I really like this girl. Tonight the moment I saw I got this really sick feeling like my stomach turned upside down. I lost my appetite and everything.
She and I have spoken before but I certainly felt something happen. Lately when the two of us have been chatting it has felt slightly awkward for no reason.
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It might be awkward because you are expecting something like last time.
Leave it alone and let things occur naturally. If it comes back, great. If not, it wasn't meant to be. Don't force it.
She ended up starting like 3 conversations with me. One was " what are you drinking?". Another was " did it suddenly get louder in here". The asking if it got louder she could have asked anyone but she asked me
Hm. I don't know. Maybe give me more context?
She is a quieter with me as oppose to other people. She is acting normal towards other people in front of me. Then suddenly acting quieter with me
But she is engaging some conversation with me. I'm getting serious butterflies in my stomach when I see her, to the point I lose my appetite
Maybe she does like you. And maybe you should just bite the bullet and go for it. She might be nervous too.
It sounds like your nerves get the best of you. You might just need to be like an ice bath and jump in without thinking so much about it.
I can just feel something is going on. Cause there are moments when we have these mini chat engagements, there is a sense of endearment that I feel. Like we're drawn to each other
Are you confident enough to just bite the bullet and go for it?
I'm trying. It's just hard cause she is acting a little quiet too, which makes me feel doesn't like me. As she acts normal with others but not me
She might just be shy
Give we've spoken before
You and me? Or you and her?
Her and I
Was it long?
She and I have spoken plenty of times before
So why is it awkward now?
I don't know why. Nothing has been done or said that would upset her. I can't think of anything, the only thing that has changed is I've secretly developed stronger feelings for her
But I can tell she is trying to make some form of conversation, but asking me little random questions
That's your answer then. Maybe you just need to be candid and say something (if you can). Or else the awkward will wear you both down...
What is my answer?
It's awkward because you developed feelings
But I developed feelings cause she started treating me differently. Hence what made me realise I like her
Are you meaning both she and I developed feelings hence the reason it's awkward
Yeah. It sounds like it. Which isn't a bad thing.
So you think this whole thing I'm feeling/experiencing is just a mutual attraction with shyness involved?
Have you experienced any of this behaviour or from someone you know
I'm just guessing. I tend to ask out the people I like. I don't get awkward like that.
But this kind of behaviour can happen
I think so! Why don't you just try asking her out or something? You never know!
The other thing that happened was she was last to send me message. Her reply didn't require me to reply. Then about a week later at about 6:45am she sent me just a thumbs up. Now I know it was probably an accident. But what are the chances of accidentally opening a week old conversation. Could she have been digging around in the conversation and accidentally bumped the thumbs up
What are your thoughts on the thumbs up thing she sent accidentally
I have no idea on that one. At least she replied back!
She actually doubled texted me. She sent a message I didn't reply as it didn't require a response. Then a week later I got a random thumbs up