Why is Talking to girls so Awkward?

[Anonymous]

Like Every time I try to talk to a girl, it gets so awkward and Sometimes silent, I don't know why it happens, even if I don’t like (Like Like) them it’s still awkward, Pls Help me!

[dustybiker]

This is only going to ease with practice and experience. Talk to random people in public. Expect the first conversations to be awkward and claim them as experience. Learn and do things differently the next time. My biggest suggestion is to be genuine. Be yourself. You’ll have a much easier go of it than pretending to be something you aren’t. Do you have any easy-going friends who can help you with this? Go with you and initiate conversations in public, help ease the flow?

[Asker]

You don’t think I’m myself around people? I always try to be myself around everyone but I’m usually very quiet. I’m not really an Outgoing person in the first place unless it’s someone I’m Really comfortable and close to

[Parad0xlol]

Bro... I just talked to two Women... Shit was super awkward. It usually gets like this when you go through an interview for a position you want. 🤣

When You want something from someone and they have the power to either approve or disapprove well then the ball is in their court.

I got a a job specificity to help me overcome my fear of talking to women... Working for a Children International on the streets of NYC. I would approach the hottest girls... bro after a while you get so confident then you start noticing how nervous they can get around you! 👍😉😉

[Asker]

So how does that help and my question exactly?

[Parad0xlol]

Ok. I technically don't know what Awkward feels like for you. I also cannot answer as to why you feel what you feel due to not enough information from you.

I simply provided a personal example hoping that it may somehow relate to your experience.

[Anonymous]

Because you care and you want to make a good impression. There is nothing wrong about being shy. Actually I do think shy guys are more serious than the "too much in your face" type of guy.
Have more confidence in yourself. You're probably talented, good looking etc but you don't see it.
And in the case of a love interest, let's talk more about body language... yes don't miss the "language" in body language. Humans show more mutual attraction through eye contacts anyways

[PrettyPriya]

Sounds like you just get nervous. Maybe you are trying to hard to make “good” conversation when it should just flow naturally. Have something in you pocket to bring up if it gets awkward.

[Asker]

I’m really introverted and Shy, I suck at normal conversations cuz I can’t ever think of anything to say and It doesn’t help that the other is as introverted as me or doesn’t even try to help out in the conversation. It also doesn’t help to talk to people who don’t care

[PrettyPriya]

@asker

Being and introvert and talking to one as well is going to be tough. Maybe work on opening up a bit. Not a bad idea to have some talking points to bring up.

If she is shy too, it is going to be a tough conversation no matter what. Maybe a peaceful walk in a park is a good idea. No need to be constantly talking as if at a coffee shop. You can both walk, enjoy a nice day, no pressure to constantly be chatting.

[Anonymous]

It reminds me that my perspective on man to woman interactions or talking to women has changed