Would you share the same house with the family of the person you married until your death?

[Anonymous]

Would you or would you not want to live in the same house with the family of the person you married for the rest of your life?

[Anonymous]

I’ve done it and I don’t recommend!!! Especially if your partner caters to the family needs and not yours at all. It’ll constantly feel like you have to stay in your place & deal with whatever just because it isn’t YOUR home. There’s no boundaries, no respect for space nor time. People feel like they can say whatever or do whatever and even treat you like whatever.

A lot of my arguments with my fiancé was because of family being in the middle. There were no dates, no being out the house for more than 2 hrs without needing to come back home…meanwhile we are adults no teenagers.

Everything was about everyone else and not me…never me but whenever I’d express how I feel it always came down to well it’s someone that needs me more than you.. lol

[avery58]

Parents? I might be open to it. Siblings, no.

[Gopackers02]

So all of us live in the same house? No thanks unless it’s her house. Then maybe because my house has zero boundaries and I literally am trying everything to leave at the moment. But I’d prefer to have our own place to live

[exitseven]

Not if I can help it. My parents lived with my father's parents for a few years after they got married. They moved out just vefore I was born

[AMS700CX4u2]

No, that is the worst thing a married couple can do. You deserve the chance to go make your own mistakes and clean them up. That is how you learn and grow as man and wife. You really don't need your parents input unless you ask for it.

[Alwayreckles93]

That depends. If the mother in law is a nightmare no thank you. Myex sidenofnthe family were all convert narcissistic. We must be careful before making a huge decision.

[naartjie]

I’m not even married but NO.
To save some money for a while, yes but never for the rest of my life. I need space.

[arabi1]

I like u

[dreamstar72]

No be to weird. We have our own home so we can have fun changing things around

[SotiCoto]

I couldn't even tolerate being around my own family. Why would I tolerate in-laws?

[Twalli]

Her house is small. Big enough for her and ne, but too small otherwise. Mine is a lot bigger, but too big when my parents are gone.

[RingOfFire]

No way! Without privacy it's not a healthy relationship.

[Jamie05rhs]

I suppose I might consider it. Not my first choice, but it's not a deal-breaker.

[Anonymous]

Why would I live with the family of the person I married?

[Asker]

Because your wife doesn't want to leave her family

[Opinion Owner]

Well she wouldn't have ever been my wife then. This would of been a non negotiable from the start.

[Asker]

Why?

[Opinion Owner]

Because she is my wife. Are you Asian or something? Do you live in culture where this is more accepted? Because this is not the culture I was born into. When a woman doesn't leave her family to be with you she's essentially telling you you're not her husband, you're not married. And this is not a power thing, it's a respect thing. When 2 people become married they become one flesh, devoted to one another. If she's not down with that then I would never marry her. It's just that simple.

[Anonymous]

Do I also get to have sex with the mother in law?

[EmmaMary]

No, absolutely not.

[Asker]

Why?

[EmmaMary]

I would need, want and require to have my own home, where I, along with my husband can make decisions on how we run our home.

[LazerBean]

I would much rather us have our own house.

[Asker]

You are right

[Account]

Cyanide is a better option for me.

[Account]

I would rather drink cyanide I mean.

[rosemilk]

i refuse to live with family.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

If I liked them, I’d consider it

[TrueConfection]

No thanks!

[elizamichale1]

I wouldn't mind

[jahaims]

Definitely not

[OddBeMe]

Dear god no.