What are the reasons why I always feel awkward while on a date?

[Anonymous]

[Crappants]

cos its not natural to talk to someone in that environment, ur jus meeting sum random stranger in a diner, its not a natural occurance, ur put on the spot and made to talk to this stranger u know nothing about, hard to know what to say,

usually people meet elsewhere like in the street or at some club and get to know each other by hanging out,
dunno why you would put urself on the spot like that and put urself through that awkwardness, id never go on a date lol

[Crappants]

also because u dont know what theyre thinking or how they are judging you,
if its someone u like and fancey u jus want them to have a good impression of you, but u have no idea how they would like u to act so u have no idea if ur turning them on or off

[Crappants]

best advice is jus not care and be urself, say what u want, act how u want, and if they like u, they like u... if they dont,. move on, not everyone can fancey u, but a lot of people can, see jus be urself n dont worry bout rejection

[Asker]

I'm finding g it hard to be comfortable around any guy these days

[Crappants]

same for girls, they block you for 99.9 percent of any comment you type, people are so sensitive its hard to judge what is acceptable to say without someone getting mad or hating you, i find its best to jus avoid people completely and live liek a hermit lol

[swashdeadlove]

Forget the results or consequences and you won't be, easier said than done , ik but ya that'd be a good start.

[sheikalana]

Perhaps there's no real connection between you and the people you're dating.

[Anonymous]

If you are only meeting for date, then you may be unknowingly forcing yourself to act a certain way. Don't date someone until you get to know them better and you know for sure you are attracted to them.

[Loveisgirthy]

That's a personal question haha. I've always tried to have game too much

[PrettyPriya]

Is it first date or first few?

[Asker]

First few now

[PrettyPriya]

You are still in the timeframe where it is easy to be a bit anxious and nervous. It gets better the more comfortable you become.

[Asker]

I see my other friends getting on with guys so easily

[PrettyPriya]

Some people are just quicker to open up. I think once you and the person you are dating spend some more time together, you will start to find similar interests and such to talk about. It will become more natural. Don't give up!

[Asker]

What happens if I always feel awkward with them

[PrettyPriya]

By awkward do you mean nervous or anxious?

[Asker]

Just like don't feel comfortable with them to get any deeper than a friend

[PrettyPriya]

Ah, so you are guarded. Were you hurt by someone in the past? Usually, it is figuring out why you don't let your guard down to try and fix that.

[fonduegirl]

Can be personal insecurities...

[Iron_Man]

Perhaps shyness

[In_Trance]

you tell us..