The Girls in front of me? They are students. Saleswomen. Masseurs. Doctors and nurses. Waitresses. Girls, who give out flyers. Bank girls. Cashiers. You mean those are the girls i want and need to be more open with?
Why not? Why do you care so much about their occupation? Do you think they're not good enough for you? If that's the case, then you deserve to remain single and lonely.
Where the F did I say they are not good enough? đ¤Śââď¸
That's literally how i met them. Saleswomen in stores. Masseurs in Massage parlors. Doctors and Nurses in the medical centers. Waitresses in restaurants.
It doesn't take to be a genius to put together a girl and what she does and where I met her.
Get to know them, how they deal with gifts, whether they demand/suck up for better miscellaneous items or eyeing your assets. Smallest things like paying for the bill, giving them a gift for a special event or a change in behavior once they know your financial status.
Do they appreciate the smallest gifts, like a handwritten card? Or do they want expensive gifts only? Do they constantly ask to borrow money? For you to help them buy something? Using you or your connections to get benefits. Sign something that can potentially take some of your assets?
Be aware of their family and friends and see if they're gold diggers. It *may* influence their nature. I think these tips will help you, because they helped me avoid gold digger friends lol.
Unless if you're in some billionaire CEO situation, I don't think it'll be too difficult to tell if they're faking it. Just trust your gut and don't dismiss the red flags. I would communicate with friends and family for extra insight.
I'm pretty sure most women want men who are financially stable and can make a living to support himself. That's different than a woman being a gold digger. It seems like a lot of the men here on GAG can't distinguish between the two. A gold digger only wants a man for his money and doesn't love him at all. Financial stability is especially important if they want children.
In fact, both parents may need to work to support their children because of the economy and the high cost of living in certain places. One thing I'm going to tell you is to NOT lie about your job/career and how much you make when you get involved with a woman. Don't pretend to be poor. It makes you a liar and it makes people trust you less. That's not a good quality to have. in my opinion a man who does that is a low value man.
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What if i don't feel comfortable saying the exact number I'm making?
I have never wanted a guys money when I am in a serious relationship. Sure I want him to be stable and able to take care of his self. Be stable, financially but I have never hunted a boyfriend or potential spouse down due to take their money.
If it was for fun, not serious then yeah, money was something of interest. When I was being a SB, that was the whole point of it. Nothing serious was ever going to come out of that.
They are not hiding they are out there, it shouldn't be too hard to figure it out. If she is able to take care of herself on her own. She won't want you just for your money.
Left-leaning, college educated women with good careers is typically the demographic that cares the least about a man's income.
But they also tend to be quite feminist, non-traditional and while often elegant looking due to their status, they aren't very traditionally feminine and tend to have academic and professional interests and more male friends as a result.
Don't expect a housewife who won't expect you to pave her life for her with your paycheck. Traditional women have traditional expectations.
Youâre not gonna know unless you get to know who they are. In goes you could tell by the way they present themselves and act as well as by what they wear in public. If they didnât care about another persons money they wouldnât be wearing a ton of jewelry and expensive looking clothes. Thatâs a red flag. You also want to stay away from the ones who dress too liberally because theyâre using their body to attract attention in order to bring in money. Attractive with the body, have unwanted sex, cry rape, go to court and win all his money as he goes to prison. Itâs either that type or the type to always ask for shit they donât need.
If youâre looking for a girl that looks like that, chances are youâll have a hard time finding one that doesnât like being financially supported and isnât high matinence. Not saying sheâd be a gold digger, but I doubt youâll find a woman like that who is alright being financially equal in a relationship. As well as you needing to be also very attractive or else have something else to offer if not money. Thereâs plenty of women who donât just want money and want a connection, but if youâre being shallow yourself then at least donât be a hypocrite. 😘
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- really young girls like 18-21 they believe more in innocent love and that youâll overcome every struggle together (not all of them) and what youâve got will impress her compared to the woman who maybe makes close to what you make - girls who never lacked anything material from their parents and have no idea of being what it means to be poor (those who were poor will prioritize financial stability - the girl who responds with her achievements when you tell her yours, like she feels the need to fill the silence after when you tell her what you do with her achievements - the girl who was before with a rich man and broke up because something else was lacking (abusive, was not in love etc)
I'm an emotional girl. I don't look for money. Finding them will be challenging because they are rare, but you can find them. You just need to look out for the signs. Just keep them two options and test them what they will choose. Keep 1000 dollars at one side and a cute doggy another side. Identify what they are choosing. If they choose 1000 dollars, they are money girls. If they choose cute puppy, they are emotional and kind girls. The only rule that you need to keep for this game is that they can only choose 1 option out of the both
Failing taking a clipboard round to your local mall and asking women to fill in a questionnaire, you can never know. Also, why you have posted photos of women up there which have no connection to your question is confusing. Unless of course you think a woman is after your money based on their looks? Surely not!
Probably talk about their family and friends and how they treat them. Are they more of a caring person who likes to give things to their closed ones or don't care much.
I think how someone treats their family or closed ones is one of the few ways to knowing whether they're a gold digger or not.
Never let them know what you do for work. Never let them know how much you make. Don't advertise your wealth if you do have money. Make sure she cares more about just spending time with you rather than doing things and going places with you.
You attract people who are interested in what you are advertising. If youâre using your money to attract romantic partners than you will attract people who are interested in your money. If you use your personality and your qualities as person you will find people who are interested in you personality and qualities.
The problem is your looking for the women like those in the pictures. Settle for an average-pretty woman and youâll do well. If you go for women who look like dolls or children they will chase you for your money
Really beautiful women have the advantage of choice. Theyâre going to pick the men with the money and the assets. Go for the the less beautiful ones, the plain girls. They usually have more heart.
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Dude if you're poor or broke you have nothing to worry about no girl is gonna want to steal the 3 dollars you have in your pocket.
The ones who don't care about owning branded stuff and don't expect expensive gifts. You can try offering something like that and see how she reacts. It is not hard to tell when a woman is not attracted to money.
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