Least desirable women- Black and Indian

Least desirable men- Black and Indian

I've seen this data before. According to other research and data, the most desirable people in the dating world are white men, white women, and Hispanic women. The least desirable people are black men, black women, Asian men (specifically, Chinese descent "Asian"), and Indian men.
So I'd say this data is somewhat true. However, the most desirable women part is very much untrue. In what reality are Arab and Polynesian women desirable outside of those countries? Nobody wants a woman in a hijab in the Western world. That's a huge turn off. And most white and Western men are just going to assume she's saving herself for marriage and will never have sex, which is the reason *those* men aren't interested. (I personally do not like the Islamic ideology and find it to be disgusting and barbaric.) And Polynesia? No one even remembers that's a thing. It certainly isn't the "most desirable" among women. Unless they specifically meant ONLY Hawaiian women, which isn't quite the same.
So yeah, in my opinion, these stats are only half accurate.
I'm not into the burkas, but a lot of Arabian women in America don't wear them.
And, tbh, I'd rather date a woman in a hijab than a half naked walrus looking like she's stress testing in BDSM gear in public.
Middle eastern women are beautiful. Usually classy and take care of themselves.
Indian guys tho... Aparently get shit on even by Indian women and man, I kind of get it because they don't tend to have a good approach (not that I do) but that still bites.
I also think you have to factor in who uses the sites. I am white, I don't get anything like 30% so I quit. But there are a lot of black and Indian guys who will be fucking relentless and that skews the data.
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Most Arab women I've seen do wear the Islamic clothing, and to me, that's a giant turn-off because of the ideology. I don't mind Arab women by ethnicity, but I'm not dating a Muslim, regardless of their race (and many Muslims where I grew up, Philadelphia, were black or white).
As for your second comment, white men in general have this huge dislike to plus-sized or curvy women. I would say "I don't know why," but I do know why: socioeconomics. In fact, white men are the ONLY race in the West to only like skinny women (and Indian men kinda only want thin women too). Asian men have no preference (although most Asians are skinny by default), and black and Hispanic men love curvy women with tits and ass. But yeah, it's mostly just white men who only want rail-thin women and will call any woman over 130 lbs. "land whale." It's always annoyed me, as if I'm "wrong" for liking thick ladies.
Indian men get crap in the West because they're often perverted and rapey. In India, they can't get away with that. But in the West, there's so many slutty women, that they end up treating all women like trash. Obviously, not all Indian men, but I've met enough in real life to confirm the rumors. My neighbor at my old apartment was one of these pervy, legitimately misogynist Indian dudes.
I think race matters a LOT when talking about your everyday dude. But for the Chads over six feet tall, who go to the gym and have at least an upper middle class job? Yeah, then race becomes irrelevant.
Obese is a word so over used people have forgotten what it means.
It doesn't mean fat. It means so overweight that it affects your health, lifespan and daily activities.
I like rail-thin women but I don't automatically dislike anyone who isn't. I'll give anyone a chance, but the girl who had literally crushed her mattress flat so it was slanted towards her and when she got up there was an foot deep indent like Mr. Potato head fell out of a plane, or the girl with the belly that made it hard to reach so i could only get it half way in... those were turn offs.
Its also a personality thing. I don't know a lot of dedicated motivated inteligent and hard working obese people. Not to mention, I don't want to share a bank account with someone who is going to have health problems caused by greed and laziness.
The girls you post are not obese. But shit, the ones who are deserve love too. I'm just not personally attracted to that. Especially when it tends to come with a bad personality.
And I don't know, personally, I think I know more white guys who would date a (average height) girl over 300 pounds than black guys. Black guys tend to care about fitness.
I agree that most of the unreasonable weight standard guys are white, but the vast majority of guys I know don't like girls with small boobs. And they might think I'm wrong but I really don't mind. Just improves my odds.
Probably still somewhat accurate. Most people who go on dating sites are looking for sex with white women or relationships with white men. Asian women on dating sites tend to be white obsessed, and Indian men tend to be white obsessed. Surprisingly white men are a little more open to anybody.
The chart is more than 12 years old.. very outdated. Also from a time when online dating was not as big, and number of participants/data points is important in statistics. I would not use those stats for anything today.
But would be cool with an updated version
I don’t think it’s more desirable but more who is signed up.
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To be honest, the starkest thing is shows is that men get next to no replies across the board while women who initiate conversation have a decent chance of getting a response.
It shows more how useless dating apps are for men than who is most/least desirable by ethnicity.
Well right away the fact that the male-sender side is all red while the female sender side is mostly green is pretty accurate.
The Asian woman sender would probably be the highest if it weren't for all the fake profiles of Chinese girls from like Des Moines, Iowa wanting to learn English.
Those number for black women are really unfortunate, though. Though if you look again, while they get the lowest responses, it's still more than the men who get the best responses.
It's just one set of numbers, gathered at a dating website where most members are white, so the data is not scientifically gathered/ significant. And your post doesn't even interpret the data correctly. For most and least desirable, using the average numbers, the least desirable women are Black 34.3 and Native American 42.3, not Indian 42.7; Hispanic 42.5 is less desirable than Indian.
You ever go shopping and can't find apples because they were sold out when you got there? But then next week they have too many apples, and some of them rot because not enough people bought them?
The number of people per race and gender who are single varies, as does the number of people looking for that combination or any other.
Measure the statistic again later, you get a different result, an unpredictable one.
Probably pretty accurate. It definitely shows that women don't respond to 75% of men's messages while men respond to at least half of women's messages (unless you're a black woman). But even then, black woman are comparable to the "most attractive" guys. So really, this is just an endorsement that online dating is garbage. Also, it shows that if you do online dating as a guy, go for black chicks because they'll be more receptive to you.
What world of people use okcupid besides lonely old people in their 30's and up and weirdo socially awkward people actually looking for a marriage partner and they don't connect with anyone irl. So the stats are wrong go around and ask people in real life if they're using okcupid and see how far and dead that app is
OkCupid used to be legit, WAAAAAAY back in 2011-2014. After 2014, though? Yeah, they went so hyper-woke, you couldn't even filter out certain people, and they MADE you look at trans profiles and bisexuals. The filters became "girls who like guys" or "guys who like girls" (trannies and dykes, included), even though in the past, you used to be able to filter out those results. Then in 2021, they went grotesque and disgusting with all those inappropriate, woke subway ads with hardcore sexual innuendos, citing "if you don't like it, you must be a bigot."
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So yeah, WHEN this data was made, OKCupid was still reputable. But they haven't been in like 6-7 years now.
It think it is accurate when you talk about GaG users.
But probably not when you consider the world population. I think if they did a poll by society, it would yield different results.
I think it is a reflection of their user base. A lot of Muslims utilize online match making services because culturally they lean toward arranged marriage.
I think there's a lot at play here. As FictionalCharacter mentioned, it depends on who is signed up. Are the users of that website reflective of the population as a whole?
Okay I take back what I’ve said in the past. Seems at least black women know what it’s like to be a guy on dating apps.
Look at the numbers thought.
37 is orange for girls messaging guys.
38 is dark green for guys messaging girls.
I am still surprised by this, but I wonder if it's per message or per person. There are a lot of really amazing black girls out there but I don't see many on dating sites.
I do see a lot of obese black girls who act like they are royalty and spam message guys looking for money.
If one gross girl messages 90 guys with unrealistic demands and another messages 10 guys and gets ten responses, is that 10% or is that 50%? I'd guess that's 50% and that might have something to do with black girls getting less replies.
Best match I got on tinder was a black girl but she said she did not want to meet anyone in real life so I felt like it was a waste of time after that.
Two of the worst three were probably also black girls.
I'm not less likely to reply to the first one, but the other two drive the average down a lot. Statistically black female Americans have some of the highest obesity rates on the planet and that can't possibly help on a dating site.
And... According to the numbers they still get response rates close to most men! Better rates in a lot of cases.
That's an accurate report of the behavior of Ok, Cupid users. I don't know if they reflect the preferences of all single people.
The main thing I get from these two charts is that women respond significantly less often then men and that race doesn't change that statistic much across the board.
Shit stats, which dont apply to real life.
There are equal amounts of beautiful women and men in all races and ethnicities.
OKcupid is hardly the market leader and I would like to see the raw data that was coalesced from.
yeah the differences between men and women seem accurate. but I don't know why the response rates of white males are so low for every woman.
ohhh... maybe they're measuring the fake messages too.
Why did they make the lower graph greener when it comes to the number?
40 is orange on the top graph, there should be not even that on the lower graph.
Holy cow it’s even worse that it looks, I hadn’t noticed that.
It could be the mean value of all reply percentages.
The men part is true
Black and Indian women as least desirable women are also true.
But i don't agree with most desirable women. East Asian women are most desirable
Not really because Asian guys always prefer to date white. I know from personal experience
So how can East Asian women be most desirable if not even East Asian men prefer them
@HeartBreaker007 www.npr.org/.../are-you-interested-dating-odds-favor-white-men-asian-women
Even though Asian men find white women most attractive, most wouldn't MARRY them due to cultural differences. They just have a white fetish
Okay so that’s not biased at all. Look at the authors! 😂 Asian women
It can very much so.
@heartbreaker yes but that is a really easy way to get caught
Without stating the sample sizes, and how they were selected, it's impossible to even estimate ccuracy.
These are reply rate statistics and not most popular ethnicities.
Just a hunch, but I bet these statistics are skewed.
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