Finding a woman 18+ that has never had her first love. Do I still have a chance?

[Inthecraphole]

I am 27 and never had a real girlfriend. I seek a decently attractive (maybe a 5 or 6 out of 10) woman that has never had a boyfriend or first love. A crush on a guy she was never close to is fine. Other than that, no.

I want me and a woman to be each other's first loves.

I can no longer say me and a woman met and loved each other when we were both young. That is kinda partially why I have that criteria.

About me... I am a frontend software engineer making $65,000 a year. I am short in height at 5'6". But I am very affectionate and loving.

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[Anonymous]

I highly doubt it will happen for you, but haven't you dated people in the past? I find you a bit unfair, because you sure did date those people you found attractive.

Here are some hard pills for you swallow:
You are unrealistic. It makes you appear really weird.

You make 60k a year but want a woman? Step up your salary, get in the gym and look groomed.

You do not know boundaries. That Anna girl isn't 18 and over yet, and you are lusting after her. you're a RED FLAG and sound sick.

[WispyThought]

I think its a bit over the top to think you're going to find a decently attractive woman who has never had a boyfriend before. Chances are slim, not impossible though, but realistically, doubt it will happen. Also 18/19 is super weird. There's a saying that men who date much younger women to their age, can't compete in their own age group

[noohair]

Ok, I am sorry to repeat myself. No one wants to live in a crap hole with your weird fetish. Invest in a psychiatrist so you can feel better and leave the hole that you are in.

[Anonymous]

Why does it matter if she’s had a boyfriend/love interest before? Surely if you love her and she loves you that’s enough? It’s a bit weird to require her to not have been in a relationship - or even unrequited love before! And not that likely since you are in your late 20s and most women who are age appropriate for you will have had feelings for someone by now.

[Inthecraphole]

It is because of the hypothetical situation where she can reunite with someone from her youth and it be a sweeter, more desirable outcome. I can date 18 and 19 year olds too. I know someone who is 28 dating a 19 year old and they are happy.

[Opinion Owner]

It may be legal, but it is a bit icky to be in your late 20s and date someone who is barely a legal adult. Pick a woman closer to your own age - she’ll have more life experience and be more mature, something most 18/19 year old girls are not (having been one myself). It is especially icky if you’re only looking to date a 18/19 year old to be her first. That is fetishising virginity and innocence - which is creepy.

[Inthecraphole]

I am not looking for a sexual virgin as much as I am a girl that has never had a first love or romantic bond with a guy before.

[Opinion Owner]

Still weird

[Inthecraphole]

I wish I can have @AnnaTumbles tbh

[Opinion Owner]

You’re being creepy

[Lolaaa53553373333]

I don't think so, theoretically she'd have to be ugly till like she's 25 then put braces on and lost weight and all around making herself look good, and then the universe would have it that you're the guy she meets and likes

[Anonymous]

Bro that Anna girl you keep tagging is 16 and you’re almost 30! Your standards are borderline unrealistic, why do you care so much about meeting the love of your life at a young age. Most young love fail anyway…

[Inthecraphole]

She is so beautiful and has never been in love before or dated. I would love to have her! I swear if I can have a girl like her she would be my everything and I would be loyal to her.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah but she’s 16

[Inthecraphole]

But she is awesome and I swear if I cam have a girl like her I would love her to no ends.

[Opinion Owner]

How are you gonna find a girl like her while you’re in jail tho? I hope you do find someone like her who’s actually age appropriate

[martyfrazier80]

There are good girls out there waiting for Mr. right but you setting yourself up for disaster! You might get yourself a hoochie for a wife advertising how much money you make

[Usernone]

No one is perfect. Instead of looking for this "loveless woman", be open to finding someone who wants to be with you. You never know, the one for you could have been in love but never received appropriate love until you.

[annabananna]

Uhm it would be difficult to find. Most adults have experienced the feeling of love.