Was this my last chance to find a woman without a romantic past?

[Anonymous]

I am seeking a woman that has never had a boyfriend or romantic bond with a guy before, especially from her youth.

I met this 25 year old woman through a Christian dating app that had never had a boyfriend. She was decently cute and lived in another state.

Sadly, something happened and she dropped me from Snapchat after talking for about a week. I know her name and where she goes to school and can contact her via other methods if I need to.

Do you think that was my last chance?

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[Anonymous]

I haven’t been on here in years and I see you’re still stuck with your old ways, finding someone with no romantic love huh. If I remember correctly, you had a girlfriend for a while and you posted her pics on here. Doesn’t that make you not inexperienced? What happened with the 25 yo? Have you met up with her?

[Asker]

I have never had a real girlfriend, no. I had some online things, but they rejected me upon meeting me in person. I don't count those.

[Opinion Owner]

Pretty sure I remember you had a young girlfriend but her dad disapproved of you, there was also another girl you had a thing with and you were still in contact with her mom and plus you’re not a virgin, am I correct?

Do you have any idea why they rejected you when you do finally end up meeting up in person tho? Is it your looks? How you act in real life? Was the chemistry just not there irl?

[Asker]

I don't know. One girl dropped me within 2 hours of meeting her. There was one that rejected me and it devastated me. Her mom was preparing me to marry her, and when I drove up to Illinois to meet her for the first time, she rejected me that weekend. Some other guy got to be her first everything. Her first love, first engagement, first kiss, first marriage, first sex. Literally EVERYTHING! I was so distraught, I had to be hospitalized.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh yeah I remember reading about that on here. Gotta move on man, that was years ago. Better start meeting women irl and not online I guess

[Anonymous]

you're 29... not a chance. and you can't date teenagers. so again... you are being so unrealistic it's almost scary... actually, it IS scary. get a grip.

do not try to contact that girl that dropped you. just because you have other means of trying to contact her doesn't mean she wants you to... if she wanted to, she wouldn't have ghosted you in the first place. again. creepy.

[Asker]

I can date any woman 18 or older. Surely, there has to be at least one decently attractive girl out there that has never had a boyfriend or romantic bond that is meant for me.

[Opinion Owner]

there isn't... stop with this nonsense.

[Opinion Owner]

it's getting creepy.

[Asker]

Why creepy? I never had a real girlfriend myself.

[Lliam]

Yes. You shouldn't try to date women.

To a woman, "And any man who doesn't see your qualities beyond the fact that you've had previous relationships before doesn't value you. He sees you as an object or possession, not as an intelligent, fully accomplished human being with common sense and standards."

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

What you should be looking for, is someone who you can have a romantic future with, and not worry about the past.

[Asker]

Why not both? A woman without a romantic past whom I can have a future with?

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

Just my opinion, sometimes the past experience isn't all that bad. Great, if you find someone to learn with you though.

[Avicenna]

Did you tell her ytou had to have a woman "without a romantic past"? Mentioning that will make any woman run for the exits.

[Apple1996]

If she's stopped talking to her then don't be a creep and contact her in other ways. That's just weird

[Asker]

I seek a woman without a romantic past and she is a rare kind. I thought about letting some time pass and then reaching out.

[Apple1996]

Maybe. Why did she stop talking to you?

[Asker]

I can't exactly pinpoint it. She told me I was cute at first. She just dropped me without warning.

[Apple1996]

Hmm maybe nervous or found another guy

[Asker]

I still really want her. I only want a woman without a romantic past.

[silyt_ghoest]

that’s a weird thing to look for. i don’t mean to be intrusive (i do) but are you a shitty person, or are you just really insecure? or is it something else?

[Asker]

I have never had a real girlfriend myself, so I seek a woman where we can be each other's first real relationship. That is a fair request.

[silyt_ghoest]

ah. that makes sense. okay i totally get that now.

[AmeerX]

Get your lazy ass out of the couch and go to Asia and get your wife. It's that easy white man. God you are like my brother. He won't talk to a woman who basically throws herself at him and then says he will go find a woman someday.

[exitseven]

Figure out how to contact her and just ask her if she would like to text.

[Nikki1989]

Most women don't like desperate creeps.

[Asker]

Are you saying I am a desperate creep?

[OddBeMe]

Do you have a “romantic past”?

[Anonymous]

yes if you keep failing to close

[Jmmmfi4]

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