Why girls are very interested in me through messages but live lose interest (dating)?

[badg96]

I've met several girls on tinder they say I'm very handsome when i send pics of me but then live they lose interest they say I'm very nice but it won't work

[cookiecrusher]

Nobody wants a nice guy.

Don't be an asshole but to don't take shit from anyone, especially women. Argue with them on a topic, don't just agree. Tell her what you want to do, instead of asking etc.

If you already have the looks then it's easy.

Don't even text with anybody you get a match with.

Set up an atv adveture ride or a go kart etc. in a local business (not a secluded forest).

Include it in your tinder, looking for a fun cute woman to race with.

Don't do much of texting, only the essentials, your time is busy and valuable, at least should look this way. Plus you don't like texting, face to face is more personal.

In essence live an interesting and active lifestyle for yourself. Doesn't have to be expensive. And women will want to be part of that.

[OmegaDiver]

She was unimpressed unfortunately. Women want a confident man who make them feel something.
I don't know you but I would work on this :

- Develop confidence. You might appear too nice if you joke around too much for exemple, and she will perceive it as a way to hide anxiety. Adopt a strong frame without being an asshole. Show her you like her but you don't care if you go back home alone.
This won't get you the girls itself but you won't be called nice guy anymore.

- Make her feel something. Men underestimate this too much. Even if you're confident she might perceive you as boring (unless you find a woman who's mostly after logical stuff, which is uncommon). So flirt, make her feel desired and she will desire you afterwards.

[Little_Bumblebee]

Think about this for a moment.
You're asking strangers online, who don't know you in person, why women lose interest in you after they meet you... in person...