What are some of the telltale signs of a shallow person?

[Desconhecida]

[MCheetah]

Women:

Height requirements
Asking for someone better than they are
Obsessed with selfies
Buys really expensive clothing
Has an OnlyFans
Expects a man to pay for her on every date

Men:

Insults women he wouldn't date ("landwhales")
Thinks all men should have the same exact standards in men as he
Uses unattractive women as sex objects

[MCheetah]

same exact standards in *women as he

[ItsyBitsySpider]

I personally don't care about someone's height but I'm curious as to why having a height preference would make someone shallow?

If they're mean about it, I understand but I'm failing to see how having a preference is shallow?:

[MCheetah]

@ItsyBitsySpider
Because 1) You can't control height.
2) Only 20% or less of men meet the usual standard of six feet tall and up.
3) It's never a "preference," rather a requirement.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hIQPPeqIZ6Y&

[ItsyBitsySpider]

Okay, so the videos you just used as a point would fall into being unnecessary and going out of their way to make people feel bad - That's being mean and I understand why that would be shallow.

People simply having a preference and 'not' being mean about it - Shouldn't be an issue, regardless of height people aren't always going to find you attractive.

If only 20% or less men are over 6ft and a woman wants someone 6ft or above, that is okay, as long as she isn't rude about it.

[MCheetah]

@ItsyBitsySpider
I answered the question. Never said you had to agree with my answer, which I'm sticking to, by the way. It's shallow, to me.

[dreamsofcum]

That sums it up quite well

[DaveJord]

Obsessive use of makeup. These attractive women with over done clown face makeup faces, what are you hiding under all that? The constant social media posting and need for followers, and the now stop selfie taking. Over use of any mirror, obsessing about their hair all the time. Talking all about themselves and never really asking about you. I could go on and on...

[hhadeshatesme]

-Judgemental
-Thrive on drama/gossip
-Self centred
- Cares a little too much about physical appearance
-Materialistic

[RedStiletto88]

If the only reason they donate to charities is to post it on social media.


Honestly I’ve known a few like that

[loveslongnails]

This is Narcissist Personality Disorder (the condition former US President Trump has), and it describes a shallow person quite well.

Being overly boastful, exaggerating one’s own achievements
Pretending to be superior to others
Lack of empathy for others
Looking down on others as inferior
Monopolizing conversations
Impatient, angry, unhappy, depressed or has mood swings when criticized
Easily disappointed when expected importance is not given
Always craves for “the best” in everything
Has a very fragile self-esteem

I'll also add:
Often craves material things to the point of obsession

[Vick2727]

My sister-in-law is so shallow and fake. Here's what I don't like about her. Maybe it can help you out. She's a...
User
Fake
Insensitive
Rude
Jealous
She only cares about herself
Hates when you call her out on her crap
Judgmental
She thinks she's smart but really is dumb
A party pooper

[MCheetah]

That describes a LOT of women I knew growing up. At least half of all of 'em.

[CrazyGirl2]

Well, everything that’s going on it that photo you chose is a good start!
Smug look!
Eyes that always seem to be saying “really? You think so! Because like everyone already knew that, so duh 🙄!
Fish mouth lip implants!
Completely insincere air kiss!
Constantly talking selfies, or worse constantly streaming!
Also, she’s way too pretty! I seriously hate her!

[Flower7]

Treating someone differently based on whether the two of them are alone or if there are other people around.

[ananias55]

If all their stories make them out to be the hero or the victim. Shows lack of responsibility for their own behavior and it's a massive red flag.

[TonyMetal___86]

When a girl talks about women's rights and act like a feminist, it's obvious that she's shallow and even stup*d!

[Caunsos]

The double standard. Clearly if the rules for them is different that the rules for others they clearly lack depth and empathy.

[awkward_author]

They only think about themself and are hyper focused on appearance.

[legalboxers]

they only think about themself, talk about themselves, and keep the conversation about themselves

[Babygirl_S]

Posting their own pics when not necessary and dating bad guys.

[pizzalovershouse]

Expecting expensive cars and jewelry not caring if they hurt the others feelings

[Anonymous]

They have "preferences" which are a dog whistle for toxic gender norms and racism

[Paige90]

If every other word is "like."

[motownplayer2000]

Instagram, twitter, tictok.

[Shy_Steve]

Usually if they give you a dirty mean look.

[msc545]

AN obsession with shallow things like appearance.

[Deserter]

They virtue-signal and feign moral superiority.

[michael1469]

When everything is about them.

[Mediterraneansoul]

Lack lf self respect and respect toward others

[notawomanagod]

they are GAG user notawomanagod

[Slim57]

Obsessed with likes and attention on social media

[Effie2004]

Their into themselves to much.

[Slartybartfast]

Instagram account..