What is the difference between relationship statuses?

[Anonymous]

What is the difference between, hangout, dating, being in a relationship/boyfriend & girlfriend?

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Always insists on paying.

[wiltingrosepetal]

There are levels to it!

1. Hanging out - Very platonic, you're just spending time together
2. Texting - Spending extra time with them, one on one. You're learning details about them and whether you'll be compatible
3. Seeing each other - Here you reveal you like each other, now you're seeing if it'll work out. Planning dates
4. Dating - Everything in between the confession and the relationship. This stage shouldn't exceed 6 months, at the very most. Might include sex but always includes several dates
5. Situationship [Optional] - If the dating stage exceeds 6 months, you reach the confusing question of what the hell you even are
6. Relationship - Labelling the relationship, calling them your partner
7. Roommates
8. Engaged
9. Married

[wiltingrosepetal]

I often hear people say they're in the "talking stage" which in my opinion falls under the second point as well

[Asker]

What about if a guy says that they like spending time with you and is still willing to drive , 40 minutes to your house when you can't drive. Wants to do date like activities (eating out, movies, etc.) and refuses to allow me to pay, but says he isn't ready for a relationship cause he has a lot going on right now, but also says definitely possible for it to become something later just not now. Doesn't want to loose what is there. Says he wants to keep things the same as boyfriend/girlfriend just without the title. Both know and have told the other we feel the same way about each other and remains the same.

[wiltingrosepetal]

See this is why we invented the term situationship! It puts a neat label on the most unlabelled and confusing romances ❤️

Sounds like a textbook case of commitment issues, which are the root of most of these relationships. He's 'not ready to date', strike one, 'doesn't want to lose what's there', strike two, and wants to date you just without calling you his girlfriend? Yeah... he's a bit of a mess. I think you should ask yourself if you're willing to be this guy's option or his partner. He should want to commit to you, if he doesn't, he's not boyfriend material.

But yeah, if you're looking for a label: situationship. Hope this helps!

[avery58]

Hanging out or seeing someone is when you're getting to know them, gone on a few dates. Dating is when you have been talking and seeing each other for some time. A situationship is when you've been dating for months but haven't formalized. And boyfriend/girlfriend is when one asks the other for a formal relationship and the other person accepts or both talk about it and decide they want to take that step.

[Asker]

We text everyday several times a day. Have known each other over a year and have been meeting up since beginning of December. Gone out to eat a couple of times, a couple movies, bingo at VFW with his step mom, been to his house a handful of times each know and met the other's parents, he's been to my place, several times comes over we watch a movie at my place and order food.

[Yannae]

Hanging out - Hanging with someone, spending time with someone, having fun. This could be a friend. Hanging with the boys! Goal: Have fun.

Dating - Same thing as hanging out, but the difference is that you are now looking at each other as potential partners. A love interest. Goal: Finding out if this person is right for you to be your partner.

Relationship - You made it. Dating worked out and you think he's right for you and as luck has it, he also thinks you are the right person for him. You are officially together.

[BetaBucks]

To me:

Hangout - talking only. No banging
Dating - banging, occasional overnights, no trips.
Relationships - regular overnights, occasional trips

As far exclusivity goes, that's even more personalized. For me, I expect it from the hangout phase. She won't be LTR material if she messes that up.

[Asker]

Both know and have said we feel same way about each other. Have gone out to resteraunts and movies together. Been to each other's house and met each other's parents. Were "official" but he said he felt he rushed things and says he still wants things to be the same just without boyfriend/girlfriend title "commitment". TBH, I felt when we were together it was still us doing things as good friends just with a hug goodbye. He says he isn't ready for relationship and doesn't want to ruin what we have and maybe in the future can try again and have it turn into something more. He said he got bad anxiety and was nervous and made his IBS worse. We still text several times a day every day and he still wants to "meet up" and do things together.

[BetaBucks]

Yeah this is tough. On one hand, it shows a lack of interest, but on the other, he might be coming from a place of actual fear and valid concern. I guess the best advice I can give is to ask him if he plans to remain exclusive, in terms of sex, and to also prepare yourself for things not working out. And to never give up on the self improvement journey :)

[AI Opinion]

I'm diving into the intriguing world of relationship statuses today! Let's start with "hangout." This is the casual stage, think of it as flirting without the commitment. It's like dipping your toes into the pool to see how warm the water is. When you're "dating," it means you've both decided to take a swim and explore the waters together. It's more exclusive than hanging out, with both parties interested in discovering where things might lead.

Now, when you elevate to "being in a relationship" or the official boyfriend-girlfriend title, it's like agreeing to swim in the same pool exclusively. No more testing the waters elsewhere; you're committed to diving deeper together. This stage is marked by mutual understanding, respect, and, most importantly, commitment. It's where you've both agreed that what you have is special and worth focusing on, exclusively. Isn't love just thrilling?

[Asker]

What about if a guy says that they like spending time with you and is still willing to drive , 40 minutes to your house when you can't drive. Wants to do date like activities (eating out, movies, etc.) and refuses to allow me to pay, but says he isn't ready for a relationship cause he has a lot going on right now, but also says definitely possible for it to become something later just not now. Doesn't want to loose what is there.

[Asker]

Says he wants to keep things the same as boyfriend/girlfriend just without the title.

[Asker]

Both know and have told the other we feel the same way about each other and remains the same.

[Serkee]

That's a bot, he's not going to respond to you.

[HawkPerception]

Hangout is just chilling as friends. Dating is getting to know someone with the purpose of finding a romantic/significant other. Being in a relationship as a boyfriend/girlfriend is the official title you have when you know you've chosen to be with someone romantically.

[serious]

1. Hanging out is not really a relationship status. Anyone can hangout with anyone, even friends can hangout with one another.

2. Dating. That means this is a stage to see if two people who are dating are compatible and if a potential exclusive relationship in future is possible or not.

3. Being in a relationship/boyfriend & girlfriend. This is self explanatory, this indicates that two people involved are now boyfriend/girlfriend and are in a committed exclusive relationship.

[ProbablyClueless]

Hanging out just means that you enjoy spending time together occasionally.

Dating means that you are super intentional about spending time together but you probably haven't ever had a real discussion about defining the relationship, and you definitely don't prioritize each other.

Being in relationship means that you prioritize each other and have had a formal discussion about it.

[Theodoricus]

There is a important thing between these statuses. It's intention. If both of a girl and boy have sex under the name of friendship like animals without getting married, then there is no difference.

[paledreams]

People invent anything to be a trendsetter or trend follower. I vomit at such folks and I stick to old faithfuls lol 😂😆👀

[paledreams]

"i remember when bae was a thing of the late 2010s just before 2020" lol 😆🤣

[TonyMetal___86]

A boyfriend and a girlfriend hang out and date together, they are all related, all these to end up getting married, cause marriage is the real deal!

[Iron_Man]

Bro friends hangout

[In_Trance]

The level of commitment that goes with them