Do men actually prefer women who attended college?

[Deserter]

Women seem to think it makes them more valuable, especially in the eyes of a man.

But personally I think it makes them less appealing when they're fed and believe what's taught in college.

Don't get me wrong, I like, even prefer a smart and educated woman. But not a college educated one. They tend to be less feminine, take themselves more seriously, less submissive, believe in left wing nonsense, etc.

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@Kaneki05 You have an IQ of 74 on a good day, get on my level, you couldn't debunk my arguments, your parents don't love you, and your weiner is smol

[DaveJord]

Let me say that college does not really matter to me... because most women/men who have been slapped in the face by reality tend to deprogram themselves by the age of 30.

I steer away from idealist in general... I live in the hear and now. I have dated PHD's and high school drop outs... but a good person is a good person.

[Kaneki05]

Your definition of smart shows that's it's very subjective to your right winged views. Where as anyone with any amount of intellect can tell you that to measure someone's ability to think they must view it objectively not subjectively.
So the irony here is you measure smartness not by what it actually is so who knows what you mean by educated is just in reality what you like.

Where as me I can tell you there is many people I don't politically like that are smart.

[Deserter]

I never actually defined smart anywhere in my post, genius. So I don't know wtf you're on about

And what is smartness according to you?

[Kaneki05]

Actually you did "I like, even prefer a smart and educated woman. But not a college educated one. They tend to be less feminine, take themselves more seriously, less submissive, believe in left wing nonsense, etc." and I just told you what mine is. But if you dunno what i am talking about then that say's it all really.

[Deserter]

Yeah, no, I said I prefer a smart woman, but I never said at all what that means.

Where did you define it? All you've said is there's smart people on both sides, which I agree with, but isn't actually a definition.

[Kaneki05]

You don't agree with that since you say believe in left wing nonsense as in a dig that left winged stuff is nonsense and of course to you that makes anyone who believes in that stuff dumb?

And i've already told you mine. if you really cannot figure that out... there is no help. I made it very clear what smartness is judged by in my first comment and that's also what I judge it by.

[Deserter]

Plenty of smart people believe in stupid things, you don't understand what intelligence is at all it seems. The only difference is smart people are better at rationalizing their beliefs. There's been studies on this

You didn't though, quote it.

[Kaneki05]

"measure someone's ability to think they must view it objectively not subjectively." if you don't know what I mean by objectively then I would suggest looking it up though I feel like you should know this most people should.
If you want admit there must be a good reason why a smart person has left views then go ahead and make my argument of your subjective smartness void, But then I don't see the point in this question as much to the question of smartness.
Cause that would just be admitting you just don't like smart left winged people which if so fair but who cares what you like lol.

[Deserter]

Ok, so by this logic viewing things abstractly isn't intelligence as it is subjective. So Picaso wasn't smart according to you. You can only be smart if your thinking is more concrete. Despite the fact that higher levels of openness i. e proclivity towards abstract correlate with intelligence.

Also who tf views everything objectively? To do so is to have opinions on nothing and just be able to state what is known. Even then you run into problems thanks to solipsism.

So yeah, you haven't a clue what you're talking about.

[Kaneki05]

You do realise Picaso objectively has IQ Score of 175. Lmao. So of course he was smart. Do you really think people who paint don't have any objective signs of their smartness? Of course they do.

[Deserter]

No shit, that's my point, but he was a genius in the field of art as well and he was an abstract thinker, not a concrete one

[Kaneki05]

There is solid objective proof he was smart. Then you try to argue against me saying that it would be just subjective to find him smart. No there is clear objective measures on his smartness which clearly you do not grasp by even trying to use him in a argument here against objective smartness when he might aswell be a definition for it.

[Kaneki05]

Next you will be saying Hawking or Marx or some other smart person is not objectively smart. Trust me smart people are objectively judged. if it was just subjective then we would have our best friends be the most smart people alive lmao.

[Deserter]

You are stupid, so so stupid. In order to score high on an IQ test you need to think abstractly, it's pattern recognition ffs 🤦‍♂️

[Kaneki05]

which is an objective fact?

[Deserter]

An objective fact that subjectivity is involved in intelligence, yes, good job, you debunked your own argument

[Kaneki05]

That don't even make sense. Lmao. If the test was full subjective it would have no right answers, clearly an IQ test has right answers and it's an objective fact that people who tend to take it are abstract there two separate things that interlock that can be objectivised. If they couldn't we wouldn't get any results dumbass.

[Deserter]

Oh yes it does, moron. Art is completely abstract, doesn't mean anyone can interpret and understand it like Picaso does because subjectivity is a part of the equation when it comes to intellect, butt wipe

[Kaneki05]

For a fact to exist it has to be based on what is objectively there. So if it's a fact someone is smart it has to be objectively there. It cannot be subjective to just what someone's friends or mother thinks. Therefore the test it's self is the very meaning of objectivity.

[Deserter]

I never argued otherwise but if you want to get technical you can't prove that the test even exists so eat shit

[Kaneki05]

Therefore Picaso is objectively smart and your just dumb for bringing him up like you knew anything about it

[Deserter]

"Your just dumb" the irony.

Prove IQ tests exist and aren't a hallucination, I'll wait

[Kaneki05]

Can't prove the test even exists? Umm yes we can?

[Kaneki05]

I see your the type of person who say's well you don't have a gun so prove that guns exist. Shows... how smart you that argument.

[Kaneki05]

Are*

[Deserter]

No, I just think it's funny you drone on about objectivity when we can literally prove nothing

[Kaneki05]

And I find it super funny that you think that argument actually stands in anyway. I'll come back when you learn how to make your mom jokes too but tbh your probably not there yet. Maybe in a couple years. Boy this has got childish all thanks to me just winning you in this pointless argument since you probably didn't understand half of it that you had to resort to making it like this.

[JoyGirl]

That logic can not be true. 😂
I am well educated, and have my plan laid out for college, as well as after college. My boyfriend is cool with it. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[SamA_nold]

So you prefer a woman who isn’t educated past high school… insecure much bud?

[Deserter]

Read entire post

[SamA_nold]

I did, it makes you seem like you’re threatened by the idea of people being smarter than you 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Deserter]

You didn't read it, I said I prefer a smart and educated woman. Neither of which you seem to be. And since when does attending college mean smart? That's the point I'm trying to make. You can learn online what you can in college, wuthout the leftists indoctrination tacted on

[SamA_nold]

Just not a woman who’s been educated to a college level degree… 😊

[Deserter]

Yes Sam, I'm intimidated by you and your gender studies and feminist degrees you got at community college. That coupled with your 93 IQ put you in the same league as Einstein

[SamA_nold]

Ah, yep, automatically got defensive. It’s okay bud, you keep making assumptions and proving your insecurities

[Deserter]

It was sarcasm hun, you're the one either intentionally misunderstanding what I'm saying or not smart enough to get it. Not looking good for you, babe

[SamA_nold]

I’m just gonna sit back and let you keep proving my point 😊

[Deserter]

That's cute, you think you made a point 😂

[Heartache0405]

I don’t. You don’t need to go to college in order to be successful. Furthermore, college and especially university women are bat shit crazy liberal leftist demoshits. No thank you

[JoyGirl]

Not all of us…lol

[Heartache0405]

True, but enough of you are to the point where it’s not worth seeking anything meaningful there. Not that anyone should be because they should be focusing on their studies and not finding a relationshit

[DCooper]

Depends on what she got her degree in. But yeah, the majority of female college students are doing nothing but running up debt and getting indoctrinated in how to fail at life.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

It doesn’t make much of a difference for me, based on my carefully analyzed research, college proves irrelevant for my future. I already have the very basics of it planned. Finish SS1 completely by time half of 2022 has passed, officialize the method of how I’ll make my Conga, then actually make Conga, try to collab with the Publishing Companies listed in my Concepts Document, the rest is a mystery

[Anonymous]

I personally don't judge people by their education level (nor their income) however I know this is not mutual with women.
If guys dislike women having higher levels of education it's probably because they know they have to more educated for her to not dismiss him. If she's high school educated he has to be college educated. If she has a bachelor's he needs a masters. If she has a masters he needs to have a doctorate. It's just how women are.

[Leonharted]

I'm apathetic to it in and of itself. If she's wanting to quit working once she's married, though, then she took out a whole lot of debt for no reason.

[AviatorTom]

I think most men prefer a woman to be intelligent and educated. A woman who has attended college is just one of several indicators of that.

[Dchrls78104]

I don't know about that. You don't need a degree to know how to love, to care for someone, to live well and peaceably with someone, to show someone kindness and respect, to be loyal or honest or faithful, or to make someone happy.

[AndrésC64]

Doesn't necessarily matter. As long as you can have good conversations.

[Legendofdon]

No. Women who attend college are brainwashed into hating their role as wife and mother.

[BarryLiverstone]

As a preference I do. Not only can we swap college stories but can show her passion in self improvement

[Anonymous]

It seems like very career oriented women have very standards and are not very happy, most seem stern and work focused.

[bamesjond0069]

I agree with you. Taking into account the issues that most girls get from college, im usually most excited to date girls who have not nor are attending college.

[crmoore]

I genuinely prefer less intellectually capable women.

[Deserter]

Since when does college mean intellectually capable? You just regurgitate information

[crmoore]

That's an over-simplification. But even if it was true, my point still stands. I prefer women who struggle in that department.

[Deserter]

Fair enough, why do you prefer a woman who struggles in that way though?

[crmoore]

I find great enjoyment in taking care of my romantic interest. In fact, forming a strong bond and developing a deep love for her may even be dependent on it. I don't see myself really developing feelings for a girl who can do things herself. The more 'delicate' (euphemism) she is, whether that be physically, intellectually, or emotionally, the better. (Well maybe that's not entirely true, I'm sure there's a lower bounds but that lower bounds would be a decent but lower than the average person, I'd imagine).

[crmoore]

It makes me feel good to make their life better.

[Deserter]

I guess it's the masculine desire to lead and protect. I can definitely see where you're coming from

[crmoore]

Most definitely.

[Anonymous]

Depends on what kind of men we are talking about. The rednecks, Trumpsters and MGTOW of this site?
Successful and high class men like Bill Gates prefer equally educated, strong and intelligent women...

[Deserter]

Oh sweetie, the average college graduate has an IQ of 100. That's not even necessary to graduate. An 80 IQ will suffice. You're not special, and you certainly aren't Bill Gates. Enjoy your debt

[Opinion Owner]

Triggered much? Hahaha whatever you say
Stay mad bruh 🤣

[Deserter]

Triggered by what? I stated facts and shut down your arrogant ass missy 🤷‍♂️

[Jamie05rhs]

It doesn't make a difference to me either way.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I consider it a nice bonus but not a requirement.