Why is it feeling awkward between a girl and I for no apparent reason?

[andre-48]

She has been acting more quietly with as oppose to other people. But then when she asked me how I went in trivia night, it randomly felt awkward. What is going on?

[FilmGuy93]

Because you're emotionally invested in her responses? She wouldn't have bothered asking you if you went to trivia night if she didn't at least like interacting with you

[andre-48]

She was at the trivia thing herself. I just like her that's all

[FilmGuy93]

It’s a shared interest and activity, man.

[andre-48]

Sorry what do you mean by shared interest

[FilmGuy93]

A shared interest is something that you have in common with someone else. You enjoy an activity that she also enjoys, so it’s an interest you share with her.

[andre-48]

Would there be a reason she talks to other guys so easily, but with me she is more quiet? That's what is making it hard cause I like her but I don't know if she just dislikes me

[FilmGuy93]

My guess is she probably just talks to the people who are more comfortable/receptive to talking. You seem like the kind of guy who would be nervous or give a closed-off vibe.

[slatyb]

She likes you or she wouldn't ask. What do you want?

[andre-48]

She wouldn't ask how I went in trivia. She was at the trivia too but in another team

[slatyb]

I mean she wouldn't bother engaging with you. If you want to date her, ask her.

[art84]

Does she make things feel awkward when talking to her?

[andre-48]

Yes. It's like she is nervous with me and it makes me feel nervous around her. I've seen her talk to other guys and she is perfectly fine, but with me it's different. I've only been nice to her.

Likebi sent her a message too, she read it very early in the morning at like 5am. She then replied to me at 3pm that afternoon. So clearly I must've crossed her mind in the afternoon hours later

[Bethany22]

It's hard to know without more details

[andre-48]

She talks normally to other people and guys. But with me she is really quiet. I haven't done anything to offend her 😔

[befuddledlady]

Perhaps she's just shy around you because she fancies you. People do tend to have similar behaviors to the one you explained when there's a bit of a crush.

[andre-48]

She was standing else where not near me last night. Next thing she randomly moves towards me to stand near me. But she isn't talking to me normally at the moment. We've spoken before too, she has angled her feet towards me in group settings in the past. But now she is acting like she is avoiding me for no reason.

[Bethany22]

Maybe she finds you more difficult to talk to then other people. Just try talking to her first instead of waiting for her to talk

[andre-48]

I've noticed when she and I are alone then she will start some conversation with me. But the one she started last night felt awkward. So I wouldn't say she is avoiding me completely cause she didn't have to say anything

[andre-48]

@befuddledlady what do you think?

[befuddledlady]

I'm getting the feeling she had something on her mind, it seems like something is gnawing at her brain. I think you should try and figure out what that is

[andre-48]

@befuddledlady what kind of thing on your mind do you think

[befuddledlady]

I wouldn't be able to say but, usually when I'm quiet around a guy it's either because they've done something, I'm uncomfortable or I'm nervous.

[andre-48]

@befuddledlady I haven't done anything to make her uncomfortable. I've literally just asked hello how are you etc. Honestly just innocent conversation

[andre-48]

But when you think about it if I was doing something or she felt uncomfortable she wouldn't stand near me or engage in a small conversation asking how I went in trivia