl666]

You're welcome and def iconic! Nope just chilling and doing some work wbu

[Luckycharms12]

It 1 am. here so I'm chilling

[CrazyGirl666]

Damn lol its only 8:30pm here hahahahhaa U'm a night owl oops. You know you can pm me instead right? Hahahhahahaga

[Luckycharms12]

Lol you can pm me too ladies first

[CrazyGirl666]

LOL I cannot cuz of my level or else I would have cuz our comments are like 50+ now 🤣 but hey if you're good with this...

[Luckycharms12]

I can't cos it's on private

[CrazyGirl666]

Lol go ahead

[In_Trance]

Have fun with that